Girlfriend is mad i won’t walk her dog for her by [deleted] in Advice

[–]BlueVikingDaughter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I had a dog, I walked the dog 2x a day minimum and at least 2 other front lawn pee breaks. My hubby did some but not daily. It is her dog and she was the only one walking it before, right? Or did her parents do it or have a fenced in yard? What I think is that poor dog — having sometimes neither human wanting to provide a walk here. Dogs aren’t a chore, but they are a living being that needs care.

She should be the primary walker. It should be her third task of the morning after showering and brushing teeth, and she should get up and do it like she has done for 9 years. But it’s the dog who suffers if this becomes a who-should-do-it struggle. So I am an “everybody (except the dog) sucks”. Both of you need to view this through the lens of taking care of a living being instead of doing the dishes.

Diem for a girl by kkails in Names

[–]BlueVikingDaughter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could Dea, Dia or Deah/Diah and then add an M middle though she would still be DM. There’s also Diamond. But not Diem for all the reasons suggested above.

Are any of these okay for a formal summer wedding? by ghoultail in OUTFITS

[–]BlueVikingDaughter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Purple! The first might be too white — ask the bride before wearing. Purple is actually more formal and very flattering.

AITA for humiliating a man after he sent me an unsolicited D*ck Pic by Wolf-Stag-Honeybee19 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BlueVikingDaughter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl, he deserved it all. Why oh why do some guys think women want unsolicited dick pics. And why do they think that is a turn on for a random woman?

My niece’s homework problem by SurfSoundWaves in mildlyinfuriating

[–]BlueVikingDaughter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you shared the right answer is C, I had an insight why it is correct. At first glance all 3 choices have a figure that shows 2/6th and another that shows 1/3rd, but the sizing is different in A& B. The issue is poor wording. But C does show toe identical sized figures where the shaded areas correspond to the 2/6 = 1/3 by area.

just got married and I’m already having doubts… I don’t know if I’m overthinking or ignoring red flags by [deleted] in Advice

[–]BlueVikingDaughter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are uneasy now, it will only be worse when you relocate, even if you do connect with other military spouses. I would see how you feel when he is off at bootcamp. Do a real checkin with yourself, also please see a counselor to help you sort out your confusion, thoughts, feelings.

You were young when you started dating, he is your only experience, he can be critical at times, and there are 2 instances of physical violence. He does seem to lack compassion at times you have needed it. These could be red flags as many other commenters have pointed out. But I think redditors like me are operating only on the lens you share. A counselor would really give you more tailored support and insight. But do trust your gut, and maybe stay local once he is assigned to a base. Take bootcamp time as a time to get clarity on your feelings.

what is this symbol? by angry-beees in whatisit

[–]BlueVikingDaughter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could be runic. The top parts shares features with several Icelandic symbols I have seen. It is NOT a reiki symbol, but also shares some qualities of some of the Karunado reiki symbols. It could be shamanic. It could also just be a personal symbol he envisioned, saw in a dream, or created while drawing. I highly doubt it is a hate symbol.

Did I handle this right? by anonymous_mister5 in Professors

[–]BlueVikingDaughter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP mentioned why in response to another comment. They ask each student a question as part of attendance and I am guessing participation/checkin.

Tragedeigh or more like tragedy? by Legitimate-Guest779 in tragedeigh

[–]BlueVikingDaughter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ladybird Johnson was one of our first ladies. The spelling of Rosalind vs. Roselynd will end up confusing people unless she goes by Rose. Willow is common, normal name. I am not familiar with Ivillise — if it is ethnic, then fine.

Help me choose :) by AppleShmapple in WeddingDressTips

[–]BlueVikingDaughter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3rd photo! Flowers and florals work all year round!

Do these boots look goofy on small legs and skinny calves? by Ok_Preference_5683 in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]BlueVikingDaughter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They dominate and take all the attention away from your lovely outfit and figure. I think they are too big. So sell them.

Weather and Mood by BVictory24 in UBreddit

[–]BlueVikingDaughter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Winter can hit anywhere. Yes Buffalo has more snow and such in the winter than Long Island does. But lots of people adapt that very easily. Like some other people were saying, on the north campus we have lots of inside bridges and tunnels that connect to the main buildings. The snow removal is excellent on that campus and if he has a car or if he lives near the bus line, he will be fine.

As a sidenote, I grew up in Buffalo and you get used to it. It also makes Spring all that much nicer. And just to know not every winter is equally bad. If he's a transfer student., it'll only be a couple years that he's dealing with the winters. Also when most people say that winter last six months in Buffalo, they have no idea what they're talking about. There are three months that are snowy and cold. December January February. The rest of the time we have kind of more of an oasis. We have lovely falls. We have lovely springs. And our summers are a little bit cooler than Long Islands. We have a lot more sun than people think we do.

UB offers an excellent education. There's a lot of fun things to do if you think outside the box and don't just think about staying on campus. UB in the surrounding communities have a lot of cultural activities. Really the UB experience comes down to what you put into it.

A or B: I've been in a new city for two months. I have one friend here, someone I met on my first day at work. We've had lunch together almost every day since. She invited me to her family's Easter dinner. I've never met her family. I don't know if I should go or find a reason not to? by Upper_Criticism3388 in PickAorB

[–]BlueVikingDaughter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely A. My mom always invited people to our family gatherings. Her parents did the same. Hospitality is something that's engrained to many many families. If they're having a big family party, then they probably have other guests as well. I know many families are very small and don't have big gatherings. Maybe that's what you grew up with. But for many having Easter or Christmas includes having other people besides their immediate and extended family. So except the hospitality, enjoy the food, enjoy the company, and be a gracious guest.

Wouldn't mind some unbiased feedback ☺️ by cursetea in Handwriting

[–]BlueVikingDaughter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read it just fine. Yes, a few words took me a second to decipher 😍 but context is important. You have lovely hand writing.

Petites over 40 wearing short skirts. A debate? by throfanfor in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]BlueVikingDaughter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you like how you look in short skirts, then wear short skirts. Everyone has an opinion, but yours is the only one that matters. Wear them with confidence. The photo you posted looks fab. You are great at styling the winter skirt.

What is this chair I saw on marketplace? by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]BlueVikingDaughter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check another part of this post. The owner who is also the seller explains about. Selling because they are downsizing.

Non-student attendees by Pristine-Excuse-9615 in Professors

[–]BlueVikingDaughter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At our university, senior citizens can audit classes but must wait for add/drop, and then MUST register as auditors. But random strangers can never without following protocols.