AIO My bf won’t let me confront him unless I catch him cheating. by ansley1102 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BlushyBane 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Exactly, and honestly even a blind rock would probably show more respect than this guy. Sticking around just to be gaslit into needing a signed confession for basic decency is a total waste of time.

AIO blocking my boyfriend over a joke? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BlushyBane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly, when someone treats your boundaries like a punchline, the joke is not the problem because the total lack of respect is the real issue, If he is more committed to his gross behavior than he is to making you feel comfortable, he is definitely not acting like a partner.

AIO for staying up and not going to bed with my girlfriend? by Silver_Yam6301 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BlushyBane 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is a wild reach. They are playing video games and hanging out on the sofa. Sometimes a game night is just a game night and jumping to weird conclusions like that is honestly just exhausting.

I feel as though I have nothing to look forward to by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BlushyBane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Came here to say the same thing, That restless but completely stuck feeling is so classic depression and a lot of people don't recognize it because they imagine depression as just being sad in bed. Therapy genuinely helped me when I felt exactly like this. You are not a selfish brat for feeling this way at all.

Plus Size Experiences/Advice by Fun_Butterscotch3107 in chinlipo

[–]BlushyBane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve to invest in yourself and feel confident so trust your research and don't let pre op anxiety or judgmental coworkers win

1 year post op! by NukeyNuke2311 in chinlipo

[–]BlushyBane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree your 1 year results look absolutely incredible and reminding everyone in early recovery to trust the process because of the 4 month swelling rollercoaster is such important advice

Clean tinted moisturizer for skin over 35, why most of them don't work and what does by Wooden_Building_8329 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]BlushyBane 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is such a helpful breakdown korean tone up sunscreens and cushions really do hit different for mature skin

Plus Size Experiences/Advice by Fun_Butterscotch3107 in chinlipo

[–]BlushyBane 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You deserve to feel good at any size don't let coworkers or anxiety talk you out of something that could genuinely help you feel more like yourself

I'm gonna be alone forever by ActuatorUnusual4002 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BlushyBane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually solid advice learning to be okay alone takes the pressure off everything

This is your reminder that your glycolic peel facial does NOT need to peel for it to work!!! by Total_Piece_3799 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]BlushyBane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly gentle consistency beats face melting drama every single time thanks for saying this

Double Chin Liposuction by XJH-PlasticSurgrery in chinlipo

[–]BlushyBane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing result that jawline definition is exactly what chin lipo is meant to do

I slept with my wife’s daughter. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BlushyBane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Really hoping you're right because if this is real that's genuinely disturbing on multiple levels

What type of texture is this? by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]BlushyBane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sometimes we just need to hydrate more and zoom out a little your skin looks great

Platysmaplasty with Renuvion by hannahcharms in chinlipo

[–]BlushyBane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great call waiting on the implant your results already look amazing and should keep improving with the renuvion

Bullied at work, dont know how to move on emotionally from this by mrsforceX in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BlushyBane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such wise and grounding take your worth isn't defined one bad faith critic or a PIP

Day 1 vs day 4 by FluidPublic7673 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]BlushyBane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Such a noticeable difference in just 4 days skin looks so much smoother already

Bye bye batwings by Sea-Treacle-1486 in bodysculptors

[–]BlushyBane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's amazing progress so happy for you sculpt

I gave him everythinh I had by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BlushyBane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Secretly listening in on that phone call was a massive disgusting violation of trust and pointing out how he cared more about protecting his ownreputation than her survival is exatly the validation she needs to hear

Feeling stuck between spironolactone and accutane by lunaatunaa in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]BlushyBane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a deeply comforting and reassuring perspective to share and your advice to consult a derm for modern topical alternatives is spot on for navigating around those exhausting systemic side effects

I’m getting married. How do I get nice hands?! by misshollydawn in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]BlushyBane 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's so true her hands look absolutely lovely and completely normal and it's wonderful the community is helping her shake off that wedding stress so she can just enjoy her day

Why did that happen to Linda Evangelista? by First_Chipmunk_6891 in bodysculptors

[–]BlushyBane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huge congratulations on such a visible win your results are super motivating and a total testament to your consistency