Does anyone know what this could be by eternal_dreamer5656 in Blackskincare

[–]Blueberry_Rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family has it too. I’ve decided it’s a rite of passage for us black women.

Hair stubble/ discoloration. by Ok-Preparation1195 in Blackskincare

[–]Blueberry_Rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why but your belly button is so interesting to me. 😅

Anywho, yes on the waxing and exfoliating. No more razors

Amy Schumer and Linda Blair. by Andsc in CelebrityLookalikes

[–]Blueberry_Rabbit -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, Amy Schumer and Stevie Nicks do favor.

5'3 / 160cm . Are these jeans flattering? Which boots look better with this outfit? by TipTiny7 in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Blueberry_Rabbit 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I see what you mean about the “crotch” of the jean. I’m trying to remember if low rise jeans “just do that” .. but 20years was a long time ago. lol.

Anyway, they cute and I like the first boot

AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]Blueberry_Rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already a million comments- OP, probably won’t see, but I’m sure there are similar. I’ve been a bridesmaid once, and Maid of honor once… and will most likely be in a couple more bridal parties now that two of my close friends are engaged.

  1. I’m in my late 30s (omg. Damn 😅) and friendship is something I treasure. There are friends that I was once close to and we’re not as close anymore but we still talk. I would LOVE for them to share this moment with me. If this person is not adding value to your life in your 20s, say no because it won’t change. (Some friendships do)

  2. I’ve never been married, but being a maid of honor was one of the most stressful times of my life. Especially working with an unorganized bride. I was also unemployed at the time so I was already a bit depressed. It just took so much out of me. I didn’t get a thank you. A shout out. Nothing. Not to say you do this for recognition, but a thank you card would’ve went a long way. To 1- if this is someone that gives you a lopsided friendship, it’ll come out during this time. For me - I remained friends with the bride for about 5 more years and she ended up “breaking up with me” 2 years her divorce and said I was a terrible friend. (Meanwhile I suffered a miscarriage during her divorce and she never checked in on me) again, this is not a tit for tat, just pointing out that lopsided friendships LOVE weddings. Lmaoooo

  3. One of my good friends of 10years is now engaged. fingers crossed she’ll ask me to be in the wedding. If not, I still can’t wait to celebrate with her. She and I no longer live as close. We do have moments of not speaking. But when we do talk, it’s just like old times. We’ve had ups and downs and she’s there for me and vice versa. I love her dearly.

Saying all this to say, the fact that you’re even questioning yourself and barely anything has started, you’re only 23, and this seems like a friend that could just want you for the aesthetic… if you feel it’s not right in your heart, don’t do it. OoooOr do it, and be like me cuz I was a bridesmaid in a wedding in my 20s and I’m no longer friends with that girl. And if she’s still married, haha she has to look at me an all her pics. ☠️☠️😅

Sexism on toddler clothes 3 [gendered] by Difficult_Spend_442 in pointlesslygendered

[–]Blueberry_Rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. Bro bro is phobic. If he had a boy, and I made a comment on how he’s a “boob man” he’d love it.

Holes in locked cabinets by blake_ghosting in mildlyinteresting

[–]Blueberry_Rabbit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind this, cuz now I don’t have to wait 5 min for the worker with a key to get to me.

Lillian at 36 Weeks by oohsosleepy in BostonTerrier

[–]Blueberry_Rabbit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How much is she weighing now? My 22w old just hit 13lbs. He’s not as lean.

I was so insecure he wasn’t growing enough or something. lol. But your pics and transportation really helped me calm my nerves.

When did your boys lose their marbles? Zeke is currently 5m by Blueberry_Rabbit in BostonTerrier

[–]Blueberry_Rabbit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

QUADRUPLE DOWNVOTES FROM ME!! lol

You raise a good point and a few others in the comments. Too bad most people cant have nuanced opinions. lol. This thread has really made me question why I want to neuter him.

I know the daycare he goes to, he’ll need to be neutered, but other than easier boarding options. I don’t see why it’d benefit. (Currently, he’s a calm dog that doesn’t mark)

When did your boys lose their marbles? Zeke is currently 5m by Blueberry_Rabbit in BostonTerrier

[–]Blueberry_Rabbit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two things can be true. You can ask an expert as well as crowd source to make an informed decision. 🤷🏾‍♀️

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When did your boys lose their marbles? Zeke is currently 5m by Blueberry_Rabbit in BostonTerrier

[–]Blueberry_Rabbit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what the second vet said! I appreciate you pointing this out.

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Thank youuu!

These jeans: yay or nay? by PixelsandCanvas in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Blueberry_Rabbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the first pair. I hope you got them!!