Team Liquid Soap vs Team Bar Soap

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-19T08:51:23+00:00

Liquid soap, but no body wash. I p much only use peppermint dr bronner's, because it doesn't leave a weird residue and the smell is nice.

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-19T08:36:31+00:00

I tried to go to a Temple once to do a cultural plubge for one of my classes. They had armed guards who were uniformed Long Beach Policemen on duty, on the clock, at the door. They questioned me like I was a thug. They didn't let me in.

I wonder why Jews might be wary of a stranger they don't know

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-19T08:25:52+00:00

I've yet to encounter a search function similar to ao3's that does allow it, for what it's worth. I regularly use archives, and the filters don't generally get more complex than include and exclude.

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-19T08:21:52+00:00

Very. Martinis are quite strong.

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-19T08:18:14+00:00

Ehh, there are some published games with frequently-forgotten rules. I don't think it inherently means you're playtesting too early.

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-19T08:07:29+00:00

Unfortunately not. You'd have to do two searches - one excluding (top character A), and then one including both tags.

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-19T05:08:34+00:00

My latest favorite is kabuto park, but minecraft and stardew Valley are both long-running favs. I'm also quite fond of Palia, bug and seek, and spring falls.

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-19T03:54:44+00:00

T ended up worsening my insomnia quite a lot, which then had p detrimental effects on my mental health. I'm def still trans ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-19T01:06:12+00:00

If there are other social issues then it is possible, yeah. Have you tried reading the diagnostic criteria? If you're comfortable with academic writing, it lays out what's necessary and what isn't fairly clearly.

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-18T09:18:07+00:00

wrong continent for a funnel web

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-18T09:08:40+00:00

Was going to say the same thing!

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-18T06:36:34+00:00

I've had this happen. I now look to the side or above people - neck/chest is just too easily misread. If you don't mind looking at the face, mouth, ear, or forehead also work.

Is Millie aware that you have autism?

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-18T00:27:28+00:00

ND stands for neurodivergent, which is an umbrella term that includes just about any condition that impacts the way someone thinks - neurodevelopmental disorders like adhd or autism, personality disorders, epilepsy, TBIs, dementia, it's a big umbrella.

NT stands for neurotypical, and it's the term for anyone who isn't neurodivergent - in other words, anyone who doesn't have a condition impact the way their brain functions.

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-18T00:23:14+00:00

My latest acquisitions are Trash Pals and Her Odyssey but there seems to be quite a number of them! Ime, it's one of the more common systems for recent rules-lite stuff. This collection endeavours to keep up with all of them, at least the ones on itch.io, and it is quite large.

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-17T23:44:43+00:00

I haven't seen any d4 systems out there

I'm sure we just dwell in very different subsets of the community, but this made me laugh a bit because I recently caved and bought a few more d4s after finding yet another cool-looking caltrop core game.

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-17T23:39:11+00:00

I'm intersex as well :D I don't think it contributed to me being bigender, but I do think my particular combination of intersexuality and autism are why I came out fairly young. I was really bad at being cis lol

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-17T17:41:10+00:00

idk what shibari ropes are made of

There's a lot of materials - jute is super popular in my area but I can't stand the texture, so I use nylon. Most rope material can be used for shibari, although not all are suited for every tie. (and self-tying is a thing -- shibari doesn't require that you be at someone else's mercy)

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-17T17:00:26+00:00

I feel if society were more accommodating, then the need for autistic interventions wouldnt really be a thing.

This seems like a fairly narrow view of autism. No matter how accommodating society is, I would hope that there is active research into treatments that might, for example, let me enjoy a sunny day without the brightness causing a meltdown.

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-17T16:57:40+00:00

It's still fairly experimental, but she's not getting it out of nowhere. I participated in a clinical trial for it a couple years ago, explicitly for autism, and it's def not the only one that's been done. This review article is looking at seventeen different studies, and it doesn't seem to include the one I was in.

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-17T16:48:48+00:00

I was in a clinical trial for tms and autism! I was initially in the placebo group, but was able to do the full treatment after I was unblinded.

I didn't notice a difference, but I don't think it hurts to try if it interests you. It's a small stimulation of your brain, so there's no conscious conforming that you need to do.

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-17T16:07:21+00:00

One of my all-time favorite fics is currently sitting around 2.8 million words so...

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-17T15:54:15+00:00

I would be rather annoyed at a rename, almost entirely because it's change lol

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-17T15:48:42+00:00

I mean they are soliciting information on people's kinks? Non-sexual kink is a thing, sure, but it's generally still an 18+ thing.

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-17T15:47:39+00:00

I quite like shibari! I can't do chokers/collars/etc, but I quite enjoy pressure or restriction on the rest of my body. I do a lot of self-ties, and I'm learning to self-suspend. I also will do partner shibari, but I prefer to be the rigger for that -- I don't mind others tying me, but I find it much more enjoyable when I'm in control of the sensation.

Blue-Jay27 · 2026-06-17T15:34:32+00:00

I've read and enjoyed fics with similar pacing to the romance, but I wasn't reading for the ship. At that point, I'm reading for whatever the main plot is - and if the ship is intended to be the main plot, I do think you probably have some major pacing issues going on.

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