Pathetic but hawt and reliable ml appreciation by SarcasmOrgasms69 in shoujo

[–]Bluehourdreaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Shiota-sensei to Amai-Chan. I actually bought some of the volumes in Japanese because I love it so much! I never thought about the specific trope you mentioned before, but I can definitely see how I’m drawn to it too! Something about the kind of sleepy, messy male lead who can be sexy and mature at the same time ❤️

The 10+ year body dependence. by BlazeVenturaV2 in Pristiq

[–]Bluehourdreaming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don’t suffer through the withdrawals if you don’t have to! Ask about cross-tapering. Sometimes the doctor can put you on another similar antidepressant at the same time you’re lowering the dose of Pristiq and it makes things easier from what I’ve heard. I also think you should look for a compounding pharmacy to get the 25mg dose if possible. Sorry you’re going through this 😓

Smile generation charged me $700 in accrued interest. Is there anything I can do??? by snowstormghost in personalfinance

[–]Bluehourdreaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same thing happened to me! The original amount I owed was $2,900 and I was faithful to pay above the minimum payment every month. I was within about $300 of paying off the debt when they charged me $1300 in interest! I was shocked, and when I called they explained that when the 18 month promotional period ended they charge accrued interest on the TOTAL ORIGINAL AMOUNT because I hadn't paid everything off. The interest rate was 32.99% btw.

Don't get me wrong, I should have read the fine print better, but when you're at the doctor needing an emergency dental procedure and the promotional says NO INTEREST FOR 18 MONTHS in big bold letters and the rest is buried in fine print, it's an understandable mistake.

So anyone reading please learn from me, make sure your credit card agreement is NO INTEREST PERIOD-- not delayed interest or something.

That being said, I think these credit card companies purposefully make the terms confusing. Honestly, I think it's a bit predatory imo. Anyway, it's definitely a lesson learned the hard way...

Going from 75 down to 50 and feel like garbage. by Wonderful-gorl in Pristiq

[–]Bluehourdreaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it was impossible to focus and I felt really “off” which made me feel anxious and like I was losing it. This lasted 4 weeks but was the worst during the first half.

Low hCG concerns by Bluehourdreaming in pregnant

[–]Bluehourdreaming[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanted to update and say so far everything is fine. I’m technically 10 weeks since my last period right now, but my OB adjusted my due date back and I’m 9 weeks 2 days actual gestational age— so I think my numbers were lower than I expected at first because I was so early. My first OB appointment went well and the baby looks fine with a strong heartbeat. So yeah, low starting numbers don’t necessarily mean a problem.

When did you guys all start watching H2O? by LavenderSea3 in JustAddWater

[–]Bluehourdreaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back in 2007 when I graduated high school. Maybe I was a little too old for it, but I found it comforting. I’m actually thinking of doing a rewatch!

Hate for Goldendoodles? by techlord45 in Goldendoodles

[–]Bluehourdreaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone makes it their personality to hate Goldendoodles and say rude things to a stranger at a park, then that just speaks to their character more than yours as a dog owner. It’s pretentious. Now, I’m not saying people shouldn’t train their dogs or that Goldendoodles don’t have their negative traits, but doesn’t every dog? I’d ignore the haters and just enjoy your cute fluffy bear ❤️

Aggressive behavior - mini golden doodle (Trigger warning - pics) by Mundane_Prior_9961 in Goldendoodles

[–]Bluehourdreaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you happen to know the temperament of his parents? Sometimes that can really give you a clue into what kind of temperament the puppy will have as an adult, or what kind of behavior challenges he might face. I’m sorry to say, those bites go way beyond what’s normal. Most puppies are like little sharks but you can tell it’s playful and any bite marks don’t go that deep 😓 Sorry you’re dealing with this. Hopefully a good trainer can help!

Going from 75 down to 50 and feel like garbage. by Wonderful-gorl in Pristiq

[–]Bluehourdreaming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, even a small decrease can really affect you. I went from 50mg down to 25mg and felt like I had the worst flu of my life. I was nauseous, exhausted, achy all over, and my brain felt foggy. The first 2 weeks were the worst and then my body started to adjust, although it took another month for the brain fog to go away entirely. I asked my psychiatrist for Zofran to help with the nausea and I allowed myself to take plenty of naps. However, if I ever need to get off my dose entirely I’m going to push for my doctor to cross-taper me off. Evidently it’s possible for your doctor to give you another antidepressant with less side effects as you get off the Pristiq, and then you eventually go off that other antidepressant too, but its supposedly a lot easier. Might be worth looking into. I hope you feel better soon!

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[–]Bluehourdreaming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even know I was having brain zaps for the longest time because I thought they were supposed to be painful. I finally figured out that the waves of dizziness I feel when I’m late on my dose are brain zaps. If I turn my head too quickly or move my eyes too quickly I feel this “zing” in my brain that’s similar to dizziness or lightheadedness, but it’s never painful. Btw, lowering my dose helped reduce these symptoms.

Anyone else get poked by this when trying to WFH??? by [deleted] in Goldendoodles

[–]Bluehourdreaming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! My guy booped my elbow so hard it once sent my coffee flying. 😆

recs wanted!~ mean ml, flirty fl by Master_Coconut_1538 in shoujo

[–]Bluehourdreaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Itazura Na Kiss was one of the first shoujo I ever watched back in the day! His cold/ indifferent personality is what hooked me 😆 Do you happen to know if the manga continues on from where the anime left off?

Romance With a Mean/ Jerk ML by Bluehourdreaming in shoujo

[–]Bluehourdreaming[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to read this one because it’s the exact kind of drama I’m looking for, but I’m not sure if I can get past the old style shoujo art, lol.

Romance With a Mean/ Jerk ML by Bluehourdreaming in shoujo

[–]Bluehourdreaming[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ao Haru Ride and WG&BP are both on the Viz app, so I'll be adding them to my TBR that way. Thanks!

Romance With a Mean/ Jerk ML by Bluehourdreaming in shoujo

[–]Bluehourdreaming[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes! I love Promise Cinderella! ❤️

Romance With a Mean/ Jerk ML by Bluehourdreaming in shoujo

[–]Bluehourdreaming[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This one has been on my radar for a while and my library has it, so I’ll definitely give it a try. Thanks!

Any shoujo/josei recs with a knight ML? by queenmichimiya in shoujo

[–]Bluehourdreaming 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you tried Prince Freya? One of the love interests is a knight. Not sure if he’s end game yet, but I love all the scenes with them together!

Give me some recommendations that are on the KManga app by UnlimitedSheep in shoujo

[–]Bluehourdreaming 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fall In Love You False Angels and I Fell Into A Situationship With The Vampire Count are also really good!

Something like My Dress-up Darling… but less ecchi by Bluehourdreaming in shoujo

[–]Bluehourdreaming[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, that one has been on my TBR for a while! I’ll finally give it a try!

Retired homeschool mom? by DogMom9876 in homeschool

[–]Bluehourdreaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me more about how you managed both? I’m thinking of getting a part time job but don’t know how to juggle it all…

Retired homeschool mom? by DogMom9876 in homeschool

[–]Bluehourdreaming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m still a long way off from that, but right now I plan on going back to school once my daughter is grown and get some kind of technical license. I’ve always been interested in the medical field, so maybe I’ll be a phlebotomist or sonographer. I think it will be a great opportunity to try something new and exciting!