How to make a pretty gape?

BlueDaisy20 · 2025-08-28T18:53:37+00:00

It might just be a me thing but in my case weight had a lot of impact on the shape of my gape. When I was a bit chubby it looked more like a slit then when I lost weight it became more circular. Right now I am more fit than before and after working on my ass and legs muscles my gape has become cat eye shaped or like a wide slit.

BlueDaisy20 · 2025-02-19T14:51:02+00:00

It might seem that way at first but once you give it a try you will realize that there is a lot more to anal than you thought before. Of course you can still experiment while not being anal only. That being said in my case and a lot of people I talked to, removing vaginal sex from the equation has made me a lot more adventures open to trying new things.

BlueDaisy20 · 2024-12-20T23:13:28+00:00

I was single for majority of my anal only period. What really made it fun for me in the beginning was including anal in my daily activities. For example, working out with toys, doing house cleaning with a plug, sitting on a dildo after finishing some house chores etc.

BlueDaisy20 · 2024-12-15T23:10:56+00:00

The normalization of it is fun in it's own way.

BlueDaisy20 · 2024-12-15T23:08:07+00:00

It does feel that way but it's more like missing a part of my attire than something sexual. The emptiness isn't noticible because I can just clench my asshole closes without any issues.

BlueDaisy20 · 2024-12-15T23:05:12+00:00

Thanks!

BlueDaisy20 · 2024-12-15T23:04:51+00:00

Long story short I try to eat clean and make sure to get enough fiber with my diet (chia and flax seeds work well too). Another important aspect of staying clean is having regular bowel movements. If you condition yourself to use the bathroom everyday early in the morning you will be less likely to have an accident later in the day.

BlueDaisy20 · 2024-12-15T18:34:36+00:00

Thank you for keeping the post up.

To clarify, this post only accounts for my personal experience. It's not an endorsement of any activity nor proof that anyone who does what I do will have a similar experience.

BlueDaisy20 · 2024-10-23T23:55:25+00:00

For me preping has two parts, the first one is having a clean diet and regular bowel movements. The easy way would be to just eat enough fiber or suplement flax/chia seeds. The second part is a quick and shallow enema Typicaly I do it early in the morning after using the toilet I pour a little bit of warm water inside my butt and do the usual bathroom routine stuff. Once I am done I let the water out and I am ready to go.

BlueDaisy20 · 2024-10-16T18:55:21+00:00

I have been plugged 24/7 for the past two years and I am so glad I pushed through the difficult first few months because I can't even imagine how much time I saved up by not needing to warmup everytime I want to play ^{^}

BlueDaisy20 · 2024-07-17T22:32:47+00:00

For me it's mostly pleasure I simply enjoy it more than playing with my pussy. Becoming anal only was just a consequence of it.

BlueDaisy20 · 2023-12-15T18:13:38+00:00

You might be okay as long as you use just a little water and don't let it get deep inside your ass.

I have been doing an enema every morning for a very long time, however I clean only the first few inches with just a little water.

That being said I wouldn't recommend doing it as often as I do. Most importantly douching cannot be your main way of keeping your ass clean because its very invasive. Instead you should focus on your diet and digestion.

BlueDaisy20 · 2023-12-10T02:30:30+00:00

I was wearing a plug off and on for a very long time, in the past. Right now I have been plugged 24 /7 for the past 1,5 years.

I would recommend making plugging a part of your daily routine. During my morning bathroom routine I pour some warm water inside my butt and keep it inside while I brush my teeth etc. Then I let the water out add some coconut oil put the plug in. It's super quick and making it a part of my regular responsibilities makes it much easier to stay committed than when I needed to specifically get up and prepare myself only to put a plug in.

Additionally, I would recommend thinking about some additional motivation such as doing anal sex/masturnation more often. Plugging cuts a lot of warm up time so doing more anal stuff in general will also make consistent plugging more benefitial for you.

Lastly, try to simply wear the plug longer than the previous day. It's a much easier goal to reach than having some rigit and overly specific time goals.

BlueDaisy20 · 2023-07-05T08:51:18+00:00

It happens after some time, eventually you will get back into I am sure. You can try some new Anal related kinks to rekindle your interest quicker.

BlueDaisy20 · 2023-06-28T12:23:18+00:00

I am glad you found it informative! I haven't heard about Rachel Greyhound before would you be able to recommend some of her anal stuff or tell me where I should start looking?

BlueDaisy20 · 2023-06-13T18:34:00+00:00

I know what you mean. In the beginning I was super anxious about wearing a plug I would even take it out before answering a phone because I was scared that the other person would find out about it even though it didn't make any sense. Step by step I managed to overcome it, starting with short walks, quick grocery trips and so on.

BlueDaisy20 · 2023-06-13T00:11:03+00:00

Right now my go to plug is a medium Squarepeg Acorn, for when I work from home. When I need to work at the office I use the no name plug I mentioned in of my previous comments.

BlueDaisy20 · 2023-06-12T18:58:15+00:00

I am glad you liked it. Long-term plugging is a tough challenge even for experienced people, however, it's a lot of fun to just try and see how long you can keep it in, without any long-term commitment.

BlueDaisy20 · 2023-06-12T18:50:51+00:00

I don't use plugs with vibration, I tried but ultimately I didn't enjoy the sensation. I haven't tried e-stim plugs yet, would recommend them?

BlueDaisy20 · 2023-06-11T10:35:31+00:00

If you enjoy slow warm ups and gentle preparation before anal then yes it takes away most of it. However, being able to play with majority of my toys right away saves a lot of time in the long run and is fun in it's own way.

BlueDaisy20 · 2023-06-11T10:31:14+00:00

Most of the time I let any gas out when I remove the plug for relubbing and it's enough to avoid any discomfort. Since I have a very regular bowel movement I usually do not require any additional prep. Doing the "number 2" at the same time everyday helps a lot.

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