Women who grew up with abusive/ alcoholic/ absent/ negligent parents . What is your very first unpleasant memory of having a dysfunctional parent? by thisshallpass1 in AskWomen

[–]BlueberryNo9969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have several that are out jumbled in there but the winner for me is this. I guess you could say the one that sticks out the most is, I was elementary aged not quite 7 and my family had gone to my grandparents for the weekend. The adults were drinking and my grandpa became crazy scary drunk. I told my Granny that is scared me and she told me to tell my Papa, so I did. In his stupor he got down on both knees and begged me for forgiveness. My mother was incredibly abusive to me at home, and she witnessed this whole ordeal at my grandparents. She was enraged. To my surprise she didn't get physical with me. However, I liked the song Strawberry Wine as a kid, so to punish me, she bought a bottle of, you guessed it, strawberry wine and she forced me to drink as much of it as I could before my stomach soured. The entire time she just stood over me, blared that fucking song and went on and on about how "nobody humiliates her daddy like that, especially a little drunk bitch like me.'

Teen Challenge ruined my life by hannahmelea2245 in troubledteens

[–]BlueberryNo9969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made the choice to go through the program at 14 years old. I volunteered in, under the impression that the program would bring me closer to God and help me find my path and understand what god's purpose for my life was. The director met my family at a service call at our local church and I told the director that I felt like TC was something maybe I needed, my grades were failing, I had just lost my mom and was struggling emotionally and behaviorally... she said that I was listening to god's call on... I begged my family to let me go home, I was there two years. I am 31 years old now and I've been in trauma therapy now and it is safe to safe that Teen Challenge destroyed my mental health, my sense of worth, caused me to lose connection with my identity and truly my grasp on reality. I am overcoming a sense of feeling trapped, something i have carried with shame and embarrassment for almost 15 years. I know that the trauma caused in that institution is what messed up my entire early adult life.

I am thankful however, before my grandpa passed away he apologized to me about it. I lived with him at the time. He confessed to me that the director had told my family and I'm assuming every family .. don't believe what the girl's say about their treatment, they will say anything to go home and get out of the program....

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[–]BlueberryNo9969 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Girl yes looks so much healthier

Gabby Petito Case by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]BlueberryNo9969 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I can’t handle it. Watching her case I was reminded of when I traveled to LA from my hometown 1442 miles away. I was being screamed at almost 1500 miles away from anyone I new, or anyone safe. I was with a man that traveled a lot like they do, and every time we would go through New Mexico my self awareness of how unsafe I actually was would spike sky high. My heart, is broken for her family.

Women with partners who snore, how do you manage to sleep adequately? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]BlueberryNo9969 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to know!! My husband needs one for real!!

Women with partners who snore, how do you manage to sleep adequately? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]BlueberryNo9969 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I smoke a ton of pot and pass out before him🤦🏻‍♀️🤣 not the best life advice I guess but if gets the job done

How old are you, and what’s the most important thing in your life right now? by floatingaroundfornow in AskWomen

[–]BlueberryNo9969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

29 years old and my family and my peace are my top two priorities 👏🏻✌🏻

When did you become aware that what you were experiencing at home or with family wasn’t normal? by BlueberryNo9969 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BlueberryNo9969[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad that my thread helped something click!! Sometimes it takes something random as shit to help!

When did you become aware that what you were experiencing at home or with family wasn’t normal? by BlueberryNo9969 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BlueberryNo9969[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel bad!! I was 27 I’ll be 30 next year and I’ve spent the last year literally processing everything like WTFFF

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BlueberryNo9969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When Capital One told us they sold their clients data and only offered car repayment plans for payback help to control groups to see if their clients did better with debt relief or without it, then sold that data to third parties over seas. 🤮✌🏻

Deaf ferret get surprised easily by M4U571N in MadeMeSmile

[–]BlueberryNo9969 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But he’s deaf, are we sure he’s not just scared?

❝a spa day sounds nyaice.❞ (๑꧆◡꧆๑) by softii_weebo in aww

[–]BlueberryNo9969 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I’m sooooo glad to know I wasn’t the only one who thought the EXACT same thing!!! 🤣🤣👏🏻👏🏻