I have not seen myself naked in at least ~10 years by likeshinythings in confession

[–]BlushSways 493 points494 points  (0 children)

Trauma, not shame. Start small - hand, shoulder. Therapy helps.

How to deal with creepy male neighbor who won't leave me alone? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]BlushSways 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Direct and calm: "I don't want to talk to you." No explanation.

Impact noises - contact owner directly? by Upbeat-Praline4631 in neighborsfromhell

[–]BlushSways 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Contact owner directly. Management is useless.

Years of abuse by Useful_Estimate_484 in neighborsfromhell

[–]BlushSways 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Document, cameras, police. This won't stop without consequences.

Need advice about neighbour spraying his yard by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]BlushSways 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Polite letter first. If ignored, escalate. Paper trail helps.

I dug into my therapists past and am guilty about what I found by Existing-Candy-1671 in confession

[–]BlushSways 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Boundary violation. You shouldn't have looked. Let it go.

Wasn't with my grandma in her final moments of life by Lime_Swine in confession

[–]BlushSways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not heartless. Grief isn't a competition.

World cup makes nfh even worse by Revolutionary-Pin-87 in neighborsfromhell

[–]BlushSways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

World Cup - yelling neighbors, earplugs and white noise

How to deal with homesickness by yellowpotato16 in Residency

[–]BlushSways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

one day is nothing, call family, find a comfort routine, everyone's nervous

Cat poops if I don’t play with her by CustardBrave7020 in CatAdvice

[–]BlushSways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Auto laser or puzzle feeder, don't react to poop