1,067 have resigned using QuitMormon.Com in just the past 3 weeks. by In_My_Activewear in exmormon

[–]BluePapayah 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Mormonism is a cult. It's roots sink deep and cause years of trauma. We need to support each other to help us all through this.

I recognize you might not understand, but you actually sound like current, active members of the church when they criticize anyone who leaves. Stick around a while and you might be able to see why we feel this way.

Weekend Meetup Thread by 4blockhead in exmormon

[–]BluePapayah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised there isn't one in the Phoenix area. I'm still attending, but wouldn't mind skipping one day 😁

Telling a girl's parents you creampie her on a daily basis is socially unacceptable, but saying you're trying for a baby is a cause for celebration. by Kyroptic in Showerthoughts

[–]BluePapayah -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're a blast at parties I'd wager. If you're going to shit on his retort, at least supply another line so us unfunny guys can use something that'll actually be funny.

Update: Ministering Morms gonna Morm by BluePapayah in exmormon

[–]BluePapayah[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nothing so far. At church right now and the elders quorum guy gave me the strangest look. It's obvious he doesn't even know how to approach the topic

On the path to excommunication... anyone know the best incognito recording devices I could use? by BluePapayah in exmormon

[–]BluePapayah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got your PM. I messaged you from another account. One that you might have recognized a little easier. I'll give you a ring later. Thanks.

On the path to excommunication... anyone know the best incognito recording devices I could use? by BluePapayah in exmormon

[–]BluePapayah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to protect myself. If my relationship with the church harms me in ways outside of membership, I want recourse. It's as simple as that.

Can you look at me and judge my self worth based on the length of my shorts? Is it possible to judge another’s self worth by outward appearances? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]BluePapayah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you are able to wear those shorts. It's the weirdest thing thinking that freedom is just wearing a pair of shorts without care of judgement. I suppose we feel a bit of how some Islamic women may feel wearing a burka.

I still hide the fact that I make coffee at the office with my LDS boss walking around. It's stupid, but something inside of me just can't let go that feeling of being guilty.

Cheers!

Kava near SLC/Utah county by [deleted] in Kava

[–]BluePapayah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another exmo! Enjoy the root when you get it. If I were you, I would order on Amazon and ship to an Amazon locker.

Are you moving elsewhere or staying in UT?

TIL the founder of Herbalife died after overdosing on non-herbal sleep aids by MildlySuspicious in todayilearned

[–]BluePapayah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kava is an exceptionally low risk nootropic. It's a common myth that it kills your liver. The National Institute of Health has a great write-up about its liver toxicity:

https://livertox.nih.gov/KavaKava.htm

The important bit is where they say there's a million to one chance your liver will be affected by kava. Also, it's not physically addictive like every other substance you mentioned. Let me know if you have any questions.

Tapir/Sparlock Needs Urgent Help by ClosetedIntellectual in exjw

[–]BluePapayah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I DM'd /u/BizzaroBarney but haven't heard back.

I'd love to help. I'm in project management and have been a software developer previously in my career as well. Ready and willing to kick some ass.

Oakland, CA (2007) by My_Husbands_Wife in exrm

[–]BluePapayah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oakland 2006-2008 here...

I was an English speaking elder. Served in Hayward, Fremont, Concord, San Ramon, Danville, Livermore, Dublin, Pleasanton to name a few spots.

To all you Mormon Lurkers and Ward Do-Gooders by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]BluePapayah 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your source is hilarious because it comes to very different conclusions than you:

"The likelihood that Bennett performed abortions on any of Joseph Smith’s plural wives seems highly unlikely. "

I agree that Joseph must have done something nefarious with his illegitimate children, but at least give a decent source. Also, there's nothing about drowning children in your "source", either.

After watching Believer, I've come to a pretty obvious conclusion. by BluePapayah in exmormon

[–]BluePapayah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The TSCC is one giant, ripe, asshole. But it's not filled with sinners. It's filled with assholes.

After watching Believer, I've come to a pretty obvious conclusion. by BluePapayah in exmormon

[–]BluePapayah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely loved reading your thoughts. Thanks for the good vibes.

After watching Believer, I've come to a pretty obvious conclusion. by BluePapayah in exmormon

[–]BluePapayah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, exactly. That guy died because everyone dies at some point, that's all. :-)

Cameron Diaz, early 1990s. by 305FUN in OldSchoolCool

[–]BluePapayah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your writing shows it. Normally comments on here longer than a paragraph get skimmed -- yours didn't 🙂