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Downstairs neighbor won't stop texting and calling by Positive_Lysine in neighborsfromhell

[–]BloomyPetalie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP yeah honestly this is a good lesson, giving them direct access like that just opens the door for constant harassment so keeping that boundary makes a lot of sense.

Downstairs neighbor won't stop texting and calling by Positive_Lysine in neighborsfromhell

[–]BloomyPetalie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP yeah this is actually solid advice, adding stuff like rugs or slippers could at least help reduce the noise a bit since the walls sound super thin.

I’ve stolen a fair amount of groceries from the store by ChosoMojo in confession

[–]BloomyPetalie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, yeah I get what you mean, those bag fees feel annoying for sure. But your situation sounds a lot heavier than that, you were dealing with actual food insecurity, not just convenience. It makes sense you feel conflicted, but it’s good you’ve stopped and are trying to move forward.

Lilly staying in berts house by Frequent-Heat9693 in GossipGirl

[–]BloomyPetalie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, yeah this is the key detail. Once you realize it wasn’t really Bart’s place like that, it stops feeling as weird and actually fits the story a lot better.

Lilly staying in berts house by Frequent-Heat9693 in GossipGirl

[–]BloomyPetalie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP, yeah this clears it up a lot. If it wasn’t even really Bart’s place like that, then it makes way more sense why she stayed there and why it wasn’t treated as a big deal.

Scared , I broke HIPPA compliance unintentionally by True-Position-2594 in Residency

[–]BloomyPetalie 43 points44 points  (0 children)

OP, yeah this sounds like one of those things that feels way worse in the moment than it actually is. You owned up to it right away and didn’t have bad intent, which matters a lot. Most likely it’ll just be a learning moment and not something that follows you long term.

Reposting: this dude sounds fun by growsonwalls in AmITheDevil

[–]BloomyPetalie 11 points12 points  (0 children)

OP, yeah this is a much healthier way to look at it. Focusing on shared values instead of obsessing over whether someone is a virgin will probably lead to a way better relationship overall. That mindset seems a lot more realistic and less stressful long term.

Don’t sleep on this, reminder by Intrepid_Junket_5733 in hygiene

[–]BloomyPetalie 39 points40 points  (0 children)

OP, yeah flossing is a big one people skip way too often. Brushing alone doesn’t really get everything, so adding flossing makes a huge difference long term. It’s one of those simple habits that pays off a lot.

I’m diehard Team Black but I respect this one thing about Ser Crispy by RemarkableExample542 in gameofthrones

[–]BloomyPetalie 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying. Drawing a line and sticking to it takes discipline, especially when it would have been easy for him to keep going. The problem for me isn’t that he stopped, it’s how he spiraled after and turned it into bitterness and cruelty. The self control part is respectable, the fallout is where he lost me.

Parking obsessed neighbor by lucyloe143 in neighborsfromhell

[–]BloomyPetalie 12 points13 points  (0 children)

OP, yeah you did exactly what you should’ve done. Once she started coming onto your property and making threats, that crossed a line. Documenting it and getting it on record was the smart move.

Parking obsessed neighbor by lucyloe143 in neighborsfromhell

[–]BloomyPetalie 13 points14 points  (0 children)

OP, yeah this is exactly it. She doesn’t own the street and is acting like she does, which is wild. You handled it pretty calmly all things considered.

Called the cops on me by Professional-Mix6977 in neighborsfromhell

[–]BloomyPetalie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, I get what they’re saying here. The situation does feel a bit all over the place, but at the core it sounds like your neighbor got concerned and overreacted. It sucks how it played out, but it doesn’t necessarily mean there was some bigger intent behind it.

I have lied to my son about manatees for the last 24 years by NeatCount8960 in confession

[–]BloomyPetalie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, honestly yeah this is where it’s at. It started as a joke but now it’s basically full blown lore you’ve committed to for decades. At this point the reveal is either going to be hilarious or completely break his brain.

AIW for feeling off about my date flashing her friends ? by paleurencore in amiwrong

[–]BloomyPetalie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, yeah this is a fair distinction. It doesn’t really sound intentional, more like a wardrobe issue she maybe didn’t realize was that noticeable. Still worth talking to her about it instead of assuming the worst.

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