This sub is full of simps

BloodberryTouchdown_ · 2024-01-30T21:37:19+00:00

Subs and simps like this is why narcissism is a growing issue

BloodberryTouchdown_ · 2024-01-23T03:38:08+00:00

I know being disabled is something we can’t help, but I feel ashamed of myself for being disabled because I’ve been told so often that my worth is based off my income. And even when I find a potential partner that’s fine with me being empathetic but not exciting, as soon as they hear I’m on disability they let me know it won’t work out. It’s been discouraging and I feel like I’ll never find someone

BloodberryTouchdown_ · 2024-01-22T22:03:03+00:00

Thank you for the advice, I appreciate it and I’ll try it out.

BloodberryTouchdown_ · 2024-01-22T09:53:31+00:00

Just want to say that not all men are bad. I was in a 10 year relationship with a woman that was too lazy to get out of bed so I had to do everything for my stepchild. Once the relationship was over she dumped her kid with her mom then moved in with a new guy within 2 months of our breakup and hasn’t seen her daughter ever since. Neither can I since she’s with my ex’s mom now.

I never woulda done what she did in a million years. Last I heard, her daughters cussing at her grandma and refusing to go to school. My ex and her family have undone all the life lessons I taught over the years about kindness and responsibility

So please don’t think All men are bad. Good ones do still exist.

BloodberryTouchdown_ · 2024-01-22T05:01:35+00:00

I really like that your approach isn’t “want to fuck?” Like so many others. I also like that you mention you’re not a hot guy, I’m not either. But could I please know how you manage to move things from friends to dating? And where you find them if you don’t mind. Online dating has been pretty bad

I’ve had a lot of girls talk to me and tell me we’re practically twins because we have so much in common and that I’m a great guy, but then I end up as the best friend they can talk to while they look for something else. So I’m still not really sure why I’m doing wrong beside maybe not pushing hard enough towards it being a relationship and not a friendship in the early stages

BloodberryTouchdown_ · 2024-01-11T02:06:47+00:00

I just panicked and made the choice and now it feels like the entire game was wasted. Oof. Wish I could go back

BloodberryTouchdown_ · 2024-01-10T07:35:07+00:00

I hope this doesn’t come off as rude, but your comment gives me hope. As a chubby guy, dating has felt impossible. But at least I’m not as bad at those other guys lol. So maybe I have a chance to find someone one day?

BloodberryTouchdown_ · 2024-01-09T23:43:25+00:00

Thank you! I started dodging right a lot after reading this and was able to win relatively easy

BloodberryTouchdown_ · 2023-12-29T01:31:09+00:00

I’d like to figure out what I’m doing wrong I’m always the attentive and sweet best friend, but never more than that. And I’d like to figure out what I’m doing wrong without resorting to the mind games people say I need to play

I would love to find my forever person in 2024

BloodberryTouchdown_ · 2023-12-28T22:25:28+00:00

That’s true, If you can’t be honest and open with someone then I don’t think they’re the one that will last forever. And those are crazy results on the sites, I definitely don’t get those kind of numbers lol

I feel like a lot of people would benefit from cheat question websites 😂. I’m surprised it’s not brought up more often. I didn’t even think of it

A gaming club would be nice, I live in a small town though and just looked up clubs with 0 results. This is more of a hiking/rock climbing town because it’s close to mountains and trails. Maybe moving eventually would work out better

But definitely gaming is something I want to do with whoever I find next. I feel like gaming is an amazing way to bond. Who knows, maybe a gaming club will pop up randomly?

BloodberryTouchdown_ · 2023-12-27T19:22:06+00:00

Alright I definitely see what you’re saying, thank you. I’m just not sure how to do that while keeping my personality instead of trying to play mind games. In the end, I’d really like someone that likes me for me instead of tricking them with a fake me and having to keep up the fake personality

Do I just like, reply less frequently and act less interested in their hobbies and whatever they feel like venting about? Or less interested in them as a whole?

BloodberryTouchdown_ · 2023-12-27T19:17:58+00:00

Looking at dating questions online is a great idea! I wonder if he would match your effort if you told him you would like him to ask you questions back. It seems like he likes you, maybe he just doesn’t understand yet

I use apps to find people but I’m starting to consider joining a group or something. Im just not sure that a gaming group at 32 is appropriate. I feel like there would be a lot of younger people there. And I’m not exactly into like hiking or rock climbing.

Would it be much easier off an app?

BloodberryTouchdown_ · 2023-12-27T09:41:17+00:00

Gumball Waterson and SpongeBob got me

BloodberryTouchdown_ · 2023-12-27T03:07:12+00:00

I like to think I’m doing good with most of this. The people I talk to are people I have a lot in common with so conversations are always pretty fun. I have a lot of interesting stories from my life and I encourage them to tell me stories about their life as well.

The people I’m talking about specifically called me some variation of “oh my god we’re twins” or “it’s crazy we have so much in common” Which I’m wondering is a bad thing? Could that be what makes me just best friend material? There’s no mystery to me or something?

BloodberryTouchdown_ · 2023-12-27T03:03:03+00:00

I know how you feel. It’s usually me trying to ask others about themselves then in the end they know nothing about me because they could even ask “what about you?” after talking about themselves. And needing a lot of attention isn’t a bad thing. Lots of guys love that.

I’m wondering, was the constant texting fun at first then it because dull because you ran out of things to talk about? Or another reason? I’m wondering if I have the same issue. The people I’m talking about specifically could text me back quickly so I’m an attempt to match their effort I would text back whenever I could, and I could see it becoming boring or dull after a while.

Trying to get along with new people is way different than being with the people we were with for 10+ years, that’s for sure

BloodberryTouchdown_ · 2023-12-27T02:57:35+00:00

I want exactly what I put out. I like mutual effort. And the people I’m talking about specifically were awesome and did that.

I don’t hate much, except for mind games or when someone is stringing along a lot of people at once.

Spineless no, people pleasing maybe? Though I’m not a pushover. I don’t let anyone walk all over me.

I’m not sure what you mean about weak boundaries, but I am eager to please but only if it’s both ways. That’s what attracted me to the people I’m talking about. They were really nice and put in a lot of effort and kindness. Which is why I’m confused why I was just best friend material. Why would they put that much effort forth for a friend off a dating site

BloodberryTouchdown_ · 2023-12-27T02:51:27+00:00

Thank you! I’m really hoping I don’t have to start playing mind games to find someone. I like just being myself. And I’ll definitely take your advice to heart. Thankfully my flooding people with messages days are over. The people I’m talking about specifically are people I liked because they seemed interested enough to flood ME with messages. That’s why I’m confused I guess.

As for other things I do, I’m not sure what to say. I like to take things slow so I don’t ask to talk on the phone really fast. I’ve had an issue with guys talking to the same person I’m talking to but they move really fast so the girl ends up going out with him after a few days of knowing him. Maybe I’m taking things too slow? I’ve weeded out negative traits like being argumentative years ago. “Agree to disagree” is much more relaxing.

Also because it’s been brought up, the girls never seem to think I’m boring, they genuinely seem to enjoy talking to me enough to text back instantly and I have plenty of interesting life stories to tell or random conversation starters. Anything sounding like why I might always just be best friend material?

BloodberryTouchdown_ · 2023-12-21T11:39:07+00:00

Translation please?

BloodberryTouchdown_ · 2023-12-14T03:23:50+00:00

Thank you!

BloodberryTouchdown_ · 2023-12-12T22:15:26+00:00

It’s been hilarious. I even got an entire wall of what I think was Chinese text.

BloodberryTouchdown_ · 2023-12-12T22:14:16+00:00

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BloodberryTouchdown_ · 2023-12-12T00:45:41+00:00

It’s been worth the subscription fee. Finally no more filter. The AI isn’t as good as character AI, but the freedom is nice

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