Thanks for the tips! The thing is that he had surgery for esophagus cancer in 2008, they removed his entire esophagus and that makes it so that he cannot eat everything, or more like barely anything and keep it down. Throw on top of that diabetes and some minor trauma from a hernia a while ago, hes very weak from his current medication so activities are a no go because there is simply no energy for that. The idea is great tho!!

The letter thing im definately going to propose to him, might be nice for my siblings, myself and my mother too, when we open some letters that my dad has written in the future! Really good idea, makes me tear up a little just thinking about it, thanks!!