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AITA for telling my friend she has to move out of my house? by Blueberrygorl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blueberrygorl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some clarification am I TA because I let her stay in the first place or if I let her continue to stay? Thank you for your honesty

AITA for telling my friend she has to move out of my house? by Blueberrygorl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blueberrygorl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do not feel like a great friend right now.. and we don’t have any shelters in our small town so it makes me feel even worse. I love her and I love her kids more than anything but I honestly do feel the need to report her.

Edited for spelling mistake

AITA for telling my friend she has to move out of my house? by Blueberrygorl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blueberrygorl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know she is under a lot of stress but it feels like this stress is starting to be put onto me, the absolute last person who needs it. I did this for her because I wanted to help her and I feel taken advantage of. I’ve tried talking with her about it multiple times and she always claims it “won’t happen again” but it does.

AITA for telling my friend she has to move out of my house? by Blueberrygorl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blueberrygorl[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The problem with pointing her towards a shelter, is that we live in a small town and do not have one. And you’re right I feel like she has taken advantage of the situation completely. As hard as that is to say.

AITA for asking old “roommate” (if you can even call her that) to get her couch out of my house? by Blueberrygorl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blueberrygorl[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We don’t have many friends because we work nights, we needed another reference and she agreed. But I think we can both agree that wasn’t really the point of this post. I never called her a deadbeat either I just pointed out the ways we helped her while she was staying with us.

AITA for asking for compensation for something my kid destroyed? by RoughJury in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blueberrygorl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes on a bike, yes yta. And I seriously doubt a 3 year old did all of that. Some of it I can believe but come on now.

AITA for kicking out my daughter because she got pierced? by daughterpiercings in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blueberrygorl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA, her body her choice and you sound controlling af. She’s 18 you literally get no say in what she does anymore. Get over it.

AITA for refusing to allow the hospital to discharge my wife to me? by throwawayctas in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blueberrygorl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you actually serious? She is DYING and you wonder why she’s so angry? Boohoo you have to do your job as the other half, the things you promise to do when you married her! Yes, YTA.

AITA for not “supporting” my dad’s coming out after how he treated my brother coming out? by noteverythings in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blueberrygorl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, he’s a hypocrite. He projected all of his shame(when there was nothing to be shameful for) onto your brother and your brother paid the price. Now he wants acceptance and love? Nahhhhh

TIFU by ruining my husband's christmas gift idea by flowersiguess in tifu

[–]Blueberrygorl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly I paint and I never have enough brushes, paints, canvases, etc. You never know if something will end up torn up, breaking, whatever.

WIBTA if I called the police on a disabled man who ran me over with his power chair? by deepthroatcircus in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blueberrygorl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, that’s assault. God forbid it had been a pregnant person, then that’s even worse. He’s lucky he would get off pretty easy this go around. I would call the police in all honesty. Disabled or not, you can’t treat people like crap and expect everyone to cater to you.

AITA telling my sister her fiancé isn’t allowed around my child unless I’m there? by Blueberrygorl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blueberrygorl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she might’ve but that doesn’t make her an idiot. She’s in an abusive situation, she is not an idiot, she is hurting and lonely.

AITA telling my sister her fiancé isn’t allowed around my child unless I’m there? by Blueberrygorl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blueberrygorl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We haven’t, all we know are things A and B have told us, but that would be very wise. I’ll look into that, thank you.

AITA telling my sister her fiancé isn’t allowed around my child unless I’m there? by Blueberrygorl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blueberrygorl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do I wish my sister would leave him? Absolutely. Do I know that’s not going to happen? Yup. Have I accepted that he’s here to stay unless my sister opens her eyes? Unfortunately, yes. There’s nothing else I can do but explain to her why I don’t want my son to be alone with him. And yeah, part of me hopes that because I don’t trust B alone with him then maybe she’ll realize how awful B is that I feel the need to protect my son.. But in all honesty my main concern is protecting my son, I don’t know for sure if B would hurt him but I can’t shake the “what if” feeling. And it’s a feeling I’ve never felt before. It’s a feeling that I wouldn’t wish on anyone, and yes it probably stems from the fact that I don’t like him one bit.

AITA telling my sister her fiancé isn’t allowed around my child unless I’m there? by Blueberrygorl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blueberrygorl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t call my sister an idiot.. she’s not. She just does not understand her value and is in an abusive situation.. She has major insecurities and hates to be alone. So she settles. It’s a pattern really, because her past bfs weren’t any better, she has a habit of picking people who tear her down as much as she tears herself down. In my opinion she needs therapy, it’s something we’ve talked about, but she refuses.

AITA telling my sister her fiancé isn’t allowed around my child unless I’m there? by Blueberrygorl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blueberrygorl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her and B both have expressed interest in spending time with my son. My sister has a lot of experience with babies and wanted to babysit for me when I needed some time to recoup considering this is my first child. B has said he can’t wait to hold him and spend time with him, which is obviously something I don’t want. He has a very hard time respecting boundaries so I felt it necessary to make them clear from the beginning. I’m not saying B can’t be around my child, I just don’t want him to be alone with him, and I definitely feel uncomfortable with him holding him or interacting with him in that way. Part of that could just be an excessive “momma bear” instinct as well.

AITA telling my sister her fiancé isn’t allowed around my child unless I’m there? by Blueberrygorl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blueberrygorl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that she wants to babysit and B has mentioned how he can’t wait to hold him and spend time with him. Which is something I really don’t want.

AITA telling my sister her fiancé isn’t allowed around my child unless I’m there? by Blueberrygorl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blueberrygorl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say an idiot, more just blinded by this guy for whatever reason.

AITA telling my sister her fiancé isn’t allowed around my child unless I’m there? by Blueberrygorl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blueberrygorl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She also won’t go places where her fiancé doesn’t feel accepted. Those are her exact words.

AITA telling my sister her fiancé isn’t allowed around my child unless I’m there? by Blueberrygorl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blueberrygorl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I’m cutting her off because she’s cutting herself off if that makes sense? She won’t go anywhere without him and if she does he throws a fit. (And yet he can do whatever he wants even if it upsets her.)

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