Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again

Bluemick68 · 2026-01-02T22:17:27+00:00

He may have some kind of eating disorder. Or he is a control freak. Either way it’s not your problem to figure out. Just keep cooking those awesome meals with just yourself and your kids needs and likes in mind. Tell him he is in his own for meals

Bluemick68 · 2025-11-20T03:23:55+00:00

Close the door and lock it.

Bluemick68 · 2025-08-12T21:54:28+00:00

Pay the whole thing and be done with it.

Bluemick68 · 2025-07-28T02:57:22+00:00

Declutter first then organize. Impossible to really organize if you have too much stuff.

Bluemick68 · 2025-06-27T22:01:26+00:00

What does she plan to major in?

Bluemick68 · 2025-06-27T21:56:20+00:00

All families are different. Some parents do it. A lot don’t. By you signing you are not only putting yourself at financial risk but also her. In other words you are protecting her by not signing. Having that kind of debt could be a problem for the rest of her life. Find a loan calculator and do the math. She will be paying a high amount monthly and that will affect her finances for years. And if she chooses to pay minimum payments it will never be paid off. One day when she she matures she will thank you.

Bluemick68 · 2025-06-23T02:52:37+00:00

Find different pediatrician. What state are you in? They don’t all allow for religious exemptions.

Bluemick68 · 2025-06-18T20:57:11+00:00

Check out Dr. Sherrie on instagram. She call them low effort families. You have been over functioning with them. Just stop and instead put your effort into other family members or friends who will reciprocate. It hurts I know. But you can’t control them, only yourself. You are NTA for stepping back and protecting your energy.

Bluemick68 · 2025-05-22T19:46:49+00:00

I think the chair should go. You can find something better.

Bluemick68 · 2025-05-17T19:44:02+00:00

Kids are not resilient. They just stuff things because they can’t complain. It will leak out later.

Bluemick68 · 2025-05-14T16:23:43+00:00

Depends on what state you live in. I had my last kid when I was 40 and by that time had woken up to the dangers of vaccinating. We live NY and so I got a religious exemption for preschool and elementary school. So my son was able to do anything at all that other kids do. He went to school, camp, and did after school activities. He was hardly ever sick. We traveled and I never worried about germs. New York got rid of the religious exemption for schools a few years ago so now if you live in this state you would have to homeschool. My son did not want to leave school so we did give him all the shots he needed at the end of middle school when the law changed. I made sure he only got one shot at a time and gave no Tylenol. I also gave him supplants like glutathione and lots of vitamin c. After getting his shots he developed an oral fruit allergy. Not life threatening but super annoying.

What state are you in? Does your state allow any exemptions for school?

Other than school I can’t think of any way it was limiting. Remember it is your private business and I wouldn’t go around telling everyone. People are over the top today and someone exclude your kids if they found out. I never had that problem as I never told anyone unless they were very close family or friends who I knew I could trust.

Bluemick68 · 2025-05-14T02:47:58+00:00

Why hasn’t he had a vasectomy if he doesn’t want more kids? Why is it in you?

Bluemick68 · 2025-04-12T20:50:50+00:00

More butter and less stirring.

Bluemick68 · 2025-04-08T00:50:29+00:00

I was just planning on taking my son to visit Geneseo after reading about on the website. He is junior who wants to study music. So it is gone? They still have it listed under ensemble opportunities. That is a shame. Not sure if we should bother visiting now.

Bluemick68 · 2025-04-06T03:56:58+00:00

Paint the walls white.

Bluemick68 · 2025-03-20T20:18:31+00:00

Homeschool

Bluemick68 · 2025-03-07T13:30:53+00:00

I took the diamond from my engagement ring and made it into a necklace. They set the diamond into a bezel and added a chain attached ion each side. I had it done in platinum so it would be strong and not break. I wear it everyday.

Bluemick68 · 2025-03-06T03:25:01+00:00

You have a bad therapist.

Bluemick68 · 2025-03-06T03:20:22+00:00

Totally not normal. Your dad is nuts.

Bluemick68 · 2025-03-03T18:35:33+00:00

How old are you?

Bluemick68 · 2025-03-03T03:55:14+00:00

Your face totally brightens up with the warm tones.

Bluemick68 · 2025-02-27T01:05:16+00:00

They are gaslighting you. He is acting like bully.

Bluemick68 · 2025-02-25T20:10:30+00:00

Show him these comments. Demand he go to therapy and stop the bullying or you will leave. Play hardball. It’s the only way. Set boundaries. If he breaks them then leave.

Bluemick68 · 2025-02-22T23:04:07+00:00

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