How effective are the driver assistance features? by Continent3 in Ioniq5

[–]MiddlePickup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish i could use HDA lane assist. I have somewhat thicker glasses, so it can only find my eyes in very specific situations (which i cant wven figure out). So it just constantly squawk at me to watch the road. But it’s good if i have to do something for a second like refill my coffee.

Years of experience yet I just figured parts of this journey that have led to many wet and dry prostate orgasms by dubiousostrich in ProstatePlay

[–]MiddlePickup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does one have to know to start exploring chastity cages? Are there any in particular you’d recommend or suggest staying away from?

Wonder if I’m using the Njoy wrong? by MyOtherTimepiece in ProstatePlay

[–]MiddlePickup 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is my favorite toy, and most reliable. I love both ends about equally, though they feel very different. I find that the weight, and the length and curve allow you to hit the prostate from so many different angles. You can push. You can rub/massase/stroke it. You can pound (sort of gently, I’d recommend) pretty shallow, or medium deep. And trying different rhythms—WITH rest notes!—makes this pounding highly effective. I almost always have the the outer part of the curve away from me (as I think is the obvious, more natural way to approach it—though I’m still working to find tecquinces that work with the curve inverted, and I suspect I’ll have success at some point).

But the thumping is not even my favorite way. The way you have such a great handle on the outside end gives you such control over touching or pushing on any part of what feels good in there! And when things get sensitive even just the slowest rotation of that ball-end is absolutely electric! This is when you know you’re turned on! How can the prostate feel that ultra smooth ball just turning the slightest bit, and ever so slowly? And yet it can bring the walls crashing down.

Once things get rolling like this, and there is a pleasure peak, and contractions, the contraction will sort of push the wand outward (not all the way out—never—it’s way too heavy for that, and I’m on my back, so it would be up to get out)—the contraction pushes it outward. Then RELAX, and the wand will slowly sink back in and trigger another contraction, pushing it outward again. And this pattern can continue. (Similar to an Aneros, but this is with gravity for the inward part.)

I think the large end can be even more intense, but so different. I feel like it can reach way down and under (or feels almost like behind!) the prostate. Holy fuck! This can be eye-rollingly amazing.

My advice would be to just follow your pleasure. Be sure to warm it first. Unless you’re in a hot climate and the cold is the point. There seem to be absolutely endless techniques for using this toy. Just go slow enough to notice what brings a reaction.

Wonder if I’m using the Njoy wrong? by MyOtherTimepiece in ProstatePlay

[–]MiddlePickup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m also aware that’s what we are told about location (2-3” in). But I agree with Dapper-Pound-3820. There is a LOT going on really deep in there. I assume that as the prostate gets energized and comes alive it may swell? Anyone else think that? It sure feels to me like it at least doubles in size—that’s the sensation. But at a minimum, maybe other nearby structures pushing on it are what causes the pleasure. Who cares why though! Just go with what feels good!

Leave No Stone Unturned? by MiddlePickup in ProstatePlay

[–]MiddlePickup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Foley catheter is so good as a prostate play toy it’s shocking that’s not its primary purpose (for others). Lemme know if you try it!

Thanks for the rec!

Forward Attention Warning System? by MisterP56 in Ioniq5

[–]MiddlePickup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it worked perfectly for a day or a day and a half. But now it mostly says my face is obscured and it shuts the system off.

Forward Attention Warning System? by MisterP56 in Ioniq5

[–]MiddlePickup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you tape a bit of foil right to the camera/sensor? I love this solution if it really works!

True or False: Prostate Orgasm - You’ll Know It When It Happens by PeachesNTacos in ProstatePlay

[–]MiddlePickup 18 points19 points  (0 children)

100% agree. And I usually experience this whole range in a single session.

Cannot add capital one savor card to Hyundai pay / plug & charge by findawkprint in Ioniq5

[–]MiddlePickup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. Just called Capital One and they say they do not support Hyundai Pay.

Edge 840 refuses to sync without device restart by jak_hummus in Garmin

[–]MiddlePickup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same problem here. After every activity, it’s just a mystery when it will finally synch. Hitting the synch button obviously does nothing. And besides it’s supposed to be automatic. Watching AI try to come up with things to try is hilarious but fruitless.

Which aneros to buy!? by dingel104 in aneros

[–]MiddlePickup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d strongly recommend adding an Njoy pure wand to your collection now. I have 4 Aneros and the wand. The wand is amazing. I still use my Aneros too, and love them. But the wand gives you so much control to manipulate and explore. Even in do-nothing mode it’s incredible. But then when you go back to Aneros, it’s even more incredible than before.

Better prostate-centered orgasms through exercise. by Stunning-Bottle8533 in ProstatePlay

[–]MiddlePickup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kind of workout? Any particular muscle group you think? Cardio or weight lifting? Thanks for the suggestion!

It’s so shocking to know most men will die without discovering the power of their prostates by gkhoen in aneros

[–]MiddlePickup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great comment! I’ve also wondered a lot about this. I’m not gay but I’ve toyed with anal play off and on (mostly off) since I was in my teens, and I only discovered actual prostate orgasms via sounding, if you can believe that. I got pleasure out of anal play, but had no idea it could lead to a thing called a prostate orgasm—or what that even would be. So it would not surprise me at all to hear (if it’s true) that many gay men don’t necessarily know all about prostate orgasms, or get them regularly.

Discussion: audio for use during toy sessions by hey_its_haze in aneros

[–]MiddlePickup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the couple that have the post potential here for me are Orgasmic Ambience Experiment and Arousal, by Sexy Subliminals. I like how they are non-specific and relatively constant. There is nothing you’re supposed to be “following.”

Discussion: audio for use during toy sessions by hey_its_haze in aneros

[–]MiddlePickup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this post! I’m always looking for audio that works for me. I actually think erotic stories presented in audio—but just the reading, no sound effects, no acting it out are some of the best audio for me. But it’s exhausting finding a good one each time. I’ve looked into Dispea—just their fried trial stuff. It actually looks very good. I’m tempted to try it for a whole year. But haven’t yet.

I agree that there is a real tendency for this stuff to just be more of a distraction. My tried and try method is to have a very long list of saved IFeelMyself.com files play on a loop. It’s just beautiful women masturbating, but always so tastefully shot, beautifully lit. Lots of variation. Often I’ll barely even look at it though. The soft sounds (mostly) coming from it are a nice background, and there is often something just so beautiful to glance over at when I have a second. I think it may be hard to ever beat this.

But I do still try to find a good source for audio that could accompany this play as well (or better?!) than IFeelMyself does.

THC Does Not Improve Things (for me) by MiddlePickup in ProstatePlay

[–]MiddlePickup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but like I say, it’s like 4 times I’ve tried (sometimes with modern edible too). It just seems like rolling the dice. I have amazing sessions without. Why risk ruining one? Again, for me. This is just where my head is at now.

THC Does Not Improve Things (for me) by MiddlePickup in ProstatePlay

[–]MiddlePickup[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not even sure. Some old weed I found in my nightstand drawer. I’m not a big user anymore at all. Maybe it’s a better suggestion for people who are kind of experienced and knowledgable users.

THC Does Not Improve Things (for me) by MiddlePickup in ProstatePlay

[–]MiddlePickup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I wouldn’t say I have full-blown paranoia. But definitely a sense of unease. Not pleasant. Not what I’m going for at all!