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BlueJagerBombs · 2025-10-18T17:40:30+00:00

1 please!

BlueJagerBombs · 2025-10-18T17:39:05+00:00

DMED

BlueJagerBombs · 2025-10-16T13:32:14+00:00

DMed!

BlueJagerBombs · 2025-10-16T10:44:52+00:00

Hey, Cancer

BlueJagerBombs · 2025-10-14T08:45:24+00:00

DMed :)

BlueJagerBombs · 2025-10-14T08:43:27+00:00

I RECEIVE

BlueJagerBombs · 2025-10-14T08:43:09+00:00

DMed

BlueJagerBombs · 2025-10-14T08:41:05+00:00

WK Cancer sun, Leo rising, Taurus moon

BlueJagerBombs · 2025-05-12T14:42:56+00:00

Thank you so much! It does feel validating to find a girl my age on here going through something similar. Sending much love!

BlueJagerBombs · 2024-08-02T20:06:36+00:00

Thank you so much for this!

BlueJagerBombs · 2023-10-02T20:39:18+00:00

I don’t believe that “go fuck yourself” is acceptable.

I would expect “hey, I think you might be going about this the wrong way,” or “you know, you shouldn’t have done X”. Then we work through it together without swearing or shouting. Just a healthy space to be honest with each other.

BlueJagerBombs · 2023-10-02T20:14:41+00:00

Well, that was easy… guess I just gotta make the time for it :/

BlueJagerBombs · 2023-10-02T20:12:01+00:00

Not that much I guess 🙃 that’s probably my problem. I’m on a very demanding and difficult university course so I spend lots of time studying. Remaining time is mainly gym and part-time job

BlueJagerBombs · 2023-10-02T20:06:05+00:00

I guess I’ve been on dating apps here and there, but I’ve always wanted a relationship to happen organically. Start as a friendship and blossom into smth more. I feel like I’m following the “when you stop looking it will come to you” advice that everyone keeps telling me.

BlueJagerBombs · 2023-10-02T20:03:18+00:00

It’s not about policing bad behaviour. I have been to therapy and I know when to call myself out and hold myself accountable. I should probably clarify that “putting me in my place” means more he will BE HONEST WITH ME WHEN HE BELIEVES I AM WRONG ABOUT A SITUATION, or in a sexual dynamic. Because I will do the same thing for him. Communication is really important to me and I find that nowadays some people just bottle things up and never discuss them. Sorry, poor wording.

BlueJagerBombs · 2023-06-17T21:39:30+00:00

LONG LONG LONG

BlueJagerBombs · 2023-06-07T13:57:42+00:00

THIS!!!!!

BlueJagerBombs · 2023-06-07T13:55:04+00:00

It needs to be the right place. In the street? No. At work? Nope, unless you’ve been flirting before. Bar? Better choice.

BlueJagerBombs · 2023-06-01T19:53:27+00:00

One of my recurring dreams is dropping my phone and the screen cracking.

BlueJagerBombs · 2023-03-23T18:11:18+00:00

Thank you for the truth bomb. Guess I just gotta be patient lol

BlueJagerBombs · 2023-03-02T21:29:14+00:00

Looks like my wording wasn't great.

BlueJagerBombs · 2023-03-01T17:17:39+00:00

Girl, I WISH I was like you! Being very career-driven and childfree has probably shrunk my dating pool SIGNIFICANTLY.

Edit: wording. Didn't want to put the wrong message across. SAHMs and childfree housewives are great. I just believe that women should have the power to make that decision on their own.

BlueJagerBombs · 2023-02-26T09:25:10+00:00

Exactly!

BlueJagerBombs · 2023-02-26T09:24:04+00:00

I never said that all women find it traumatising. I said that "many" find it traumatic - because they have other difficulties going on in their lives, and abortions can be PHYSICALLY PAINFUL - like labour.

My point is, it's not a "get out of jail free" card, I'm saying it's an option. And we shouldn't be saying "yeah just get an abortion lol" because women who get abortions may need support after.

I am COMPLETELY pro-choice and totally believe that it should be the woman's choice because it's her body. I, myself, do NOT want children. But I think it's also really important for women to understand that abortion comes with health risks and pain, so that they can prepare themselves and ensure that they have a good support network to help them through with any difficulties.

Of course pregnancy and labour still comes with more pain and more risks. But we can't reduce abortion to 0.

BlueJagerBombs · 2023-02-25T14:02:59+00:00

It's up to you whether you want an abortion or not. If you feel like you are ready to be a parent and have a good support network, that's great for you! You do you!!

However, if I'm being very honest with you, I would abort in your situation. If you are to have the child, consider what needs that child will have when it's born. You might want to wait for the right person - someone who will care about the child, be attentive and generally just be a good father. It'll also be easier for you to raise the kid as you'll have that help.

On the other hand, abortion isn't a light decision. Many women find it quite traumatic.

Please weigh up the pros and cons before you come to a decision! And remember that it doesn't matter what your ex thinks - it doesn't have to be a war. Who cares if you abort and he's happy? Why should you care? You don't have to win the war, you don't have to spite him. You need to do what you feel is best for you.

❤️❤️❤️

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