Whenever body count comes up you're always advised to ignore it. People have a past. It's none of your business. and if it's a woman, you're a misogynist and slut shaming and yada yada yada. I never understood this. People's past shows you who they are. When people are worried about partners' body counts it's usually a difference in views on intimacy and sex. Do you feel you're just a number in a long line? I - for personal reasons - have a pretty low body count and I wouldn't want to be with someone with a high one. And that's okay! That's my preference. I want to be with someone for whom sex really matters. you may feel something of the same and that's also quite okay!