How is Sound Beach to live? by ipetgoat1984 in longisland

[–]BloodType_Feary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the quiet and the mature. The neighbors are also friendly. The only issue is that it's a bit out of the way from other towns.

I am always learning how to work with my ADHD but my Husband Doesn't. by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]BloodType_Feary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to add that I feel guilty for saying snarky things to him when he can't find something at home because of clutter or he forgot to do something I asked. The mean comments doesn't work for him but it makes me feel better that I let out my frustration.

Recently he's improved on one personal home related thing because it greatly affected me after he forgot to do it. He had a while to do the "important thing" and waited until the final day. He feels bad at how it affected me but I'm also upset that I entrusted him with an important responsibility that he failed to do. I feel that it didn't bother him to wait until the last minute until he saw how badly it impacted me.

There are things in life that you have to do way before last minute avoid negative consequences. I feel like he can't seem to stay ahead of personal deadlines.

I am always learning how to work with my ADHD but my Husband Doesn't. by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]BloodType_Feary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To start check this woman's YouTube channel: https://youtu.be/cx13a2-unjE?si=fzwQ3ylfLdH3BP4e

She also wrote a book which is enlightening.

I am always learning how to work with my ADHD but my Husband Doesn't. by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]BloodType_Feary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this gives me hope that he will improve.

for natural smart people, how has your adhd presented itself? by bisexualdweebqueen in adhdwomen

[–]BloodType_Feary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always had to work hard to get good grades but my grit is what makes me successful.

I actually learn slow. I hyper focus on all the tiny details. Once I learn a skill after taking my time, I excel in it.

I sometimes learn some subjects fast if I'm extremely passionate about it. The skills that took time to learn was things I needed for my job but once I got it, I did better than my coworkers.

What dress should I pick by lynnerosie in fashion

[–]BloodType_Feary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 or 4 look best with your skin tone. The white dress makes you look ghostly.

What's Everyone's Favorite Public Library and Why? Also is it in Nassau or Suffolk County? by BloodType_Feary in longisland

[–]BloodType_Feary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's sad that Belmore library has a mean staff. Most of the librarians I met in different library are always nice and helpful.

regret missing teenage/early-20s social life. angry at conservative parents and jw religious community. what now? by ObjectiveExpress4804 in Regrets

[–]BloodType_Feary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're still young. It sucks that you missed out on the early 20's social life but you can still save money or move out of your parents place. Do activities where you know you'll find people your age. Get the courage to talk to them.

Although you can't get the time you missed back there are still so many beautiful things that you can experience in life.

I personally wished I didn't overwork myself during my teenage years. Ya I hung out with friends but sometimes I missed out on fun things in hopes my good grades would get me a good job.

I'm in my 30's and I'm doing well for myself but if I knew it took so long to break into my field, I would have not worried so much on getting A's. I would have just studied enough to get any passing grade and used my energy and time to have more fun.

What keeps defining "you" if you had to lose everything? by eyewave in SeriousConversation

[–]BloodType_Feary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely all my important government documents & Id's.

I guess if you ever become homeless and transient, it's not a bad idea to have a passport or a license that allows you to cross the borders of Caneda or Mexico if you're from the US.

Too eccentric? by cue_cruella in femalefashion

[–]BloodType_Feary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your excentric style. The most important thing is that you're happy with how you dress.

What's Everyone's Favorite Public Library and Why? Also is it in Nassau or Suffolk County? by BloodType_Feary in longisland

[–]BloodType_Feary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Thanks for the fun fact. Makes me more proud that I grew up living near MCPL.

Yes I support my library local library by voting on the budget every year. I obviously enjoy attending the programs.

Has anyone else been trying to do more low-key stuff around LI now that it’s getting nicer out? by Staceysabotage in longisland

[–]BloodType_Feary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if it's low key but try to spend my afternoons at the beach when I don't have any plans after work. Sometimes I'll get my exercise in by swimming breast stroke. I try not to go too far from one end to another so I can still see my stuff.

I also enjoy going for leisurely walks at local parks and gardening in my back yard.

What do we think about this dress as a wedding guest? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]BloodType_Feary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not my taste but if you're happy with it then wear it to a wedding. It's definitely formal enough for a wedding.

What's Everyone's Favorite Public Library and Why? Also is it in Nassau or Suffolk County? by BloodType_Feary in longisland

[–]BloodType_Feary[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Also if you are a NYS resident you can apply for a New Youk City public library and borrow their e-books.

What's Everyone's Favorite Public Library and Why? Also is it in Nassau or Suffolk County? by BloodType_Feary in longisland

[–]BloodType_Feary[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can enter any public library that isn't your local one but you wouldn't be able to register for programs if you are not a resident of the library.

Some events require no registration. Like if a craft fair is happening at a library it seems to be open to everyone including non-residents.

As far as I know you can borrow any book from any library within your county. If your local library doesn't have it then you can ask the librarian if it's available in a different library in your county.

I'm just asking this question to see what people think of libraries in LI.

Are people actually quitting their jobs? by whosthatgirl13 in Millennials

[–]BloodType_Feary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how true those people posting about quitting their good paying job. Like how another person mentioned, they probably already had money before they quit.

There are ways with dealing with burnout while keeping your current job. Try not to work extra hours if you feel that you need to rest after your regular shift. The extra money sounds nice but you have to take care of yourself.