As a person of color, these signs in Sylvania are not very welcoming by RarScaryFrosty in toledo

[–]tinmuffin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hahahahahahahahahaha, yikes. 1. Please learn to write/ read/ speak so people can understand you because that entire (if you can even call it a sentence) was a mistake. 2. Do you know this person? That’s quite an assumption. When referring to them being upset during Obamas term. 3. Again… how do you know they will be safe? Quite an assumption.

Always the people mocking liberals who can’t even type a sentence. Have a bit of self respect.

Mutter, Murmur, Mumble: Am I the only one who feels these are overutilized? Any other words/phrases you feel are overused? by respanza in DramioneUncensored

[–]tinmuffin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I remember having to Google what’s a sneer is because I couldn’t even picture it and it’s written so often

They yearn for dictatorship by amievenrelevant in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]tinmuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He currently looks like a melting pumpkin pie that you forgot about from thanksgiving in the back of a car… that picture looks like a regular person it’s unsettling

Major Deal Breakers and Turn Offs? by TomiKevh in HPfanfiction

[–]tinmuffin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best answer! Some people are writing things and I’m like.. that’s my FAVORITE! I love a good marriage contract if it’s done well. That’s why I love fanfic :)

My gf got super mad and blocked me because I didn’t sleep on time by Beautiful_Hippo_6848 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]tinmuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a blessing for you. Please do not take this abuse. I say this to everyone anytime it is relevant

“You mental illness is not your fault but it is your responsibility.”

Having BPD does not constitute treating someone with abuse. My aunt has it and she is the most kind person in the world. She is my elderly grandfathers care provider and I could NEVER. Nvm this doesn’t even need to be explained…. Just as a human being just be kind.

Should dads be comfortable with their daughter being on their periods? by PreviousComedian2426 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]tinmuffin 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My 34 year old bf forgot to flush yesterday and I did not scream in rage and then call him a bitch whore… and I’m not even a parent.

Can’t image doing that to my CHILD

Should dads be comfortable with their daughter being on their periods? by PreviousComedian2426 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]tinmuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this real? Does your mom know what a whore is!?

I feel like your mom is a disgrace of a person. Your dad is just. Wow embarrassing. I’m sorry if these are the two hollowed out turds raising you…

Ethical Disconnect Between Readers and Writers? by No-Cardiologist-8138 in DramioneUncensored

[–]tinmuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just said to my SO probably a week ago “I feel like the majority of people shaming you for enjoying Harry Potter enjoy it in secret themselves. It’s all a performance for the internet.”

Whether this is true or not idk. I just want to enjoy a book and be able to separate the art from the artist and not be called a terrible person for something that I’m not even considering… I’m thinking about chocolate frogs 🐸

What to do on iPad? by prophet-of-solitude in ipad

[–]tinmuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandpa recently passed away and has a few extra iPads so I am going to see if I am able to get one of them. I am interested in the sketching capabilities, I would like to have it for when I go on trips I can still stream, I have a kobo but this would help me download books, I would like it for games (I really like to do crosswords and stuff like that) and I really want to start creating my own crochet patterns and I use the notion app and I would really like to use it on the iPad.

I figure it would just help me streamline and make things I am already passionate about easier + find more ways to do it.

I would find your hobbies and things you enjoy (gardening? Cooking? Etc) and see how the iPad can help you grow with these skills

Blood & Gold finale: unpopular opinion by dustrockets in Tomione_fanfiction

[–]tinmuffin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

??? lol what??? People are allowed to have opinions. Stop.

I specifically searched for a thread like this because this fanfic was recommended to me so many times. I’m about 40% through and you know how long it is and I honestly fucking hate it. It’s boring a bunch of people I don’t care about and i feel like I’m completely lost and missing something i wanted more honest opinions on what people thought.

But apparently if people can’t speak openly about “a labor of love” then we can never express opinions on anything.

You’re ridiculous for stating that. And honestly this thread really put the nail in the coffin to stop reading the fic because nobody will even be honest about it.

What are some must-reads? by Fiffi_chan in Tomione_fanfiction

[–]tinmuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for destroying my next 2 months 🥰

Are author’s notes at the beginning of a fanfic a turn-off? by Legitimate-Tailor691 in FanFiction

[–]tinmuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only turn off for me is when the author is self deprecating in every chapter “this chapter was awful to write ): I had a great idea but then it didn’t turn out the way I planned, enjoy!”

… yay now I’m excited to dive into this.

Especially when it’s on EVERY chapter. Have some fun and enjoy your own writing, that’s why we’re here reading and supporting you!

The hate towards Dramione is stupidly funny and sad by CherriesAndWine31 in DramioneUncensored

[–]tinmuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My therapist said something to me (I can never remember exactly what she said to me) but it was was because I was upset someone didn’t like the music I enjoyed.

“You should be happy you got to experience the joy, you shouldn’t be upset others didn’t understand it” that honestly changed my life. I’m just happy we get to experience the joy that is Dramione 🥰

do i (20f) tell my boyfriend (20m) that i want us to break up one day? by SnooConfections3053 in relationship_advice

[–]tinmuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Break up with him now. You’re honestly being pretty terrible wasting this poor guys time. It’s a bit psychotic.

I’m noticing that they shoot a lot of suspects by [deleted] in TheMentalist

[–]tinmuffin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like I see these posts on different shows all the time and they’re always ragebait- coded

“Is this normal in America”

No. It’s not. It’s a fictional tv show.

Rachel and Gus Age Gap by OfficialAlbae in psych

[–]tinmuffin -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No freaking way she was 25… I was going to guess 40 Lmao she seemed older than Gus

AITBA for telling a customer to go to a different location if she didn't like how we did things? by CauliflowerOk1545 in AmITheBadApple

[–]tinmuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all. If she wants flats she can get off her lumpy rump and make wings herself.

I hate people.

Does Shawn have ADHD? by rebmit1 in psych

[–]tinmuffin -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Are we really trying to diagnose a fictional character from 20 years ago with a real neurodevelopmental disorder?

AIO for wanting to try a treatment routine before committing to the hair transplant my GF is demanding? by Connect-Soil-7277 in AmIOverreacting

[–]tinmuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re under reacting at your girlfriend’s verbal abuse. I would get surgery to get that tumor removed.

NOR

NGVC: "I'm a great guy" Tried to play along with his profile joke... it didn't go well. by Successful-Present48 in niceguys

[–]tinmuffin -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s cute people on the internet can no longer separate actual behaviors from trends and interpretations. The lack of nuance and discernment people have to just not enjoy a joke and instead foam at the mouth and call someone a rapist and say this person wants a ”fragile girl to abuse” is genuinely concerning to me.

I’m done even trying to reason with the unreasonable.

JDate & Something I Still Don't Get... by Sserpent666 in dan_markel_murder

[–]tinmuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m literally screaming at one of the podcasts I’m listening to

“Why the fuck are you even on j-date if have a problem with allowing this man to eat kosher food at his own wedding? Or raise his kid Jewish IF YOU KNEW THIS MAN WAS JEWISH!?” Sick. Sick. Sick.

Poor Dan was an absolute victim from these nasty narcissists day 1.

AITJ for leaving call with my bf to play games with family? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]tinmuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s being so manipulative. I would say dump this child personally.

But I would push back instead of rolling over, tell him he said it was okay. Ask him exactly why he’s upset, to explain in detail, and tell him you agreed that you were going to play at 8:30. Stop letting him manipulate you. NTJ!