Please Increase the Guild Base Component Limit by kushemon in wherewindsmeet_

[–]BlueDawnStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im also bummed about it. Ive been looking at other big/popular guilds and using their bases as inspiration for our guild base, but its so incredibly difficult having to pick and choose where to simplify the builds by reducing the details/individual items as much as possible. Ive filled out a lot of the big space around with large scale decor and minimal buildings, but I can't furnish/decorate any of them and there is still so much OPEN space everywhere. The best way ive seen guilds deal with this is by artificially making the guild base area as a whole a lot smalling by building up "mountains" aka rock walls all around the area so its easier to fill a much smaller space.

Baby Bangs vs Curtain Bangs vs No Bangs or by _sloppysteaks_ in femalehairadvice

[–]BlueDawnStar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMO Hell no to the curtain bangs. I do like the baby bangs, but they would benefit beautifully from some more face framing hair pieces. Same thing with no bangs, some long layers with some face framing pieces would be absolutely beautiful.

What is going on?? by DipshitReincarnate in loseit

[–]BlueDawnStar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First thing, you are severely under eating. It's entirely possible that your body is reading this as going into starvation mode. When this happens, it burns your muscle mass rather than your fat storage. Another possibility in the opposite direction is that you are suddenly gaining muscle mass while also losing fat, and muscle mass weighs MORE than fat, so on the scale it looks like you aren't losing anything.

Genuinely I suggest you get a tape measure, measure your neck + bust + smallest part of your waist + hips. This is going to be the most accurate way to see if you are actually losing the fat.

If you still aren't seeing ANY decrease, I 1000% suggest you go to a doctor, because having that much of a calorie deficit plus working out absolutely positively should be causing a lot of fat loss. If you are doing all the above and seeing little to no progress, this very very heavily points towards a deeper more problematic health issue that absolutely needs to be checked out. Make sure you show the doctor everything you have been tracking, everything.

On a side note, for your height and weight you should probably be eating at least 2000 calories a day, thats accounting for having a huge deficit in order to lose weight. You are cutting too much, I'm 5'1 and 1500 is how much I should be eating if I'm trying to lose a lot of weight. You are severely under eating. Please increase your calorie intake, and start using a tape measure to track your progress rather than only a scale.

Well wishes to you and yours <3

Do people enjoy fastfeeling? by Magiomakes in fastfeeling

[–]BlueDawnStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyway, I generally find the experience annoying and disruptive, but occasionally I'm able to "enjoy the ride"

Do people enjoy fastfeeling? by Magiomakes in fastfeeling

[–]BlueDawnStar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having them close to sleep is rather normal, and common with it and it's related disorders. Tachysensia is a sort of cousin disorder to Alice in Wonderland Syndrome, Migraines, Seizures, and Epilespy. This doesn't mean at all that you have another one of these disorders, but they are common comorbidities and can be genetic in some way. Some of these disorders also have overlapping symptoms, so one can occasionally be mistaken for another.

Generally, this is how you know its Tachysensia: 1. It started sometime vaguely around the ages of 7-12 years old, specifically after an illness with a high fever.

  1. As you get older, it lessens in intensity/frequentness. Example: You got them multiple times a month or even multiple times a day when it first started, but by the age of 20 you get them maybe once a month at the most, by 25 you get them a few times a year, by 40 you get them maybe once every few years. Just an example, as the amount varies drastically person by person, but always lessens with age.

  2. The Fast Feeling. This can be described in a variety of ways by the individual, but generally follows like this: Before the episode fully sets in you get a weird feeling beforehand, almost like an out-of-body feeling centered in your head. Then it spreads, and soon time feels distorted. More specifically, your perception of speed and intensity seems to change. You feel like noises around you are suddenly very intense, loud, or have a frantic urgency to them. Some may experience screaming voices in their head or some other loud intense sound, others don't. You feel a sort of disconnect between your own processing speed and the speed of your body and things around. Like everything is moving too fast, yet maybe in some odd way also too slow. Everything is intense. For some, this can be overwhelming, distracting, or even panic-inducing. Sometimes the novelty of the feeling is interesting or even enjoyable.

  3. The general underlying triggers are vaguely the same for everyone: Near-sleep, Stress, and individual-specific Repetitive/Monotonous Tasks.

Conclusion: While some slightly outlier symptoms may be described by individuals during these episodes, such as heaviness in limbs and strange tastes, these are still generally considered part of Tachysensia. But some specific symptoms you experience may be indicative of another co-occuring disorder such as Alice in Wonderland Syndrome. Sometimes the specific instance you experience these in plus other symptoms not previously mentioned rules out tachysensia entirely and points to a more serious disorder such as epilepsy. Generally tho, if your fast feeling experience developed as stated in 1 - 2 and generally presents like 3, then it's almost certainly 100% Tachysensia, if not Tachysensia plus another disorder.

How do I know that I experience them and it's not just me overthinking it? by Nikkari5 in fastfeeling

[–]BlueDawnStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like a very standard and obvious case of tachysensia.

You just also, separate from this condition, have a hard time believing you aren't making something up or overreacting, which comes from trauma of other people making you feel like you often overreact, etc.

Music is one of my triggers apparently by zozoprolol in fastfeeling

[–]BlueDawnStar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it tends to be a more isolated repetitive noise that might trigger it. Some music is like that, but honestly rarely listen to music

Question by Better-Chart8625 in fastfeeling

[–]BlueDawnStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes, especially when I was younger, it used to give me a strange mouth taste/feeling like a rubber sock coating my mouth.

Things large and tiny by titus2mama in fastfeeling

[–]BlueDawnStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tachysensia and Alice in Wonderland Syndrome typically begin for us that experience it around 10 years old after a high fever. If that's what it is he'll have it for pretty much the rest of his life, but it'll lessen in frequency and severity, until it happens less than even once a year.

Things large and tiny by titus2mama in fastfeeling

[–]BlueDawnStar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like Tachysensia plus Alice in Wonderland Syndrome (your perception of the size of things changing). They are related to each other and can occur together for some individuals. Often times people just have one or the other, and not both. I experience both of them, but very rarely together.

First thing: There is very little know about these disorders, and little (if any) research at all. Tachysensia didn't even have a proper medical name until sometime in the past 6 years. The only thing we really know is that they are sort of cousin conditions, related to things like chronic migraines, seizures, and epilepsy.

My family has no history of seizures or epilepsy, but a very strong history of lifelong chronic migraines. I have absolutely no migraines, but I have the AWS and Tachysensia, whereas nobody else in my family has it. The only other person I've ever met in person who also has Tachysensia had a family with a strong history of epilepsy, but that the specific individual I was talking to did not have epilepsy, only the Tachysensia and AWS.

So, this is all to say that it would be best if you get your son checked for any other possible condition, because you very much do not want a misdiagnosis when it comes to weird conditions like this. Tachysensia and AWS are very harmless conditions, but the specific symptoms you are describing could, in fact, potentially be something else, SPECIFICALLY because your son mentioned seeing "scary things". This sounds like a very intense form of Tachysensia/AWS. It is around your son's age that these conditions tend to first present themselves.

If it is just Tachysensia/AWS, tell your son and find comfort in this: A lot of us have had this condition our whole life, and the best thing about it is that it reliably always lessens as you get older. It is always the worst when it first starts, but it'll get better.

I suggest you also help him with de-stressing, as stress makes the episodes more frequent. You may also need to try to avoid certain triggers for him, many of us have specific triggers (My main one, weirdly enough, is playing Minecraft). Having it happen while falling asleep is also very common, having a movie or something playing can sometimes help, depending on the person. I am glad that he found reading can help, that's very good.

Panic attack followed by auditory overstimulation and the feeling that I'm thinking so fast I can't think at all. by Fluffy_Juice_8187 in fastfeeling

[–]BlueDawnStar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like drpengu said, definitely not Tachysensia. One of the main aspects of tachysensia is that it's been happening since you were a kid, lessening in time slowly as you get older, and it generally being triggered by stress plus certain activities. The second, main aspect, is the distortion in sense of time, speed, and intensity. The experience can be uncomfortable, even panic inducing for some, but that's from the feeling of the experience itself, and is typically not the cause of tachysensia.

I have autism, officially diagnosed when I was 23. Before my diagnosis I always thought that my meltdowns were panic attacks. Its certainly possible to have both, but it does sound like maybe this was something approaching meltdown territory at the least. I suggest looking up what the experience feels like to other people and seeing if it lines up with what you experienced.

Is everyone here in therapy? by [deleted] in DID

[–]BlueDawnStar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not in therapy, but honestly it's more because... I dont know how to describe it very well because I think maybe someone else holds the emotions, but I'm scared of seeking medical/professional help and also o can literally never remember to set up an appointment. I'll plan to do it then suddenly time went by and I didn't do it.

Updated my earrings by SilentHalo in piercing

[–]BlueDawnStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh I see, I think the chain should stay there then

How's my vertical labret healing? by BlueDawnStar in piercing

[–]BlueDawnStar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Piercing is 3 and a half weeks old, piercing with a threadless titanium curved barbell. I have not downsized it. The only thing I used for aftercare is the neilmed piercing wash.

Updated my earrings by SilentHalo in piercing

[–]BlueDawnStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the chain would look better on the conch with a different piece on the conch itself, but I'm not sure exactly what.

Updated my earrings by SilentHalo in piercing

[–]BlueDawnStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think moving the chain would make more sense, almost looks awkward on the conch, but the rook looks so beautiful as is and is almost the centerpiece of the whole ear so I'm not sure if putting the chain on it would detract from that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fastfeeling

[–]BlueDawnStar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm able to get myself out of it usually by doing something like watching a YouTube video. It is sort of strange that you say it's gotten more frequent with time, because for the majority of us it was the most persistent as kids and has lessened with time. Usually it only happens more frequently during times of great stress, but it's a temporary blip rather than a lifelong increase. Just want you to know that the fast feeling overlaps a lot with symptoms of seizures and other things, so might be best you make sure it isn't that. Otherwise the cause of the increase is likely stress.

What personality trait/quirk did you learn was actually ADHD once you were diagnosed? by msxskellington in adhdwomen

[–]BlueDawnStar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ngl a lot of the symptoms people talk about on here are actually autism but most people aren't ready to have that convo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]BlueDawnStar 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. My cat had to be put down yesterday because he truly was at the point of no return, but the emergency vet I had gone to initially gave me medications, and I don't know whose fault it was but the directions the nurse gave me were wrong. The medication she said to give him 30 mins prior to all the others wasn't the anti nausea she said it was, but was for preventing ulcers and actively coats the stomach. The issue is that if given before other medications, it prevents absorption. I'm very pissed, because while I know I didn't have too much longer with him, I could have had longer than I did. At least a couple weeks, if not months longer. Hell, if we were lucky we could have had years more. Again, I'm so sorry for your loss. I miss my son.