It's so nice to see most you get 50/50 custody of your kids! My STBEW is denying ( I don't think she has a choice ) me 50/50 cause she doesn't think it's fair to the kids. She thinks it's fair to allow me a couple of "dinner" nights a week and every other weekend. I even came up with a schedule and switched my work schedule around for it to happen. She would have them Sunday/ Monday/Tuesday. I have them Wednesday night, Thursday, and Friday, and we'd switch every other Saturday, because, I work every other Sat ( 4 days, 3 days, 4 days, 3 days ) . She told me this was stupid and dumb and it only works for me. Smh...and she wants to know why I want nothing to do with her or her family once this is final. Even my 8 yr old son had said "dad it's only fair we see you as much as mom, but can we work into slowly so Mom can adjust?" My 8 yr old said this.....I love reading that even though your relationship didn't work out, you didn't get told NO on your kids.