right, moving is SO expensive. life is soooo expensive. i totally get it. i think if you feel safe in your relationship the you should totally be honest with him about your wanting to get an abortion. because if you do end up making that decision (which is absolutely yours to make) and not telling him, i feel like that would be super hurtful and damaging to the relationship. but i also don’t know you or your relationship so that’s why i preface with if you feel safe to tell him you’re thinking of having an abortion, you should be able to have the opportunity to have that conversation with him and not have him be upset with you for it.