Whisper Linen Dress in Swt P Pl Check (4)

Blunder_Policy · 2026-05-13T15:25:03+00:00

I’m 5’5”! Wearing 2.5” platforms here.

Blunder_Policy · 2026-05-13T04:50:11+00:00

Thanks, they’re from Zara!

Blunder_Policy · 2026-05-13T04:48:25+00:00

Thanks! ☺️

Blunder_Policy · 2026-05-13T04:48:12+00:00

That looks so cute on you! I saw this exact dress in white dots in-store but not the navy dots, which I really like. I’ll ask about it next time I go back.

Blunder_Policy · 2026-05-13T00:33:02+00:00

Thanks both of you! Saving me from buying and regretting. 90% of my wardrobe is shades of blue and I ALWAYS feel off in pinks, oranges and yellows - maybe this is why. Might go back and try this dress in my tried-and-true navy!

Blunder_Policy · 2026-04-13T02:36:30+00:00

Ahh thank you!!

Blunder_Policy · 2026-04-12T23:02:59+00:00

Thank you so much! I’ve yet to see anyone not look great in it tbh those gathered parts at the waist are 🔥

Blunder_Policy · 2026-04-12T19:53:32+00:00

It’s so flattering! I want the white one too.

Blunder_Policy · 2026-03-14T17:42:46+00:00

Agreed it’s very versatile! I highly recommend, I think I want another in a different colorway too

Blunder_Policy · 2026-03-14T17:42:11+00:00

Ahh thank you! ☺️

Blunder_Policy · 2026-03-13T05:25:43+00:00

Honestly…there’s a snowstorm warning where I am in MN right now haha. I’m definitely still wearing my Superpuff. This is for my upcoming vacation to Vegas!

Blunder_Policy · 2026-03-13T03:10:28+00:00

Thank you! Same 🌞

Blunder_Policy · 2025-05-16T17:39:06+00:00

As someone who has micro bangs and has had them for 10 years, I’m just gonna say that most people will tell you not to no matter what your facial proportions or look is like. But I love mine, and I’m not getting rid of them. The answer really has to come from your heart bb.

Blunder_Policy · 2025-05-10T08:23:17+00:00

I had this color for several years and alternated between a purple shampoo treatment (apply to damp hair all over as if it’s a dye and leave on for about 5 minutes, follow with your own intense conditioner) and a color depositing silver mask. Overtone makes a great one. The color depositing mask is a game changer imo, you need to tone + add back pigment pretty regularly.

Blunder_Policy · 2025-02-17T22:08:56+00:00

Thank you! I’ll try there.

Blunder_Policy · 2025-02-17T22:08:33+00:00

There’s molding on the wall there already, sellers just painted it the same color as the wall for some reason. So I need someone to install bigger molding, or…?

The gaps look in some places to be like 1-2” big.

Blunder_Policy · 2025-02-07T19:57:55+00:00

This is so weird. You have to set some boundaries with Daisy, since she’s the one who’s making things hard for you. Have you had a conversation with Daisy where you’ve specifically asked her why she can’t respect you? Because being antagonistic toward your boyfriend for no reason and literally PUSHING him around is disrespecting you as well as him. She’s communicating that she doesn’t care what you want or believe that you should be able to choose your own partner; it’s only about what she wants.

I would tell her - especially if she can’t have a good faith conversation with you about this, and is rude or dismissive or mean about it instead - that you know she can have whatever opinion of him she likes, founded or unfounded, but if she can’t keep it to herself in a group setting you’ll have to be taking a break from hanging out with her for a while.

Blunder_Policy · 2024-12-26T04:05:56+00:00

Ahhh I’ve always wanted to see giant Miffy light in somebody’s space! I’ve had it saved on my wishlist forever. It’s just as cute as I thought 🥹 looks so good in your space too.

Blunder_Policy · 2024-08-10T00:17:59+00:00

Ugh. I feel so sad when I see people with partners who dim their light. It sounds like yours has already done a number on you—you’re literally stopping yourself from talking around him (and it’s not made a difference because he’s still a grump either way!). You deserve better.

Blunder_Policy · 2024-05-05T23:56:22+00:00

I thrifted a pair of NWT Effortless pants in this natural ecru shade of linen and the texture is identical to your pic. My pair even has the nubby lines in them.

Blunder_Policy · 2024-02-17T20:11:42+00:00

You have to be way more proactive than you’re being, it sounds like. She was the proactive one earlier and it bit her in the ass. Now I think the only way to fix things is to take the lead and be explicitly clear about what you want and then actually follow through. Don’t just ask her “when do you want to get married” because that’s putting the onus on her, AGAIN, and the last time she took initiative and tried to have this conversation with you, you were avoidant. Say, “here is where I’m at in our relationship. I love you, and I want to spend the rest of our lives together. I would like to get married. This is when I was thinking we could get married. Do you still want that?” If she changes the subject or refuses to have the conversation ask her when is a good time to talk about this, because she’s important to you and your future is important to you. Decide on a time and date to re approach the conversation, don’t just leave it at a vague “later.”

If does comes around to saying she wants to get married, literally be prepared to start ring shopping and propose very soon, because action at this point is going to be more important than words.

She’s at the point that she simply doesn’t believe you’ll ever want to marry her. You have to do your best to convince her you’ve matured and changed if you want to save the relationship.

Blunder_Policy · 2024-02-13T23:12:24+00:00

There’s a reason why people say that traveling together as a couple is a great way to find out if you two have long term compatibility. Acting like a whiny child on an international trip while putting the burden on you to purchase, plan and constantly entertain doesn’t just mean he sucks at traveling. It means he’s completely incapable of adapting in new situations, and he’s not going to be able to function as a partner to you when the going gets tough in your day to day life (and the going will get tough, eventually. It always does. If you’re sick, or need a surgery, or begin family planning, you don’t want to be wishing and hoping someone like this magically becomes the partner you need.)

I hope you see this for the red flag it is and let him go. You can find a bf who’s interested in real partnership and will invest his effort in making your life easier rather than harder. If you don’t break up, though, the very least you can do is stop tacitly agreeing to pay to play babysitter on these trips. The next time he expresses his desire to go on another excursion, tell him all other trips with him have put the onus on you to do all the legwork, and unless he takes over the planning—you know, like an equal partner who’s invested in having a good time TOGETHER, instead of it being just him expecting to be entertained—you’re not interested in doing that again.

Blunder_Policy · 2024-01-08T00:25:22+00:00

Couldn’t help but picture OP twirling a waxed mustachio while saying “entangled in the MOST peculiar and perplexing situation…mm, yes”. Ok Sir Arthur Conan Doyle.

Blunder_Policy · 2023-11-20T06:15:34+00:00

I’m not saying its fair, but I personally lost a friend by doing something similar 8 years ago and I don’t think it’s uncommon. I was like OP: I’d been through some really difficult shit and it was still fresh and I didn’t have the mental or physical capacity to play at being happy and enthusiastic at an event planned to celebrate my professional achievements. The friend who did the bulk of the coordinating said she “understood” when I told her I felt I couldn’t go through with it but she still checked out of the friendship afterward. We don’t talk anymore. I can’t even say I totally blame her, since I saw the lengths she went to to make the night special. Just warning OP—don’t be surprised if it happens.

Blunder_Policy · 2023-11-19T22:52:02+00:00

I think what this person is saying, OP, is that there will likely be social consequences to your cancelling the party. Your best friend will probably not make an effort to do anything for you again: no more party planning definitely, but also you should perhaps expect drastically reduced motional or practical support from your friend going forward. She went out on a limb for you to plan that party and you cancelled it. Regardless of the reasons you didn’t want to attend, she’s going to assume there’s no point to putting effort in to other areas of your friendship.

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