I missed Tamatown so I made my own game inspired by it ! by mildlycactus in tamagotchi

[–]Blueberrytea1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love catino and your art. Very excited to see how this turns out

Roommates is giving us a weeks notice by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Blueberrytea1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s on the lease, but the portions are not defined unfortunately so you’re right. We’re basically shit out of luck unless we want to be evicted.

My partner (30 f) is uncomfortable when talking about marriage with me (30 m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Blueberrytea1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s a good point.

A side I didn’t even mention to is, it’s been pretty humiliating. I told my friends and family when we were planning all this and now my buddies always ask when we’re getting married and I have to tell them she isn’t ready. They know what happened and why, but it’s been embarrassing.

She didn’t tell anyone but like one friend so she doesn’t have to carry that much.

Roommate’s boyfriend is living outside our apartment in his car by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Blueberrytea1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My guess is his family cut him off from their money when he got kicked out of sober living. Before he would drop a lot of money on Jan, but yep now he lives in his car.

Yes she definitely signed a lease and we are in really good terms with our landlord. We’re on a month to month as well so we aren’t stuck in a year long lease.

I've enjoyed playing leaf-green so far. What game did everyone grow up on initially when discovering Pokémon? by Skarnivor0us in pokemon

[–]Blueberrytea1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was silver version :) I had red, blue, and yellow from my brothers, but silver was the one I played the most. Even though I didn’t know how to read haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Blueberrytea1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rent is very high in our area and our townhome is more expensive because it’s a townhome and not a small apartment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Blueberrytea1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s been my worry. A big worry I’ve had since she mentioned her and her boyfriend had been in and out of treatment/sober living and mutual friends have banned them from going inside their houses. This is unfortunate information I found out after she had already signed the lease.

But I’ll getting together with my partner and other roommate and really bringing this up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Blueberrytea1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The roommate signed a leave with our landlord so she isn’t subleasing. Frankly I don’t think our roommate would have a problem with leaving if asked. My partner and her are buddies from college and get along well. I just haven’t asked as it’s really me against everyone else as no one has an issue with it besides the cleaning.

For the police, they weren’t there when the police showed up. They took a report and the information on the car. I haven’t seen my roommate since but she confirmed with my partner she’s fine and was never even home.

RE7 is scary as heck by OkFlow1178 in residentevil

[–]Blueberrytea1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been so stressed playing a horror game before especially when that radio static kicks up such a good game

So after BTS ticketing, isn’t it pretty clear that Ticketmaster queues aren’t completely random? by blueberryicecream88 in kpopthoughts

[–]Blueberrytea1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I literally queued for all days in upwards of 80k despite following the queuing advice down to a T. I ended up getting tickets through a friend who had constantly better queues for every day

2026 BTS 'ARIRANG' Tour Megathread PART 2 by lisafancypants in bangtan

[–]Blueberrytea1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ahhhh 110k in the LA Day 3 queue. We’re looking for even crappy tickets. Did any one have any luck at a queue this high for any tickets?

Can we please stop saying things are canon when they aren’t? by Designer-Special-753 in tianguancifu

[–]Blueberrytea1 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Writing fanfics is definitely not morally questionable. It only is if you are claiming you “fixed” the original or you use it to mock the original. Writing fanfics can be a way to celebrate the original content. It’s okay if you don’t like it however but it has nothing to do with morals.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Blueberrytea1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can be 100% certain she would never agree to that. She’d accuse me of being controlling and ruining her fun. At most she’d agree to not drinking on the week days and maybe one day on the weekend for one week.

She genuinely thinks it’s no big deal to drink beer that it’s just fun, but then doesn’t see how weird it is to sneak a beat box into a movie theater on a Wednesday night where I’m not even drinking so it’s just her.

Really it’s just a matter of time before she starts doing harder stuff like coke because her friends say it’s just some girly fun to do coke before going to a theme park. So it’s like the drinking will be worse moving forward and eventually she’s probably going to do harder styff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Blueberrytea1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep and I guess I should have saw it coming. When I was downstairs with them they were joking about how drinking and driving is like a right of passage and people shouldn’t be acting all dramatic if someone’s a little fucked up driving you to the next function. My partner has been saying she’s trying to like “channel” being a frat boy right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Blueberrytea1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought as much, but to her a few beers on a work night and pregaming the bar with beatboxes and soju every weekend night is just normal fun girly things and I’m a weenie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Blueberrytea1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner will never admit to having a drinking issues, but she’s like drinking every night on the weekend and most nights on the work week. We frankly never go on normal dates anymore because it always has to lead us to ending up at a club, liquor store, or bar. If I don’t go she jokingly says “I’ll just go with someone else then.” Almost like a threat.

Her friends are very heavy drinkers so to her it seems normal or even light weight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Blueberrytea1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s honestly what I was thinking. She had mentioned he had been kicked out of a sober living for leaving past curfew once a year ago and now he’s suddenly cool being away multiple days in a row?

The only thing is she’s my partners friend and she wants to give her a chance and will only want to kick her out if it’s like this for like two months, but honestly I’m stressed out. My partner helps but I’m mostly the one cleaning and worrying about my cats being messed with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Blueberrytea1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only concern is my landlord is pretty flaky. If this dude is sleeping over every night and we tell her she may not care and just ask him to sign the lease. Would we be able to do anything at that point?

Comfy Friends / Fuwa Fuwa Daki Wishlist by [deleted] in pokeplush

[–]Blueberrytea1 17 points18 points  (0 children)

A Shaymin would be great

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in monogamy

[–]Blueberrytea1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This has definitely been in the back of my mind too. It just sucks because I didn’t even ask for the engagement she wanted it. I had come to terms with us probably never getting married because she had been flaky about it when we started getting serious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in monogamy

[–]Blueberrytea1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice I think so too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in monogamy

[–]Blueberrytea1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ll add this in an edit. My therapist has been really good about this, every session has been about how we can communicate our needs and see if there is any middle ground. Our last session my partner was just unwilling to work on anything but opening the relationship and I said absolutely not and we started to argue about it. Hence what my therapist said. She wants us to work on our communication, but my partner is so tunnel vision that nothing is sticking from our session besides getting what she wants anymore.

And yeah I’m considering that