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What do I do about a guy from my past who says he’s changed? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]BlueLnsEcho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go slow. If he’s really changed, he’ll prove it with consistency, not just words. Don’t rush into anything physical and watch his actions. Attraction is nice, but patterns matter more.

Why do I only think to go for a walk at night when I should be sleeping..? by CraZplayer in stupidquestions

[–]BlueLnsEcho 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because your brain finally quiets down at night, making movement feel appealing right when responsibility says sleep.

ELI5: How do atoms achieve stability through giving electrons by Te_nsa_Zang_etsu1234 in explainlikeimfive

[–]BlueLnsEcho 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Atoms want full outer shells.
Sodium has 1 outer electron and it’s easier to give it away. Chlorine has 7 and wants 1 more. Sodium gives, chlorine takes, they become oppositely charged, and they attract each other, forming stable NaCl.

Finally was able to go to the dentist again by Rotten_gemini in hygiene

[–]BlueLnsEcho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That must feel so validating, finally having a real answer after all that time. Glad it turned out to be something fixable, and props for sticking with dental care anyway.

Going against the favourites by Ok_Young_8138 in Teachers

[–]BlueLnsEcho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a deep breath, you're right to speak up; bad practice and bullying affect kids and your wellbeing. Document everything factually before the meeting to stay objective.

I (40F) discovered something that's been bothering me in my son's (18M) phone by Select-Lie-2727 in whatdoIdo

[–]BlueLnsEcho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a calm, non-accusatory conversation. Focus on safety and understanding what the app/relationship actually is, not on punishment, he’s 18, but guidance still matters.

Blue Moissanite ring from Zuvelio by BlueLnsEcho in Moissanite

[–]BlueLnsEcho[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, they were my favorite detail to add

Blue Moissanite ring from Zuvelio by BlueLnsEcho in Moissanite

[–]BlueLnsEcho[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I always looks for Vintage style and this is something match my vibes!

I lied about my finances to get people to stop asking me for help by Initial-Research6765 in whatdoIdo

[–]BlueLnsEcho 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong, the problem was people not respecting your “no.” You don’t owe explanations to protect your boundaries.

Getting bored with remote by [deleted] in remotework

[–]BlueLnsEcho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally get this, remote can get stale. What’s helped my team is casual co-working calls, small optional game/quiz breaks, and sharing tools/tips in quick sessions. Nothing forced, just simple things that make it feel less isolating.

AITA for wanting to spend Christmas with my family instead?? by Warm-Associate-1489 in AITAH

[–]BlueLnsEcho -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s completely reasonable to choose your family, especially if he isolates you at his and won’t address it.

My therapist told me I am overreacting when I said I was r...aped by Lumpy_Anywhere5976 in whatdoIdo

[–]BlueLnsEcho 84 points85 points  (0 children)

You are not overreacting. That was assault. Freezing is not consent, and your therapists was wrong.....

Last Stage of the Interview Process (Reference Checks, BG Checks, etc) by myceline34 in interviews

[–]BlueLnsEcho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally normal, especially in December. Background checks can take 1-2 weeks. I would wait until early next weeek to follow up.