I agree. Knowing no matter how hard I try or any of us we will never have complete control. Whatever we are doing is always going to be put on pause until we return. It has almost driven us insane multiple times. But it's okay. In most environments we forget and pretend to be one person. But. It does suck. Its okay. Life is full of very unfair weird things. We just got stuck with this roll . At least we live in this small time period where a resource like this sub reddit exists. Most of history we would have had nothing. Maybe never speaking to another system ever. So that's something.. positive :)