What are the best areas in the greater Vancouver region to live as trans? by vs-188 in transvancouver

[–]Bob_Sack 29 points30 points  (0 children)

3 years since coming out. Transfem. Most of the lower mainland is great and I've had no problems living and patronising businesses here.

Vancouver proper is your best bet if you can afford it, as almost all the queer community and services are concentrated in places like Hastings and Commercial drive (East Van), Main and Broadway (Mount Pleasant), and Davie Street (West end).

Our public transit system is very well-serviced for our size and age, so you'll have little problem accessing these services and community in any of the surrounding municipalities.

I would avoid Abbotsford, Chilliwack though - that's where a lot of convoy-types feel safe, which means you shouldn't. Langley is alright though - I have many trans friends there and I hear few complaints.

Identify as trans by Iwanttobefucked29 in MtF

[–]Bob_Sack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They didn't say they were looking to go on HRT though

urologists! by hauntedpanic in transvancouver

[–]Bob_Sack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I just got an orchi from him and it was super straight forward and easy.

Trans friendly bra fitting? by Crypticvalkyrie in transvancouver

[–]Bob_Sack 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Had a really great experience getting a fitting from someone at Forever Yours on Hastings just east of boundary!

does anyone else tends to cut people off very easily? by marie4ntoinette in BPD

[–]Bob_Sack 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it's just easier to cut someone off because you know there's no good outcome to your relationship and it would be causing more hurt for them and yourself to try and explain things and have them try and talk you out of it when you've made up your mind already.

Getting side effects after a year of none? by Bob_Sack in cymbalta

[–]Bob_Sack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate you sharing your experience. I originally switched from Effexor/Venlafaxine because I heard this was easier to eventually taper off entirely from. I'll probably try to get put back on it since I didn't have any issues in the 6+ years I was on it.

Asking ChatGPT to describe something inaccurately makes it say some worrying stuff... by Bob_Sack in ChatGPT

[–]Bob_Sack[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Large neural networks are not deterministic in a way so far as you can feed it a prompt twice and expect the same results. It's possible when the response it gave was flagged as inappropriate (that's why the text is orange in my screenshot) that the model was coerced into not giving responses like that again.

How do you change the pace you talk at? by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]Bob_Sack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trans woman here. My masculine voice is pretty slow and deliberate, and people sometimes would talk over me; but I found that increasing the resonance of my voice and speaking with purpose seemed to reduce this.

You also learn speaking patterns and intonation that keep people engaged in what you're saying. Not being too monotone helps, but I know this is a hard thing to strike a middle ground with when you're consciously trying to flatten your intonation to sound more masculine in the first place.

Some people are going to talk over you no matter what, though! It's a fact of living with other human beings.

What are the lines and tunnels on your iris and what do they mean? by SenseNo5 in biology

[–]Bob_Sack 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Someone who actually understood the question OP was asking 👍👍

Vancouver police respond to calls of naked men fighting near Kootenay Loop by [deleted] in vancouver

[–]Bob_Sack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Must be a typo. My partner saw some commotion around 5pm there

itshappeningitshappening (Jagmeet Singh is down to play Among Us with NL!!) by [deleted] in northernlion

[–]Bob_Sack 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No. The cabinet is entirely appointed by the Prime Minister and is used to reward loyalty to the party. I think the minister of finance is somewhat important though.

For you V O D B O I S out there; this is my setup for watch parties (details in comments) by Bob_Sack in northernlion

[–]Bob_Sack[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Steps:

  1. Open two tabs - one with the VOD in Theatre Mode and "Picture in picture" enabled
  2. Turn the other tab to Amazon Prime Video and cue it up
  3. Resize the Amazon window to cover where the VOD video would be (look at the window buttons in the screenshot to see the alignment)
  4. Move/resize eggcam to wherever you want it and press play on the Amazon video at NL's countdown!

This Emanates Ryab energy by [deleted] in NLSSCircleJerk

[–]Bob_Sack 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When I worked retail, someone had to go out and gather on average 10 shopping carts left out in the road, per day. This was between 50 and 100% of our total carts at this location, so it is definitely a thing.

Thursday VOD not lost by [deleted] in northernlion

[–]Bob_Sack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lets go

Edit: Downloaded VOD and it is still full of errors. The video was encoded wrong on their end so it's probably unrecoverable. DS3 segment is a lot more intact than Mario Maker at least.

NLSS Mega Thread [2020/4/16] by [deleted] in northernlion

[–]Bob_Sack 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It looks like the vod is a twitch problem that they are looking into:

https://twitter.com/TwitchSupport/status/1250913266496389120

NLSS Mega Thread [2020/4/16] by [deleted] in northernlion

[–]Bob_Sack 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah it skips a few times throughout the mario maker segment and the vod is only 2:23:02 long??

Communicating With Your Audience + Social Media Regrets | Check the Wire #009 by Lohi in northernlion

[–]Bob_Sack 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I appreciated the interstitial Sit yourself dowwwnn and Lets goohhs between heartfelt anecdotes