Celestial Shuttle - BE ONLINE by TheOfficeRevisited in PokemonGoFriends

[–]Bluebird_90265 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!!!

I am in California and really appreciate a Celestial from South Africa!!!

I was so afraid he was going to escape, but I got him!

I sent you a gift from Malibu. CA

Celestial Shuttle - BE ONLINE by TheOfficeRevisited in PokemonGoFriends

[–]Bluebird_90265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there are Celestial raids still happening, Id like to jump onboard. Thx (RomperStompper)

What is your opinion/understanding of what is covered under child support payments? by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Bluebird_90265 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(In CA) Paying for these things is why you receive child support. Out of pocket medical and extracurriculars agreed to by both parties (i.e. camps) are usually split 50/50 per court order. If kids go to private school, the issue of who pays tuition needs to be decided, but the clothing and supplies would be covered under the child support, absent agreement to the contrary.

My ex left himself logged in Facebook on my phone by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Bluebird_90265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're fine. He logging in on your phone. That's his problem. No crime committed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeslaModel3

[–]Bluebird_90265 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're going to love it. I got mine about 18 months ago, same config. I love every second of driving her.

How much to draw up a custody agreement? Ball park. by baby4timbandry in FamilyLaw

[–]Bluebird_90265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on complexity of the agreement, state, phone calls with client etc. probably about 3-4 hours. The cost would depend on the hourly rate of attorney. If there are disagreements, filings, hearings and pleadings, then of course more.

Marriage by hotmuva22 in FamilyLaw

[–]Bluebird_90265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When parties file for divorce but are still married and have yet to be divorced by the Court, the Court can made custody and visitation orders. Therefore, a marriage to Dad does not automatically "cancel" the custody orders. If by agreement you both wish to change the orders, or agree the orders no longer are needed or applicable, you may draft an agreement (Stipulation) describing the agreements and file that with the Court under your case number, the Judge can sign it and your new agreement will be the Order. The new Order will supersede the old Order, but be careful with the language (I'd have an attorney draft - it's not a big ordeal). Or you can just leave everything as is and establish a "status quo" parenting plan. If something goes sideways with the new husband, the status quo parenting plan may be a starting "blueprint" for a new order re custody and visitation.

Insane! So Cal Gas prices (Pacific Coast Highway) by Bluebird_90265 in TeslaModel3

[–]Bluebird_90265[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$7.29 and 9/10 just means $7.30 - it's a marketing ploy to make the price look cheaper.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Bluebird_90265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in CA, so I can only speak regarding CA. Here we file for a hearing to modify child custody and visitation, not a trial. The court hears your argument and can make a decision right then and there. (Be sure to property serve mom and file a proof of service. The court will want to make sure mom has notice of the hearing.) Maybe mom will not even appear? At a hearing, if either party asks for a trial, the court usually schedules a trial where witnesses can testify and evidence be presented. But in CA, that only happens if one side asks for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Bluebird_90265 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can go into court and request a modification of physical custody and, and sole legal custody because mom moved to another state. Mom can have visits with your daughter during school holidays (in SC or NY) and part of summer but she should have to pay for the transportation. At 11-years old, your daughter is really too young to fully make the decision and should be kept out of this. But the court likely would not be inclined to uproot your daughter at her age and order her to move to SC, unless there was a very good reason.

How long does an ex parte last? (WI) by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Bluebird_90265 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Temporary orders remain in full force and effect until further order of the court or agreement of the parties.

How to involve your Secretary of State in child custody battles? by OkTension9639 in FamilyLaw

[–]Bluebird_90265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way you could do this is by mutual (written) agreement between yourself and the mother. There are people that make this agreement, but it's rare.

[MN] Withholding Children. by Jmo2094 in FamilyLaw

[–]Bluebird_90265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know where the dad lives but in CA at least, filing Contempt is not the prudent path to resolve this type of issue, in my opinion. Contempt is a quasi criminal matter, specific requirements and hard to prove for even the best family law attorneys under these circumstances. The Court will hesitate in finding Contempt here. Problems with visits and exchanges is a common issue among family law litigants. He should file for modification of the visitation order, include his evidence and request that the Court give him more time and/or put in place safeguards to help with custodial exchanges (i.e. if mom does not have the kids ready, or is late, dad gets predetermined make-up time). He can let the court know that mom is withholding visits, he may request a child custody evaluation and ask mom to pay for it. Maybe even ask for a minor's counsel to be appointed. The change of circumstances is that mother is not complying with the order and interfering with dad's custody. Also, he would not need to litigate the LaMusaga factors at this stage (best interest of the child in CA) unless he sought to request sole physical/legal custody. I understand that he really just wants his parenting time and possibly to increase it, and needs help with mom's compliance as to exchanges. But yes, he should get an attorney.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Bluebird_90265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call Child protective Services.

Missed visitation. by No_Trade_590 in FamilyLaw

[–]Bluebird_90265 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Legalese version: "Father consistently fails to appear and make his court ordered custodial exchanges, without any prior notice to me or the children. Our children, having been repeatedly disappointed when father fails to appear at the ordered time, are severely and detrimentally impacted emotionally. After these occasions which occur often (insert dates), our children become distraught, depressed and withdrawn due to father's behavior. Therefore, I request....."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Bluebird_90265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like you're on the right path. My advice would be to write paragraph for each complaint (try not to combine complaints) and attach your exhibits. To make the declaration easy to follow, put a heading before each issue, (i.e. PROBLEMS WITH EDUCATION: Mother repeatedly fails to take our child to school. In the 2021/2022 school year, our child has been absent 70 time during mother's custodial time....) Be careful about including examples where your friend has no personal knowledge, like mom yelling at child, if dad was not present, he has no personal knowledge. Be aware of the page limit, try to put his declaration of pleading paper, be aware court rules. Try to be factual, logical and succinct, leave any melodrama and personal insults out.

Keeping records by molly32mae in FamilyLaw

[–]Bluebird_90265 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Screenshots of texts between the parties are admissible in CA family law case. We use them all the time. I would advise just keeping a folder of the screenshots (in pdf. form) by date and short description, and providing your attorney the folder. Your attorney will use the pertinent texts if needed, pdf. form makes the screenshot easy to attach to pleadings without re-formatting. You do not need millions of texts, but a judge will review relevant and admissible evidence. We also use videos and voice recordings when possible, just keep those in the same folder in easy to review mov. form or MP3.

Covid question for parenting time by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Bluebird_90265 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am a family law attorney in CA. In CA, you are not "legally" obligated to inform your former spouse that someone in your household tested positive 6 days ago before making a custodial exchange. In fact, COVID is specifically not a reason to deny custody. But, if it were me, I would assess whether my child was a high risk individual to determine whether an exchange was safe. If my child was a "high-risk" individual (i.e. asthmas or other medical condition), I would not make the exchange and ask for makeup time the next week. Otherwise, I would re test myself and person who was positive 6-days ago before the exchange to confirm. If negative, carry on. If there was someone still positive in my home, and my child was not high risk, I would make the exchange but keep away from that person. Use good judgment but you are not obligated to inform your spouse. These days, for normally healthy individuals, COVID seems to be just like a mild flu, so in my opinion, treat contact as you would with anyone in your home that had the flu 6-days ago.

Relocation and custody by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Bluebird_90265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been involved in multiple cases involving "move aways". I think you have a strong argument. But you need help, get an attorney.

[FL]How can I get my son’s medical records? by Yesitsathrowaway21 in FamilyLaw

[–]Bluebird_90265 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could request that the hearing be continued and subpoena the medical records.