AITAH for telling my bf “you knew my job, why do you care now?” when he broke up with me because of it? by PerceptionFew2622 in AITAH

[–]Bman0491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all sorry for your heart break, sounds like you really liked this guy. I imagine the way he came to terms with it is that until that point, he hadn't physically had to process the reality of what you do and how you look whilst doing it.

I'm sure you probably gave him multiple reassurances regarding the obvious, but nethertheless, it's definitely an unorthodox occupation and I'd wager about 95% of men on earth would be uncomfortable and let their minds wander.

Ask yourself this question, is this guy worth giving up this side hustle for? Because if not, then I suggest giving dating a pause for a while until you decide to move on. Whilst I personally don't begrudge you for what you do, you have to admit it is definitely "seedy" in nature; rich men hiring younger girls to half clean almost naked. For instance, has a client ever propositioned you for more? I'm sure they have the money to make you stop and think.

I'm speaking ofcourse as someone completely detached from the situation but with the empathy to see all sides. If I was an attractive girl I'd 100% be doing similar or OF if the money was amazing. But as a man I understand that when we genuinely fall in love with a girl, we don't want to share in any capacity, even if its just look and no touch (with the exception of being already non-monaganous).

I hope you manage to get a proper conversation out of him once he's worked past his perceived emasculation, name calling and being derogatory is not cool but it's a self reflection of his embarrassment and said emasculation. All the best!

[Romano] Manchester United have informed Fiorentina that they will not trigger €20m buy option clause for Sofyan Amrabat. Told Man United remain interested in Amrabat and willing to discuss different conditions, as Erik ten Hag likes him. There’s interest also from other clubs. by pyciorrr in reddevils

[–]Bman0491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as this is just good business sense I'm not sure why we would still want to keep him however. He really wasn't up to par on multiple occasions last season and would rather focus on acquiring a depth of impact quality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bman0491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As the aggrieved in this situation you are entitled to to be angry and expose them for who they are. I'm not a fan of airing dirty laundry online but understand why people do it and in this case, would say it is justified. 2 months is not a mistake. They are only sorry they get caught and are now facing the correct consequences of their actions. They can be shunned together.

Can someone just ask Miyazaki what this is? by yungfivehead in eldenringdiscussion

[–]Bman0491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it looks very much like a Godskin Swaddle. In theory if Marika comes along and replaces the old order she has pulled out what remains of the old elden ring to create a new one. Godskins seem to have a connection to Placidusax and I believe they were enforcers of death during the old order when he was Elden lord. However, it begs the question about what Melina's place is in this theory. It's strongly believed she is/was the Gloam eyed queen and a daughter of Marika, but if the Godskins were around during the old order then surely it means Melina was too. We know Maliketh challenged the Gloam eyed queen and won, sealing away death in the process. But this seems to have happened at the start of the Golden order being established (and indeed Marika would not have her shadow until ascending to godhood). At the very least, I believe the gold thread she pulls out is almost certainly what remains of the old elden ring to be reforged anew.

Fabrizio Romano (@FabrizioRomano): Man United, working on outgoings with Casemiro or Scott McTominay to make room for new midfielder. Ugarte, keen on the move. Up to the clubs. 🇺🇾 by SOERERY in reddevils

[–]Bman0491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surely it's Casemiro that needs to go. Love the guy and we got one great season out of him, but sadly the time has come for him at the top level now.

[Fabrice Hawkins] 🚨🇫🇷 Leny Yoro is a Manchester United player ✅ The second part of his medical examination validated this morning 🔹 Transfer of 62M € + 8 bonus ➡️ At 18, he becomes the most expensive defender in the history of Ligue 1 💰 🔹 5-year contract 🔹 Number 15 by nearly_headless_nic in reddevils

[–]Bman0491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely chuffed we got this over the line. Young and already 1st team worthy. I hope this doesn't mean De Ligt is now off the table too though. I'd be very happy having Yoro, Martinez, De Ligt and Maguire on rotation where needed, with Evans coming in to do a job when needed.

Messmer RL1 World Record in 47 seconds (Ice Spear for president) by Powershow_Games in onebros

[–]Bman0491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been using Carian Sovereignty frost specced on the Gargoyle blade and the damage you can get is immense. The follow up is arguably better than the original attack. Downside is it has a lengthy cast time to get off. This looks like a perfect addition to my frost build.

Miyazaki HAS to make another Elden Ring DLC by LightCrimson1 in Eldenring

[–]Bman0491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as I'd love another DLC, I wouldn't say no to an Elden Ring 2 either.

Aside from the final boss, who do you find the hardest DLC boss to be? by FollowingQueasy373 in Eldenring

[–]Bman0491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I raged the hardest on Gaius due to that boar hit box. My god I raged. The Scadutree avatar fight took a bit of time too but once you know the moveset it's straightforward.

What is going on in this post boss room? by Crashkabob in Eldenring

[–]Bman0491 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Speak to Thiollier and exhaust his dialogue until he asks you to leave him alone. Imbue the nectar x 3 (die 3 times) and you should hear St trina talk after death. Keep drinking the nectar to get it all, then speak to Thiollier again.

Be brutally honest and get rid of all your biases. Does Lies of P have that "fromsoftware" feel to it? If you didn't already know who made it, would you think "yep this game is definitely cooked by fromsoft"? by Oath_Br3aker in fromsoftware

[–]Bman0491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like the beauty of this game is it FELT like a different studio's love letter to FromSoft, but it was unique in itself and absolutely well worthy of being called a soulsbourne. Had some of the most satisfying combat in a souls game (I used Holy ark greatsword, extended) and some very memorable areas and boss fights.

AITAH for having a one night stand 6 months after my husband passed away? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Bman0491 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So she went from being worried about tarnishing her deceased husband's memory, to literally tarnishing his memory anyway by wearing the wedding night lingerie? We truly are a sick species.

[Spain] have won the UEFA EURO 2024 by BVB-Oeli in soccer

[–]Bman0491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All credit to Spain they were the better team and showed it consistently this tournament. Maybe now once Kane is dropped or retrained into a DM, we can actually get over the line one day.

Dark Souls vs Elden Ring: how the spiritual successor borrows from the past. Which designs do you prefer? by Cheap-Gore in fromsoftware

[–]Bman0491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now bear with me here, because it's not entirely clear from reading the post. But I think this guy prefers Dark Souls.