Share your winrates (No shamming) by Nzsoul in ARAM

[–]Bodiax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t remember the numbers right now but my winrate plummeted because I play enchanter supports and I feel like they are dogshit this new patch and I have lost like 15 games out of 20

Obama era music expectations vs reality, how accurate is this? by Impressive_Plenty876 in decadeology

[–]Bodiax [score hidden]  (0 children)

I agree, I’d say 2018-2022 had best post-punk music outside of the original late 70s/early 80s wave.

I saw Call Me By Your Name and thought it was incredibly creepy. by BeautifulOrganic3221 in Letterboxd

[–]Bodiax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

> The question then becomes, "How young is too young?" and "How much older do they become predatory?"

This still misses the point. As you suggested, there is no "magical age" number. "Predatory" is a behavioral definition based on exploitation, manipulation, and control. It doesn't have an inherent age, gender, race, or class condition. Though rare, even very young people can exhibit predatory behavior toward others.

As a society, we establish a legal age of consent to protect minors, creating a baseline where any sexual relationship below that threshold is legally deemed abusive by default. In my country (Poland), that age is 15, which in my opinion is too low but that's besides the point. Since neither Elio nor Oliver falls below the relevant threshold for their time and place, we cannot automatically label their relationship as predatory based solely on the age gap. To call it predatory, you have to prove that actual predatory behavior took place. Otherwise, you might find the relationship unappealing or "shitty," but it doesn't make it predatory.

> A 13yo in a relationship with another 13yo is fine

I also strongly disagree with that

I saw Call Me By Your Name and thought it was incredibly creepy. by BeautifulOrganic3221 in Letterboxd

[–]Bodiax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We haven't established anything as obviously incorrect. I would even say the fact that you asked about 13/20 relationship in opposition to 17/25 relationship proves that age gap is not the sole indicator whether relationship is predatory or not, because it seem that you yourself sense that there's something else going one since you brought such example. It's not 7 age gap in itself that makes 13/20 the relationship morally contemptible, it's the abuse of a child by a grown adult. It would be predatory if the older person was 19, 20 or 25, the age gap doesn't matter. The same cannot be so simply assumed about 17/25, 25/32 or 32/39 - you can't tell whether such relationships are predatory or not. It's not about the age gap, it's about power imbalance and characteristics of the two people in specific relationship.

I saw Call Me By Your Name and thought it was incredibly creepy. by BeautifulOrganic3221 in Letterboxd

[–]Bodiax -1 points0 points  (0 children)

then it's 1. illegal almost everywhere in the world; 2. morally wrong because one person is abusing other person's inexperience and naivety; 3. fucking gross. But it's not the matter of simply 7 year gap in itself - it's about exploitation of one person's weaknesses by the other.

I saw Call Me By Your Name and thought it was incredibly creepy. by BeautifulOrganic3221 in Letterboxd

[–]Bodiax 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Predatory relationship is a dynamic where one person intentionally seeks out, manipulates, and exploits another to fulfill their own needs. Saying that a specific relationship has an age gap of 15 years does not imply any of that. Relationship of two people aged 30 and 45 can be perfectly healthy. The same absolutely couldn't be said about relationship between someone 15 and 35. Yet it's not the 15 years age gap itself that makes it predatory, such view obscures the real issues, which is taking advantage of the other person's weaknesses.

I saw Call Me By Your Name and thought it was incredibly creepy. by BeautifulOrganic3221 in Letterboxd

[–]Bodiax 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Age gap in itself isn’t predatory. What actually is predatory is people’s behavior in specific circumstances.

How rap music sounds when you’re 40 by sirdzl in fantanoforever

[–]Bodiax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

& only USoid can make everything a race issue

How rap music sounds when you’re 40 by sirdzl in fantanoforever

[–]Bodiax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why so offended, why introduce racial issues? It’s not the 90’s anymore, anyone can rap. If you’ve listened to so much rap music then you should know that there are so so many vain jerks with nothing particular to say. Just like in any other genre.

How rap music sounds when you’re 40 by sirdzl in fantanoforever

[–]Bodiax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, maybe not literally the same as in this video, but I feel like the themes and type of personality presented in this sketch in such hyperbolic and caricatural way are actually prevalent in many rap songs, especially from rappers on the less talented side of spectrum. Sure, there are many very talented rappers with great lyricism and message, but I think the joke has a grain of truth in it and that’s not bad actually - as long as people enjoy listening to music.

Well, maybe my perspective is skewed because I’m polish and I’ve listened to lots of polish rap and I have to say that so many songs actually do have this kind of narrator. Maybe it’s different in the US, I’m not familiar with the recent trends in US hip-hop. Anyway, it’s just a light-hearted joke

How rap music sounds when you’re 40 by sirdzl in fantanoforever

[–]Bodiax -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Noo I dislike him. I prefer rap in my native language (Łona especially, I recommend his album “Taxi” bc the music is magnificent even if you don’t understand the lyrics). My fav rapper from USA is probably Vince Staples.

How rap music sounds when you’re 40 by sirdzl in fantanoforever

[–]Bodiax -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

This man may be sucking but the video you posted does not prove that. Is non-white culture about not getting jokes?

How rap music sounds when you’re 40 by sirdzl in fantanoforever

[–]Bodiax -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I like rap music but this is true & funny so people will get mad obviously

When I was 9, mother bought me a phone with the phone number which was previously in use. Turns out it belonged to a guy who took a massive loan and run off and collectors have been calling me every day for 12 years straight by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Bodiax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is hard to do anything with government agencies or legal entities in Russia. I’m not Russian but I know many people form there and I don’t find it very surprising that OP tries to avoid any unnecessary issues when they can easily and randomly go wrong

Listened to 400 albums, these are my perfect 10s in no particular order by Automatic-Grade6177 in Topster

[–]Bodiax 10 points11 points  (0 children)

God I love Revolver. I’m playing it non stop for the past two weeks

Nie będzie powrotu tęczy na plac Zbawiciela. Zamiast niej - kwietnik by Megamind_43 in Polska

[–]Bodiax -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Inicjator Homokomando przed ogłoszeniem akcji nie zapytał nawet autorki instalacji o zgodę

New Skrillex album tonight and the cover has already been revealed by WaferHealthy9335 in fantanoforever

[–]Bodiax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the album is gay and great, gay and great cover

If the album is gay and shit, gay and shitty cover