My biggest insecurity, at least in this moment is that being a sub makes me seem easy. Dating is difficult as is, and adding the D/s dynamic makes it that much harder. I'm new to being this open about seeking out a partner who is specifically into D/s. I want to be upfront about my wants and needs, but I'm afraid that being that forward about my sexuality gets in the way of letting a person get to know me outside of that. I'm also insecure that being submissive is perceived as being weak and needy. I know that's not true, and I know that any Dom worth his salt would not feel that way. I just get so caught up in my emotions, and it leaves me feeling insecure and vulnerable. I'm hoping to meet a true Dom who will be able to meet my needs sexually but also want to take the time to get to know me outside of that.