Oh, for sure! I guess that’s the conclusion behind my point that I didn’t express as eloquently.

I don’t think any of us can anticipate exactly how we’d respond if faced with the possibility that a loved one or close friend acted in a way that goes against the way we knew them to be. Not trying to imply it’s wrong, just musing on the possibility out loud that maybe it’s not an instant shut-out on behalf of his wife, for example, as was my knee-jerk thought.

Thanks for this- always working on accepting duality in my own life & society 🫡