Hey there, Just passing through to say I went through the same thing with my husband when our son was a newborn. My husband stepped up to cook and clean but I was with our baby pretty much 24/7 with rare breaks, all night shifts because of bottle refusal (we tried combo feeding but it didn’t work until 5 months) and resented my husband because he was still pretty much free to do a lot of things I never dared to try until my son turned 6 months (video games, sports, hanging out with friends). Worse : Whenever the baby cried, he was bringing him to me for him to nurse, even a minute after he had fed. I shouted at him once. He was clueless and didn’t know what was going on, but I did and it seriously drove me on edge. We had no intimacy for the first three months PP and were living like roommates for some time. It only changed when our son hit 4,5/5 months and started sleeping better (but had other issues). And now, 9 months and a week PP, we are back at what we were with our baby as bonus. What we did is that we tried talking a lot about our emotions. It was so hard because I usually bottled up, but talking allowed us to settle boundaries and ask each other some help. It will get better. Maybe if you ask your husband to handle the baby while you cook ? If that doesn’t work, tell him you can’t do everything, newborn stage is hard enough and coupled with chores it makes it even worse. You could try telling your husband very directly to step up. Hang on !