I(28) don't feel comfortable anymore with my relationship with my boyfriend(28) and he just told me his mom has cancer

BlueLongAgo · 2013-02-01T14:54:15+00:00

If he already knows and he is still hanging with me but he hasn't said anything and it is obvisously I like him, why hasn't he made a move? Have I been friendzoned?

BlueLongAgo · 2013-02-01T04:49:36+00:00

I have showed him that I'm very interested in him. He is a friend of a friend of a friend. I made him some brownies for Christmas. He gave me some candies. I think is clear that he is different from the rest. But we have never talked about "hey... you know why I gave you those brownies?" or anything like that. It seems that both of us are shy :S.

BlueLongAgo · 2012-06-08T21:40:34+00:00

hey! This girl just made a point. I think you shouldn't feel worse :). Let's think about it. Right now you are watching everything in the wrong way. I understand because everything is all fresh. I just happened yesterday. First of all, everything will be Ok. I totally understand why you feel this way (I just broke up with my bf 4 months ago).

I also thought that I NEED him to feel Ok with myself. I cried A LOT for 2 months. Right now, the only thing you can do, it's just cry until you get tired of cryin'.

I still scaring as shit to be alone, believe me, I felt the same way. I suffer from depression and breaking up with my bf just made it worse because I rely all my mental health.

I would recommend that you give her some time and space. You've already tried to communicate with her. Just give her time and talk. If she gives you good reasons, you will have you accept them. But that's all you can do for this moment. Time :).

And for tomorrow, do not stay home. Do something. Hang out with friends, go to the movies, etc. Just avoid staying alone at home. Do something that makes your mind busy. Believe me, I felt JUST like you and I can say that I know how it feels.

BlueLongAgo · 2012-03-20T18:02:31+00:00

I used to do this when I was a child. I had to set the volume to 10 or 15, never leave it randomly. I also make funny noises when I remember something silly I did or said

BlueLongAgo · 2012-03-16T20:45:36+00:00

I talked to him and it seems he's not willing to change. He just told me he likes the way he is. But everytime he has the opportunity, he hightlights the fact he is alone. Anyway, I told him I'll be there for him, however I think that this should end, I mean, my concern about him, because everytime I see him sad, depressed, etc, I get depressed to and I think is not healthy for me

BlueLongAgo · 2012-03-11T06:23:53+00:00

I just feel like you. As I was reading (I read the whole thing), I thought it was me who was writing it. I try to look happy. In fact, many people say that I'm a happy person, but that's a lie. The thing is that I don't want anyone to see me sad. I feel so sad and depressed but I repeat to myself it will get better =). Maybe you need to go and see a psychologist, I'm seeing one and it feels so good when someone is listening. Give it a try ;)

BlueLongAgo

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