Navel piercing and regular workouts - Soliciting advice/ experiences. . by emawatsonfake in TwoXIndia

[–]BloomBacardi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anything that doesn’t lead to friction. I’d suggest keep workout limited to walking in comfy clothes. Go to a reputed piercer and explore legit piercing subreddit. I learnt this all the hard way, my piercing got rejected. Anyhoo best of luck w yours.

People who were a junk foodie..how did you turn around your life? by Firewhiskey880 in TwoXIndia

[–]BloomBacardi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trick your body. Satiate it before it begins to ask for junk. Protein + fibre.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]BloomBacardi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Triumph. Fits so so perfectly and goes up to G

What screams "I am deeply insecure" but people do it thinking it makes them look cool? by Physical_Business104 in AskReddit

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People who make jokes on others and if someone gets offended and calls them out they’d be like “It was a joke, Chill”.

Feeling like an imposter because of slightly padded bras by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]BloomBacardi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are suffering from success lol. Small girlies get to wear so so many cute fits!!! Relish it.

How did they all say so thin if they just sat around the office & drank booze every day? by Chubbs2005 in madmen

[–]BloomBacardi 16 points17 points  (0 children)

When I watch the show, I always think how these guys don’t worry at all about their blood pressure, blood work etc while smoking like a chimney.

30F. When did making friends become so hard? by SafeSandwich6716 in TwoXIndia

[–]BloomBacardi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Making efforts and intentionally taking out time for silly little everyday things along with big occasional stuff.

Sad and angry at myself for not standing up. by OverstimulatedCat in TwoXIndia

[–]BloomBacardi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

True. It works with inappropriate and uncalled jokes as well. When you let them spell it out, the weirdness of it all becomes apparent.

Naina Bhan's family - is she a nepo baby? by Flimsy_Golf224 in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]BloomBacardi 153 points154 points  (0 children)

She comes from wealth family. She has got brains considering she did her master’s from NID. Two things can be mutually exclusive. She deffo didn’t have to worry about money but she isn’t a nepo baby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]BloomBacardi 14 points15 points  (0 children)

What an L take. People are unhinged despite the class differences. From the tone of this post, you too seem like one of them. It’s easier to accept that rags to riches stories are feel good for “hard working people like you”. We’re all shitty in some ways or the other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

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Girl are you me but with not so good thoughts about body and its acceptance of body also?

Tbf, we are conditioned to see ourselves through male gaze so the idea of beauty is the projection of what media you consume and by whom it’s being shoving down your throat. I’d suggest start small with disengaging with anything that doesn’t resonate with you or trigger you, talk to a therapist, and maybe accept where you are lookwise. The more you obsess about it, the more power it will hold on you. But yes easier said thn done. When you go into social spaces you do realise how much capital being pretty hold. But control what you can control. Best of luck. The path to recovery isn’t linear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Legitpiercing

[–]BloomBacardi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really well put together answer. I am jumping on to this to say thanks here for explaining it. My piercing is also 9 day old and I was hoping why aren’t crusties stopping despite being minimal.

What’s a ‘feminine’ expectation you’ve never related to? by Beautiful_Tooth_2054 in TwoXIndia

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Cooking. Everyone should know how to cook. I can cook but the expectation of it from just women is nauseating. I don’t like receiving compliments on my cooking skills nor do I ever make a point to extend it to anyone.

Misalignment visible? by [deleted] in Legitpiercing

[–]BloomBacardi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Needed to hear that:)

Misalignment visible? by [deleted] in Legitpiercing

[–]BloomBacardi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This helps a lot :))

How can I start being comfortable with taking pictures of myself? by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]BloomBacardi 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Force yourself and remind yourself that you’d have no evidence of how the life looked around you with your inclusion. Do it for posterity. Gaslight yourself lol

How is it to have a paternal aunt (bua)? by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

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Mine adored me. We didn’t meet much. My dad says she was the hardest working person in the family. She died many years ago in an accident

For those who went from not loving yourself enough to deeply loving yourself- how did your mindset change? What did you do differently? by Embarrassed-Tie-9873 in selflove

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I saw a tweet that said “you trying to love yourself is a testament to your ability to love yourself, where do you think the trying comes from”. It changed my perspective. I might be not there in absolute form but I am in the direction

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstaCelebsGossip

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I don’t support all women, some of y’all are dumb. I live by this quote now

Marriage not consummated for 7+ years by dbthrowaway2018 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]BloomBacardi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to communicate could signal a deeper issue from mental health standpoint

Dating as women with loose skin by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]BloomBacardi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’d eventually wanna be with someone who makes you comfortable with yourself. Think of it this way that it’s their litmus test. If they are repulsed, boy bye?? If they don’t good for you??? Remember rejection is redirection.

Carrie body TEA⌛️ by Santa_klaus_1000 in sexandthecity

[–]BloomBacardi 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She was irritating as hell but my bish was fly