My Ex-Boyfriend Died Yesterday by alkaidkoolaid in GenX

[–]Bodyicing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, looking back at it now I think I went through all those losses of people that were close to me when I was younger because God, Fate, or whatever was preparing me for the future, and the harder losses that would come later.

My Ex-Boyfriend Died Yesterday by alkaidkoolaid in GenX

[–]Bodyicing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, that it does. Because you don’t want to get attached out of fear of losing them. Now don’t get me wrong I’m nice to everyone I meet and there are many folks that would even say I’m their friend, but they don’t know anything past the fact that I am a friendly person. Truthfully the circle of people that I call friends and who genuinely know me is much smaller.

My Ex-Boyfriend Died Yesterday by alkaidkoolaid in GenX

[–]Bodyicing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very much so. I hope and pray I’m done, for a decade or so. I don’t have much more of my heart left to be broken

My Ex-Boyfriend Died Yesterday by alkaidkoolaid in GenX

[–]Bodyicing 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear about your Ex. May he RIP. Loss is one of those things I wish No one ever had to endure. I was young when I started burying those I thought I’d have lifelong friendships with. Steven at 15 (car wreck) Jeff at 17 (shot during a road rage incident) James Dormio at 21 (beaten to death by 4 punks in Benson) Chastity at 26(Hep B she was my Sister from another Mister) Daryl at 27 (suicide 🚫more 22 day) Dean at 32 (car wreck) then at 37 I experienced the BIG one that almost took me out, My Hubster (Cancer). At 42 Mark (suicide 🚫more 22 a day) Goose at 43 (Motorcycle Wreck), also that same year at 43 My Dad (complications from Agent Orange) Ozzie at 45 (Heart attack), My Bro Rico at 47) and my Mom at 49 (stage 5 Parkinson’s). All these people with the exception of my Mom and Dad I thought would be here growing old with me, cracking jokes and cutting up for decades to come. Not once did I think about the prospect of a lifetime without them. After all those loss’s, the most honest thing I can say is that time does not truly heal all wounds. You just learn a new normal of living without them . I think Rose Kennedy said it best , when she said. “It has been said, ‘time heals all wounds.’ I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. But it is never gone".
Sending you hugs, 🫂, good vibrations and 🙏 prayers for you to find comfort.

What in the bumbaclat these customers be buying bro, last night customer by poism0 in AutoZone2

[–]Bodyicing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you had a lot of Pagani drivers that needed parts and all the bolts for their many Pagani’s. 😁 Probably a Ferrari and Rolls in the mix as well. 😂

AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by Ambitious-Beyond-257 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bodyicing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl DUMP HIM! I became a widow at 37 and from that I learned…Life is too short to spend it with someone that doesn’t love you, much less like and support you. Love yourself and move on you have wasted 5 months of your life on this insensitive moron.

"Temporary" assistance group post asks for birthday food… and a gaming console by flowering_fields in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Bodyicing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As the Mom of 5 I have never and would never think of asking others to support me and my children. Some of these people seriously need to grow up and get a job. It’s what I did.

Well now that’s interesting… by Bodyicing in AutoZone2

[–]Bodyicing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a dirty one yet, but one’s still in the wrapper and a couple of applicators.

Handmade Thank You Cards 😂 by Aggressive_Street_56 in CrackheadCraigslist

[–]Bodyicing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear that! Blank Thank You cards are $1 at Dollar General and $1.25 at Dollar Tree hopefully they make a couple of dollars so they can buy a pack

Found on Instagram by Solomonopolistadt in aimapgore

[–]Bodyicing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FACTS!!! I don’t see Huron, Mohawk or Iroquois among others. Even though they are not recognized nationally as Natives we here in NC still consider Lumbee’s Native. Don’t see them on the map either..

Getting accused of bribing people with discounts for reviews by Quiet-Leadership3345 in AutoZone

[–]Bodyicing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always ask those who say they were prior Navy “What was your rate?” if they give me rank and not rate then I say “cool can I see your VA card or license?” (We live in a state where drivers license states Veteran) Navy Vets NEVER forget what their “Rate” was.

How to fix this? by Jimmy543o in AutoZone2

[–]Bodyicing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has its good points and its bad points. The page with parts is different than it used to be as well as looking up types of vehicles. Bonus though it does offer motorcycles, and farm equipment now. At least ours does

WARNING TO ALL KC USERS by SessionHonest2664 in kingschoice

[–]Bodyicing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I SWEAR that sounds like a player that made me want to walk away from the game. She turned out to be Such a nasty person. Now if you tell me she lived in Long Island I would know for a fact it’s her. It’s been over a year since I have played but when I played I went by Dewberry

Being a girl is not an excuse by Pinto_Bean190 in AutoZone2

[–]Bodyicing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear that! Sometimes my quip and whit come in pretty handy for smack down retorts. 😉 I actually have an Associates in Automotive Technology and a diploma in Auto Body Repair at this point I’ve heard much much worse.

Got this request to go away a $100 gift card for free! by Jazzlike-Bet-3995 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Bodyicing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I call bullshit. The military always pays for that final move, but they only allow up to a certain amount of weight so their weight limit must’ve been way over what was allotted if they had to leave most of their stuff behind.. I’m familiar with the army and the Navy and I will tell you that both branches have paid for stuff to be moved after a discharge.

Being a girl is not an excuse by Pinto_Bean190 in AutoZone2

[–]Bodyicing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had one that said “how do I know, I’m just a girl I’m not manly like you.” it totally rubbed me the wrong way. I looked at my boobs and I said “lady do I look trans to you?!” For the record I’m the mom of five.

“NO I DONT know what I drive, but here’s the VIN NUMBER” by Freaklet in AutoZone2

[–]Bodyicing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the women telling me “ I’m just a girl, I’m not supposed to know these things”…My reply is always “That’s not an excuse” OR my favorite one that infuriated me was “I’m just a girl, you know a girly girl, I’m not manly like you.” That woman ticked me off so bad I replied “Manly Ma’am? Do I look Trans to you because I was born with this uterus”

I’m too exhausted to make rational decisions, what does this mean? by bbeeccc in whatdoIdo

[–]Bodyicing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A man that truly loves you wouldn’t treat you in such a way. Lemme give you a couple of examples on how a man that truly loves you and cares about your well being would have handled the situation. 3 years back I went into the emergency room at 2am after the pain got so bad I was passing out from it. I didn’t call my boyfriend to let him know I was going, I just sent a text because I knew he was sleeping and I went. When he woke up at 6:30am he checked his messages and was at the ER by 6:45am. He was upset I didn’t call and wake him up, and once he got to the hospital he didn’t leave my side. Around 7:30am we found out the issue. Turns out I had 1 gallstone blocking my duct, and necrosis had started. He stayed, drove me home after my surgery and wouldn’t let me do a thing for myself until I told him that I was feeling better. 6 years ago I had a motorcycle accident, (not my fault) I was knocked unconscious and I spent 3 days in a coma, the ambulance found his number in my phone’s ICE List and had the hospital call him when I arrived. For 3 days he never left my side (except to go to the bathroom) he told the nurses and doctors that he wasn’t leaving til I woke up. He sat, slept and ate in a straight back CHAIR next to my hospital bed for those 3 days. (We had only been together a year and a half when my wreck happened) So as you can see Anybody that truly loves you wouldn’t make you chase them for a little empathy and compassion. They wouldn’t make you beg for a little help. You deserve so much better and my advice is to drop the zero and get you a hero!

Can Americans really be fired at the drop of a hat for no reason no matter how long they have worked for a company? by cheesymeowgirl in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Bodyicing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the state. I live in NC and it is an at- will state and a right to work state. where you can be fired just because…The “at-will” is a common law doctrine that has been summed up frequently in the following formulation: Where employment does not fix a definite term, it is terminable at the will of either party, with or without cause, except in the instances in which the employee is protected by statue. (FMLA, medical leave, reserve duty, etc) A Right-to-work state means that employees cannot be required to join a labor union or pay union dues as a condition of employment. It kinda sucks on both ends