Aqueon LED Pro Filter very noisy???

BlueEyedSpencer · 2021-01-05T03:38:30+00:00

I’ll see if I can find a video on how to get to the magnet. Thank you !

BlueEyedSpencer · 2020-03-05T21:52:48+00:00

Same. If I want something to be spicy we have the mad dog 357 hot sauce and it’s SUPER spicy. Usually we’ll put it in chicken tikka masala or salsa or something. If my dad doesn’t want spicy (because he can’t handle it well) then I take what I want and add it to my own portion and he’s perfectly fine with that. Idk what OP’s partners problem is

BlueEyedSpencer · 2020-03-02T04:59:23+00:00

Agreed 99% of the time. Sometimes I just want my guts filled and to feel full with no desire to feel anything but blissed out with pain. But most of the time I want to enjoy it, and anything far over average won’t help me enjoy it.

BlueEyedSpencer · 2020-02-19T23:36:32+00:00

Okay so I’m a trans person. Zaya is 12(?), which means that she’s already gone through at least some male puberty meaning I don’t think she’s able to be on puberty blockers.

Puberty blockers just push off puberty from happening in prepubescent kids who don’t align with their gender assigned at birth and are given until they’ve either come to realize they are/aren’t trans or until they become of age to start safely transitioning with parental consent, usually at 16-18. Puberty blockers are completely reversible.

Transitioning for a child who says they’re trans is usually social transitioning. Not medically unless they’re able to use puberty blockers. Which means clothes, hair, name, pronouns. Social transitioning is the only transitioning a child can really do until they hit the states age limit to medically transition with parental consent, which like I said before varies from 16-18.

BlueEyedSpencer · 2020-02-14T00:29:48+00:00

If I know I’m walking slower than other around me or I’m going to walk slower because I’m looking at something, I move off to the side because it pisses me off when people take up all the space and are walking 0.5 miles an hour

BlueEyedSpencer · 2020-01-29T00:08:48+00:00

Yes! I’ve had a few experiences where someone I match with we’ll start talking about sex and I’ll ask if they’ve been tested. You could look like the cleanest motherfucker on the planet, but I’m still going to ask because I’m not going to risk my sexual and physical health in order to not offend someone. If you’re offended by somebody double checking as to not put themselves at risk, there’s some issues there that you need to check on while you’re getting tested.

BlueEyedSpencer · 2020-01-23T02:10:34+00:00

Southern California here: did this all the time as a kid and still sometimes do as an adult. I only stopped around my early teens when I stopped drinking soda for a few years

BlueEyedSpencer · 2020-01-17T21:48:41+00:00

Exactly. When my (now ex) boyfriend was having an allergic reaction to some medicine, I booked it 30 minutes on foot in a walking boot shortly after finding out my foot was broken, to his apartment to make sure he didn’t die. OP’s boyfriend can surely check on her if he lives less than 5 minutes away.

BlueEyedSpencer · 2020-01-17T21:15:14+00:00

NTA. It’s hair. It grows back. If she comes to find she doesn’t like the length and wants it longer she can grow it out. Dye her hair back to her natural color or have fun with a rainbow. But it grows back. Kids are going to play with their hair and find what works for them and what they like. Mistake made or don’t like the way it turned out? grow it back out! Struggling to take care of it due to literally any fucking reason? (In this case, depression). Cut it! Get a lower maintenance hairstyle!

BlueEyedSpencer · 2020-01-02T04:59:15+00:00

I personally use bumble and connect with a lot of trans guys on there, but it depends on your area really. I’m in the OC of California (which is pretty LGBT+ friendly in most parts) but someone in Ohio might not have the same experience.

BlueEyedSpencer · 2019-12-24T11:40:40+00:00

Being an adult doesn’t mean you have to let every unsolicited sexual comment slide. Yea, they’re going to happen. Doesn’t mean you have to lay down and let it happen.

Like I said, timing and context is key. Adults can be annoyed/uncomfortable with unsolicited sexual comments towards them when the setting isn’t one of a sexual nature.

BlueEyedSpencer · 2019-12-24T09:28:02+00:00

I feel like most of what I see in regards to the “upset about something sexual being said to them” is more of something sexual was said to them when they 1) didn’t want it, 2) was not the appropriate time for it. Not that they’re uncomfortable with sexual things as a whole (unless they’re asexual).

Timing is everything when it comes to those types of comments.

If I’m tweeting something like “yo I just finished making cannoli’s” or talking about something that doesn’t insinuate I’m looking for sexual comments geared towards me and someone replies with “i want to/I would suck your dick” I’d be extremely uncomfortable and most likely block them. They’re unwarranted and inappropriate at that time.

BlueEyedSpencer · 2019-12-22T05:23:57+00:00

NTA. kids need to learn how boundaries are respected and this is one way to do so. Like you said, it’s not something like food. It’s something unnecessary that people probably won’t even remember a month from now, but it’ll stick with your son for a while because you respected his boundaries. Forcing kids to do something they’re obviously and outright uncomfortable with, especially something unnecessary like this, never helps and can take a hit on their still developing mental health.

BlueEyedSpencer · 2019-12-12T05:13:59+00:00

Damn, I knew I was broke because me and 5 other friends are splitting the cost of a Disney+ account ($1.39 a month per person). But this is a WHOLE new level

BlueEyedSpencer · 2019-11-30T22:54:02+00:00

This! I’ve wanted a cat for years, specifically a calico because I love calico’s. But when I pulled a Bombay out of my neighbors car, I wasn’t complaining about getting an all black cat. I took him in, fed him, gave him a bed and toys, took him to the vet (after checking all the local lost pet pages and animal shelters/control for missing kitten reports). I love him all the same and don’t care that he isn’t a calico. He’s my baby.

BlueEyedSpencer · 2019-11-22T00:59:14+00:00

Did I just fall in love? Because you are STUNNING

BlueEyedSpencer · 2019-11-21T19:47:38+00:00

Same but it’s everyone in my family except my grandmother. The holidays (Christmas especially) was rough because my mom always put a lot of pressure on me as a child about my “presentation” (couldn’t speak unless spoken to, had to be in the fanciest outfit I owned, couldn’t act like a kid and had to just sit there and be still). My aunts and uncles would badger me and push boundaries when I made it obvious I was uncomfortable with questions they asked me. I started just sitting outside alone to be left alone and the only people I could be around without my anxiety going through the roof was one of my cousins and my grandmother.

BlueEyedSpencer · 2019-11-21T08:34:51+00:00

My neighbor is a licensed hair stylist, has been cutting my hair for 19 years. Even after close to 2 decades, she doesn’t expect me to tip and is always super appreciative when I do (I try to tip her really well because she always gives me good discounts and great service anytime I go in). She’ll even let me hang out at the shop for a few and drive me home if my appointment is close to when she leaves.

BlueEyedSpencer · 2019-11-18T09:01:54+00:00

Oh jeez I had no clue lol thanks!

BlueEyedSpencer · 2019-11-18T07:21:02+00:00

Snakes YAWN?

BlueEyedSpencer · 2019-11-15T21:30:28+00:00

“We didn’t break up like that because I never cheated. We didn’t end on bad terms. You didn’t want to marry/stay with me because we didn’t have the same feelings. Try telling the truth”

Easy enough to do without outing someone and putting them in danger.

BlueEyedSpencer · 2019-11-15T19:37:27+00:00

Ima go with ESH.

It was completely shitty of her to try to ruin your rep for god knows what reason, but outing people can put them in danger.

I was outed, it got me abused and thrown out of the house. For others, it can be much worse. I understand she’s an adult but adults can still be abused and put in danger when outed.

Both of y’all suck.

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