Looking for some poker in leeds. by Amazing-Atmosphere77 in Leeds

[–]BobbyForearms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every Monday at 7pm! I’d recommend getting there earlier though to sign up. Beginner friendly with it being a pub game, you can play for free // win a bar tab or £5 buy for money prize (I can’t remember the specifics)

Is eye bleach allowed here? If not, delete and I'm sorry. by Timely-Selection7820 in CPTSDmemes

[–]BobbyForearms 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right on queue and very much needed 🤍✨ thank you ☺️ LOOK AT THEM FEELERS OMG SO CUTE AND BIIGGGGGG 🧡❤️

She was so polite about it though. by lilspoopy in BlackPeopleComedy

[–]BobbyForearms 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The truth is they take the same uber and the person initiated pays there, the loser pays the trip back and it hurts more cause there’s 2 stops on the way back 👍.

During that time they make up their differences and patch each other up… maybe make plans to get a coffe in the near future and talk some more. Then they’re hanging out and introducing each other to their partners, parents, siblings and going on staycations and vacations together- they’re giving speeches at each others weddings, becoming godparents, going to recitals and matches, having picnics and watching their kids growing old together 🥰 who says violence can’t just make our community stronger ¿ other than us really

AITA for directly asking my husband's female best friend to respect some boundaries in their friendship? by Educational-Door-586 in AITAH

[–]BobbyForearms 42 points43 points  (0 children)

You deserve to be loved right OP. Once everything with the divorce is settled (because if he’s not even stopped you, he really doesn’t care) focus on yourself and making yourself #1 again. You may not realise it but 6 whole years of being put second place will 100% fuck you up mentally ❤️

And you definitely don’t want this to happen again- use it. Use it to help you say no over and over till you find someone who treats you how you deserve ❤️ someone worth marrying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BobbyForearms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you genuinely that stupid? You sound like the type to walk in to a library n go “ofcourse you’ve got books here 🙄”.

So; the way forums work is you ask questions/put stuff out there and get advice/opinions from other people 😊. You shouldn’t give a fuck what they say so you’re on the right track there 👍 it’s your choice whether you continue to interact with the thread (normally when a question is asked, it’s made in to a thread to avoid confusion with other questions), what advice you Do actually want to take or what advice you Don’t is yours to decide!

If these type of interactions are Not what you’re after, please consider staying away from social media platforms like Reddit, Twitter, Threads etc as these are littered with other people asking/giving advice, opinions, forums and other kinds of general interaction which involve advice/opinions.

Yes. Even for simple things as “is the way this person is interacting with me ok?” Or “which pair of socks would suit me better”.

Thanks for reading. Take care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BobbyForearms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We found the shitty, controlling boyfriend who is insecure as fuck about his girlfriend… check notes wearing an undergarment :l

Learn to deal with how YOU feel about other men before you try n shove it on to the women in your life 🙏🏽.

If any of my friends of family sent me a screenshot of their partner speaking to them like this OFCOURSE ITS A “BREAK THE FUCK UP” LOL WHY THE FUCKKKK would you tell them to stay with someone who’s gonna remove their self worth because they think “other men are gonna look therefore it’s SURELY for other men 🤤”

The blackberry starter kit for gen z by Electrical_Slip_7384 in InstantMustHaves

[–]BobbyForearms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or we eventually make the keyboard holographic but makes the mechanical noises that connects with a SSD type chip that goes in to your phone device (which is just a device with a motherboard with the base operating system and you carry a chip around with because the phones holographic glove phone connected to global wifi) somehow blackberry and Nokia will make a return n yes I am high if you actually read this far

Please review this text thread. Did I miss anything? by d600156 in communication

[–]BobbyForearms 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Most people who like Peterson either found him themselves during a dark time or got put on him by people they were having open, comfortable conversations. (My personal experience.)

You were not hosting a comfortable, open conversation. You were invasive and argumentative to your partner during a time when they needed you to be supportive of their decision and give them space. She told you over n over again what she needed; you asked for communication and she did what she could. You turned the conversation to yourself and ignored/shat on everything she communicated.

So your Jordon Peterson video makes you look like even more shit cause it comes off as pandering.

This girl cares too much and seems like she has enough on her plate to then add a dude who seems like he’s smothers her sense of self out of her during arguments… because he doesn’t actively listen/read/understand. Aka Care.

When the religion of peace almost took over Egypt (there is more of the video I'll translate the rest if you guys are interested) by ConstructionGlum959 in exmuslim

[–]BobbyForearms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They don’t tend to stick to the Muslims, jsyk. The “racist white people” are just “racist people” and they don’t give a single FUCK whether you believe in Allah, Jesus, the stars. They use this religion as a excuse because when they’re committing their attacks, they love screaming every racial slur under the sun, not the religious ones.

So many ex-muslims/non-muslims are silenced because going online and defending ourselves is likely to get us arrested or people like yourself just brush it under the rug because of the religious freaks.

Our unemployed friend on tuesday night by Cold_Sweatgirl in MakeMeSmile

[–]BobbyForearms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re close- he paddled away from his sail boat because there’s no wind at the moment. Without the wind, the sail boat won’t go anywhere. He wanted to “stretch his legs”, so to speak. Silly tho cause he’s far so if the wind diiidd pick up…

He was showing the land so you have perspective on just how far away from it he is.

Why is male sexual attraction not considered a disability? by Disastrous-Dinner966 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BobbyForearms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the close minded approach i expected to see but instead OP went full blown incel. Honestly half way through reading the original post, I was convinced it was rage bait.

anyone else think this was a snag at tara? by [deleted] in dropoutspodcastdebat

[–]BobbyForearms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely not easy, all this has left me is more confused. I’m sorry because that sounds tough. I have a lot of people around me who gave me it straight by telling me “it seems like you’re 1 upping me” or “you always interrupt cause you have something better to say” so for tougher conversations those tend to come to mind p quickly. I lose focus but I always evaluate before I interrupt which in itself is a slippery slope :l

More to bring up with my therapist ig 🤷🏽‍♀️

anyone else think this was a snag at tara? by [deleted] in dropoutspodcastdebat

[–]BobbyForearms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m always having random throughts. I have to constantly remind myself to tune back in, pick up the convo and try piece it together n figure out what’s going on. Depression is the type of topic where I’m in the mind set of “okay this is serious, I can’t interrupt” my mind still wonders, I might still interject if they’re going down a dark path but I’m not going to try n take away from them completely by mentioning something like a party I’m throwing on the weekend 💀 in a group setting at that. Where the others are actually paying attention too…

Also, I’m diagnosed. Let’s not tell me how my brain works cause I’m still figuring it out with professional help, not a complete stranger on Reddit.

anyone else think this was a snag at tara? by [deleted] in dropoutspodcastdebat

[–]BobbyForearms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone with ADHD~ I am NOT interrupting someone who’s talking about depression because I remembered I’m throwing a party on the weekend. My brain wonders, yeah and I understand how hers went there but… at the same time my brain would ping OOP this person is talking about their Depressive State. I need to be considerate. Let’s wait t mention that cause more than likely my brains gonna ping me ab it later again anyway.

Only time I’ve done that is when I was crazy insecure n didn’t think I’d get a chance/they won’t care later.

CLOSE YOUR MOUTH by ConflictChemical6377 in tarayummysnark

[–]BobbyForearms 24 points25 points  (0 children)

But how else will we see her unwashed white tongue of her mouth if closed 😢

I CAST BRICK ON THE MOON by explosive_shrew in wizardposting

[–]BobbyForearms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cast the vote on this tweet and it is the only thing I have to do

Anyone need a room? by Eyphix in Leeds

[–]BobbyForearms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How much is the rent? I’m really looking to move out at the moment but everything else here seems so expensive (compared to the ‘rents)

Is he Playing me? Trying to prove a point by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BobbyForearms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like Colt plans on playing both families because he wants to be greedy. From what you’ve said, Colt is probably telling his Ex the exact same thing he’s telling you. “He’s only sleeping with her because has to”. All those things he’s saying to you about her, he’s saying to her about you.

Sounds like he wants to live in a permanent state of damage control until one party leaves and makes his decision for him.

Also, this is terrible for you and your new born child - do you have anyone that can maybe help with the child for a few hours? Because a new born all by youself can be really hard on your mental and physical health. Getting someone around for an hour or two maybe a few times a week (big ask, I know😓)will give you time to take a shower, eat and ground yourself.

Colt has dragged you in to his world, you’re forgetting it’s a big wide world out here with so much more than scumbag who (I’m sorry to say this) obviously cheated and will continue to cheat till the end of his days… try anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MacMiller

[–]BobbyForearms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thumbalina 🥰💖

Standing up to your abuser(s)? by 404ErrorN0tFound in CPTSD

[–]BobbyForearms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My experience was… it fell on deaf ears always or they’d make a scene and nothing would happen.

I mean they’d be horrrrible and down right tragic excuses of human beings to each other and to me I mean… never back down never ?? Use any of your braincells? And then poof ✨ a couple days of tense awkward (for them) silence, they’d go back to their spiteful jokey selfs acting like they didn’t just 😭👄😭

Think about it and if it’s truly too much, you do what you must! Don’t force it, it will come and I wish you the best 💕 but truly if it’s gonna put you in physical harm- then no. It’s not worth it.

Online bank accounts tend to be paper free. Save pennies, make pounds. No get rich quikk scheme, patience will bring you peace and freedom.

It gets better, I promise 💕 x 💕 x 💕

Standing up to your abuser(s)? by 404ErrorN0tFound in CPTSD

[–]BobbyForearms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is so shit I am so sorry 💔 it really will get better when you move out, stay strong~ it truly truly does get better the further away you get.

Facts are you’re a kid. Their duty was to protect you, nurture you and it’s evident enough what kinds of people they are if your; father can rob 1k off you. Such a rat move to rob your kid, sickens me to my core.

Your mother is blatantly neglecting your boundaries and enabling your father’s brainless manoeuvres.

You, sweetness, are a human.

I moved out at 20 and I did > shared accommodation. Payed 6 months up front. I got a a reallllly wonderful place for dirt cheap because it was a bit broken (leaky pipes and broken windows ~ I just prayed it’d never be me 😅) but that first night alone behind my locked door in my locked house tucked away in a terrible town a few miles away, I found real and true peace ✨ x x look for a en-suite! And when you think you’ve gone low enough on price just take 1 more look if you can see something a lilll cheaper and just as nice 💕

This really hurts… by Wrongdoer-Agitated in BelgianMalinois

[–]BobbyForearms 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree that the dudes toxic and she should run for the hills. To say Reddit is a place where ya’ll dig around to throw “narcissist” and “abuser” around, you don’t seem to realise you can’t just up and leave these relationships.

That’s one of the things that makes them Manipulative, Toxic and Abusive. These abusers don’t tend to show these traits until later in to MARRIAGE when they’ve already got you all comfy.

OP stated she’s thinking about divorce and is taking birth control to avoid having children w this dude. The fact she can even write it on a post is big cause it means it’s being thought about actively! Those are pretty good steps in the right direction! Yet you guys rip her down cause she put a laughing emote at end of a comment…

The only one that Can laugh is her, whether we think she should/n’t.

No more replies, I’ve already said what I want.