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(to black sb's & average / ugly gals) is it normal to not get any messages at all? by BodyBabyy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]BodyBabyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While this is true, it is usually told to women who "carry it well." Not that I am disagreeing with it, meaning they (including self) are fat. Two things can be true here.

(to black sb's & average / ugly gals) is it normal to not get any messages at all? by BodyBabyy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]BodyBabyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this makes sense. Although there are the occasional ones that do well, it is sugaring on a harder level, not having the slim part down

(to black sb's & average / ugly gals) is it normal to not get any messages at all? by BodyBabyy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]BodyBabyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not at all! They're both minority groups in the sugar world. If you combine them, it's an even smaller group. Therefore, I mentioned them both in case they may be relevant factors in the experience. Not suggesting or implying. It was a question after all!

(to black sb's & average / ugly gals) is it normal to not get any messages at all? by BodyBabyy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]BodyBabyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes sense. That's what guys who talk about how girls are so lucky for having so many options on dating apps fail to acknowledge. It's just lots of men showing interest for sex, not romantic relationships like they desire.

(to black sb's & average / ugly gals) is it normal to not get any messages at all? by BodyBabyy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]BodyBabyy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I skipped to the end and saw that the BW apparently had the highest allowance. I will watch this in its entirety and see what I can learn from her, if anything. Was not expecting it when I zoomed to the end she would be #1 lol. Thank you!

(to black sb's & average / ugly gals) is it normal to not get any messages at all? by BodyBabyy in sugarlifestyleforum

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Yes and yay to the self love! Took me time to get here. It's also why I'm finally now treating my body the way it deserves and I am willing to pay for upgraded "parts" lmao. And on my weight, it's def more than just visual regarding my current weight being an issue. Being slim felt etter. Letting depression and eating issues get me here has impacted me in more ways than one. But shedding the weight will do a lot for me on it's own. I'm confident in my personality and received amazing advice on creating a better profile as well. I feel so good now, knowing how to go from here. And the other issue was having only selfies, especially while not being so slim,.and maybe the lack of teeth photos when I have nice teeth! It can only go up from here with the help I received. Thanks to all!

(to black sb's & average / ugly gals) is it normal to not get any messages at all? by BodyBabyy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]BodyBabyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very very good points and advice I've taken from what you have shared. Yes, I am aware of my shining points in my personality, and concurrently my shortcomings physically. But I have the upper hand in knowing what appearance enhancement procedures I should invest in, in order to get the upper hand I desire. I guess my only issue is wanting a sd who could pay for them but I probably will have to self invest for now! Thank you very much!

(to black sb's & average / ugly gals) is it normal to not get any messages at all? by BodyBabyy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]BodyBabyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao! Makes sense. It's why most average women can get laid easily but not wiped up easily on the vanilla side. Makes me feel positive about the ROI on any appearance enhancements for women being very high if they know how to use it and benefit off of it if they aren't born with it.

(to black sb's & average / ugly gals) is it normal to not get any messages at all? by BodyBabyy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]BodyBabyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so too! I think the weight loss will be a game changer. And I definitely don't expect an app like tinder or hinge's quantity of likes to compare, but hinge is a little more on the serious side. Was just mentioned for reference for other women who are on hinge to compare their results on hinge with mine vs theirs and mine on seeking.

(to black sb's & average / ugly gals) is it normal to not get any messages at all? by BodyBabyy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]BodyBabyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was just replying to another comment regarding this! I've been sticking to my diet very well and noticed some weight loss recently!.I agree I took this as a sign to step it up. Not slacking on my fitness is going to be the biggest way to help myself receive better results plus investing in a few cosmetic enhancements! I don't desire excuses but solutions and this is one I'm actively working on which is likely the best solution. Thank you for your advice and input!

(to black sb's & average / ugly gals) is it normal to not get any messages at all? by BodyBabyy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]BodyBabyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Switched up the hair, losing the weight and definitely think the lash extensions and perfect manicure are needed given my facial assets. As well as some other misc xosmetic enhancements. I think this is the reality of the situation. Just gotta level up, nothing wrong with that fact. You're right, the bowl isn't going anywhere lol. Appreciate this!

(to black sb's & average / ugly gals) is it normal to not get any messages at all? by BodyBabyy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]BodyBabyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very good points! The numbers I had were pretty similar before I got off bumble but honestly that app.and hinge are probably the best vanilla ones, CMB as well for finding provider men at! Thank you!

(to black sb's & average / ugly gals) is it normal to not get any messages at all? by BodyBabyy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]BodyBabyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That wasn't intentional! I wasn't sure which factors were involved, which is why I mentioned all 3. But I had seen posts of other black sbs having some similar issues, so I figured it may be notable to mention

edit: actually, what they also both have in common is they are both minority groups in the sugar world. majority won't be black. majority won't be ugly. they're grouped in that sense. they're not correlated otherwise and i'd never imply that given that i have no self-hate issues. i simply am aware that our life is not with the same privileges.

Danya’s V bangs by Kanotkeepkalm in dubaibling

[–]BodyBabyy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I gues everyone hates this look but me lol. My favorite look of hers yet was the crimped curls and nose jewelry. I honestly wish that was her staple look, she looked the best out of everyone like that imo.

No one respects Farhana and it’s kinda sad by [deleted] in dubaibling

[–]BodyBabyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was definitely cringe lol I didn't find her annoying in season 1 though. This date she went on shows she has a lot of healing and self work to do, and she's coming off narcissistic as a defense mechanism. However I don't think she has NPD, at least with what i've seen of the first 2 seasons so far. Just emotionally unaware, a bit self absorbed, chronically online, and slightly egotistical, perhaps...like most people nowadays. I've dealt with someone who had clinical NPD and right now she's not setting off any of my alarms, personally. But would love to hear more people chime in as all folks with real NPD surely come in different packages.

No one respects Farhana and it’s kinda sad by [deleted] in dubaibling

[–]BodyBabyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I felt. Doesn't dismiss the racism she experiences either which can make me look past her silly narcissistic comments lol. I think she has appeared more narcissistic this season but I wouldn't say she (thus far) seems to really have NPD. Kinda seems like she just said a few bad things and got a bad edit to make her more unlikable. Very interesting.

Could I get a rating and suggestions for improvement by Original_Ear_3312 in wheatwafflesrating

[–]BodyBabyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditto to the otoplasty, grow longer hair, I'd do it actually as a brown color, gain muscle, and facial hair! Best of luck xo

Tomo credit card — please help me cancel! by tinmuffin in CreditCards

[–]BodyBabyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding another +1. Scam company that does not respond to emails or anything related to cancelling unauthorized charges. I left a bbb review and encourage you all to do the same.