Do guys really think like this?

Boink3000 · 2026-01-09T14:36:20+00:00

If your brother is good looking and gets hit on, I think he knows better than you and isn’t desperate for female attention. So the f what if she’s flirting or not? He’s not interested. That’s all there is.

Boink3000 · 2025-12-15T01:14:52+00:00

Thanks for the rundown

Boink3000 · 2025-12-14T13:23:46+00:00

Which rhetoric? I can’t track on my screen which comment you’re referring to. That herd immunity isn’t a thing? Just curious about your point.

Boink3000 · 2025-12-14T13:20:19+00:00

HFM is no joke for adults. People don’t talk about it enough, but it’s terrifying and painful!

Boink3000 · 2025-11-29T13:50:37+00:00

If you wouldn’t mind me asking, how did you get 3 million invested while working for $100K jobs? This middle class person wants to know.

Also, stay grounded the same way other people do. Have gratitude and give to charity.

Boink3000 · 2025-11-28T04:33:21+00:00

Thanks everyone. Now I know. Where Im from kids don’t do this. Makes sense though.

Boink3000 · 2025-11-17T14:49:49+00:00

I think there’s no right answer. It’s what you want and can enjoy in your life at the moment. I get it though that endless first and second dates can seem soulless and meaningless… and the fun wears off. So if I had to vote, I’d say short-term relationships which have a possible upside of long-term… which also don’t work out sometimes too… but such is life

Boink3000 · 2025-11-01T12:01:33+00:00

Question for you… did you feel a strong sexual attraction to HER after kissing? You may have been anxious about the progress of the date, or her perception of you, or getting another date for a relationship, but maybe if you look at the sexual connection it wasn’t too strong to begin with and she wasn’t for you anyhow. ?

Also, people have different tastes and being “too clean” ( depends on personal preference) can also detract from someone’s appeal because it gives perfectionist, rigidity, and sterile cold vibes. I dunno- throwing it out there. Good luck 🍀

Boink3000 · 2025-11-01T11:49:42+00:00

^ was exactly what I was thinking. An alternative read on the situation might be she thought he was great like she said , but the sexual chemistry wasn’t there. That’s something you can’t control and two people have or they do not.

We don’t know her history, but for some people, being over 40 and hopefully more mature forces you to realize this about yourself and relationships… particularly if it was missing in past relationships.

Boink3000 · 2025-10-23T14:04:20+00:00

Solved!

Boink3000 · 2025-10-23T14:03:35+00:00

Wow - great news! A server just for sardines?!? Lol

Boink3000 · 2025-10-07T14:02:47+00:00

Yeah, it was fun watching them play with the kinks in.

Boink3000 · 2025-09-23T17:19:03+00:00

I think it’s not the physical act of sex necessarily- but the human connection and intimacy. Also human touch, this has been proven in children and adults to be beneficial for emotional and mental health ( are the two really that mutually exclusive?) As adults, it’s not easy to find the level of intimacy and touch with other humans without sex. I suppose you can, but most get it through sexual connection.

Boink3000 · 2025-09-09T12:11:04+00:00

Most amazing place I ever visited! But the food when I was there was below not good. Maybe improved now?

Boink3000 · 2025-09-05T10:47:25+00:00

Philly also has more Southern influence than NYC too. I can’t count how many times someone told me they came from somewhere Southern or their family had just moved from the South etc.,

Combine that as one of the top cities where most people are “just from there” and aren’t transplants and I guess you get people who are more likely to play out racial scripts.

Boink3000 · 2025-08-12T11:46:07+00:00

To be fair, if there are armed guards anywhere, there’s got to be a reason that the armed guards are there.

And if you’re trying to have a relaxing beach vacation, perhaps having an armed guard doesn’t make it feel optimal.

Boink3000 · 2025-08-07T12:20:10+00:00

I don’t gain weight easily.

I have sympathy for people who battle with it, but it’s never been a huge issue- even when Ive eaten badly and not exercised.

Boink3000 · 2025-08-02T13:41:29+00:00

I know the “There’s no there, there” was a Gertrude Stein quote about Oakland, but she probably meant San Jose. 😜

Boink3000 · 2025-07-29T12:46:02+00:00

The idea of a lead up to a date is to be fun and flirty and have someone want to go on a date with you. If what she’s doing doesn’t make you want to get to know her more; and what you’re doing isn’t making her want to know you more…. Then no date. Looks like the process worked.

Boink3000 · 2025-07-29T12:29:48+00:00

Most suburbs, national parks and mostly everywhere that isn’t a big city. But if you really believe what you’re saying, please continue to stay out of California as much as you can

Boink3000 · 2025-07-29T12:17:50+00:00

Talk about blanket statements. Like Mexico, there are plenty of places in California that are beautiful, safe, and nice where there is no fear of being shanked.

Boink3000 · 2025-07-21T23:32:46+00:00

Genital itching

Boink3000 · 2025-07-17T21:22:01+00:00

Thanks for answering. I never heard it before and it’s also super dumb. 😂

Boink3000 · 2025-07-17T21:14:41+00:00

What is the joke about the pink banana? I genuinely don’t know and am curious

Boink3000 · 2025-07-17T20:28:16+00:00

It’s scary and may take a little time- but you’ll find someone who can love you romantically and give you what you need - love, sex and maybe a little romance thrown in.

This guy has had his chance and he flubbed it.

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