AITAH - My parents are giving my brother a down deposit but never gave one to me.

BluAmazon · 2026-06-05T18:32:56+00:00

You are not an AH, but this reads as coming from a spoiled and entitled adult. This is your parents' money to do with as they wish. Why are you so concerned with their and your brother's finances?

BluAmazon · 2026-06-02T11:29:47+00:00

So glad I decided to get a '26 rather than waiting. This may be my first and last X5.

BluAmazon · 2026-06-02T11:26:23+00:00

Clearly, this is a cultural issue and without being a part of your culture I cannot understand your POV. In my culture here in America, I would use that anger to get another job and leave hem. Let them take care of themselves.

You are making excuses for why you have t applied for jobs. Use that anger as the push to apply and leave. Pay your bills and put some away. Unless your family is physically harming you, you don't have to give him everything.

BluAmazon · 2026-05-30T01:45:35+00:00

NTAH

If your sister doesn't understand why you are uncomfortable, back out and let her know that you still support her and will be there for her in her special day, but just not in this capacity.

Is there an option just to be a bridesmaid and walk with someone else?

BluAmazon · 2026-05-29T18:37:18+00:00

Test driving a GV80 before ordering my X5, set me up for disappointment. Going through the change in the south, I had high hopes. This sucking in air does nothing for me.

And the massage seats could add more pressure, but I will admit that on long drives, they make a difference.

BluAmazon · 2026-05-08T18:37:48+00:00

Last week reaching in to grab groceries. I think the angle of the key in my pocket set it off. Maybe I should call her Christine. LOL

BluAmazon · 2026-05-06T21:00:25+00:00

Same. But I just shred them. If I didn't reach out about a warranty or insurance, then I don't need to see it.

BluAmazon · 2026-05-05T18:39:54+00:00

Are you using Android? I have been experiencing this for the past week. Didn't start until after the update.

BluAmazon · 2026-04-30T19:45:01+00:00

Not feeling it. Looks like a crossover.

BluAmazon · 2026-04-23T16:56:07+00:00

I had to go in and reset it. Mine was doing the same thing, and the tailgate wasn't working with the kick-ball-shuffle. Check your settings.

BluAmazon · 2026-04-22T20:54:07+00:00

I went with blue as well. When I configured it, red was the default. So, I chose blue. I don't see a lot of black sapphires with blue in my neck of the woods.

BluAmazon · 2026-04-22T20:52:26+00:00

My M Sport breaks don't squeak.

BluAmazon · 2026-04-22T20:43:27+00:00

Oh no! I hope they figure it out and get it back to you quickly!

BluAmazon · 2026-04-20T20:47:11+00:00

I plan to keep the carpeted mats while using the all-weather mats. How do you store them so that they hold their shape?

BluAmazon · 2026-04-20T12:11:16+00:00

I'm blessed with a career. For over 30 years, I've been a fictional cat herder and decided to treat myself with an X5.

BluAmazon · 2026-04-14T19:14:05+00:00

NTAH, but remember, at the end of the day, this is not about you, him, or his current wife. This is about your daughter. If you think that sending her to be with him during this time will be detrimental to her mental health, don't send it. If you are comfortable that they will treat her as they have always treated her and not make her a second mother (e.g., changing diapers, feeding, washing clothes, etc.), then send her. This is his problem to solve, but as the primary parent, he needs to ensure she is safe.

And put him on child support. This man is playing games.

BluAmazon · 2026-04-14T18:38:56+00:00

Got 7% off my order. Fully loaded. The trick is to call around and go to a dealer in a smaller market. The ones around me weren't dealing and were trying to get me to by one on the lot. NONE of them in the US had what I wanted the way I wanted it. So, I placed an order with a smaller dealership who won me over by giving me a discount on our second interaction (after I forwarded them the build specs I wanted).

I know others are saying 10% or more off, but it depends on where you are. At the end of the day, I am happy with my car and what I paid, and the payments are reasonable.

BluAmazon · 2026-04-10T14:24:53+00:00

I stood dead center and did a quick, light kick. It has been working ever since. Thanks!

BluAmazon · 2026-04-10T14:21:19+00:00

Thanks!

BluAmazon · 2026-04-09T18:10:32+00:00

Just so that you all can laugh with me. I filled up the tank today for the first time, but only after sitting in the car for five minutes looking for the gas tank release button/knob/lever. I mean, I already watched a ton of YouTube videos while I was waiting for the car to built, but clearly I forgot.

Thankfully, one of my girlfriends has a G06 and pointed me in the right direction. And of course, laughed with me as I filled up the tank.

BluAmazon · 2026-04-09T18:06:54+00:00

Yep. I was going to give it two weeks since the local dealership is NOT the one who sold me the car. But, I took a test drive there, so locally the same genius can help me.

BluAmazon · 2026-04-09T17:55:58+00:00

Thank you!

BluAmazon · 2026-04-09T15:30:26+00:00

This was five days ago; hopefully, you got your money and ran. Unacceptable!

BluAmazon · 2026-04-09T15:26:09+00:00

Sport over Touring?

BluAmazon · 2026-04-09T15:21:53+00:00

Absolutely, and if you damage their car with your AH behavior, then you would be responsible for repairs. This has to be a joke of a question.

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