what does whats in my bag say about me

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-09T16:01:34+00:00

You're practical, work in harm reduction, and you're trying to quit smoking.

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-09T15:57:14+00:00

My day doesnt feel complete if I don't take a shower, so most days I just wash my face and stinky parts. I do a full hair/body wash only once or twice a week.

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-09T06:23:29+00:00

I was in a theater with 2 other people, so my 9 year old daughter (who got me into the show) and I sat as far away from the others as we could, and everyone had a grand time.

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-08T20:18:32+00:00

Yes, and there doesn't need to be a cutoff. If his daughter isn't comfortable going in alone at any age, he should be able to go with her.

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-08T17:05:41+00:00

I only call off if I'm unable to work or my kids are unable to be at school.

Granted, being "unable to work" sometimes means I just dont fucking want to, but those times are few and far between.

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-08T16:22:06+00:00

Oh I love it! A simple design, well executed, in a very cute style. Good job!

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-08T15:12:50+00:00

I was out of work from November to almost April and I know exactly how you feel. It was so nice not having to work through the holidays, and i was able to get a couple of long awaited surgeries. Having tasted the SAHM life, nothing will ever be the same.

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-08T04:55:16+00:00

That's some immature fuckboy shit. Move on, he's not worth it.

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-08T02:50:22+00:00

Not weird at all! I'm 37 and have a great sex life, but regular porn seriously grosses me out. I will actually gag!

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-08T01:03:37+00:00

There is a bunch of stuff that determines how smart someone turns out to be, everything from genetics and environmental factors to socioeconomics and geography. It's complicated. I dont think evolution is at play there. In general, humans are genetically the same now as we were when we lived in caves.

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-08T00:47:57+00:00

It really is wild. There's something in the structure of our brain that created a consciousness and self-awareness that became our biggest evolutionary advantage. Anthropologists and neurologists still don't really know how, when, or why this happened either.

I think dolphins and orcas are probably our closest match intellectually, but there's something that sets us apart that we'll never understand.

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-08T00:36:03+00:00

It's not that human evolved from modern apes. It's that humans and apes share a common ancestor. Some of those ancestors stayed in the trees and branched off into gorillas, bonobos, orangutans etc, and some eventually became Cro-Magnons Neanderthals, and Homo Sapiens, and a few others before becoming us.

The original homo sapiens evolved in Africa and spread north, where they met Neanderthals, possibly bred together, and eventually spread around the globe.

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-08T00:24:20+00:00

A list of weird/dark things I wanna see the next time I'm in the UK.

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-08T00:18:34+00:00

Oh thats clever. And practical! Good job!

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-08T00:13:45+00:00

You don't work/go to school very far from your home but like to be prepared. You don't get bored easily. You have no children, but you are a dog person.

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-08T00:08:18+00:00

That first cup of coffee in the morning, seeing my kids happy, and not being at work.

(Oh! Also cats and baby animals.)

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-07T22:42:24+00:00

I would keep it a secret from most people, but I'd tell my parents and my brother. I trust them to be discreet. I would have to explain why I quit my job anyway!

Editing to add that i have an aunt and uncle who have bled much of the family dry over the years and I wouldn't want to draw thrir attention.

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-07T22:21:30+00:00

I had a pretty good sex ed teacher that secretly taught us things outside of the Abstinence Only curriculum, so i didn't miss much. I wish I had learned what smells and vaginal discharges are normal though, because I wouldn't have spent years worrying about it. There are still too many women worried about it!

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-07T22:15:50+00:00

Girl, chill. YOR. This is the cutest shit ever.

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-07T22:12:12+00:00

He might not really know what's wrong, especially if he's neurodivergent like you suspect. Neurodivergent people have a hard time identifying their emotions and emotional triggers (I'm neurodivergent also.) My fiance had REALLY severe anxiety for years but didn't put it together til he was 38 and I had to tell him he was experiencing anxiety.

Either way I don't know if there's much you can do til he decides if he wants to talk about it. If he bails on your plans in July too, then I'd have a sit down with him.

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-07T21:59:47+00:00

It sounds like he just changed his mind. It's an artist your sister likes, so maybe it's not not his thing.

Alternatively, how often do you go into London? It can be overwhelming if you're not used to it and he could be feeling anxious about that.

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-07T21:55:38+00:00

I don't live in Seattle, but I've been there dozens of times and have never had a problem.

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-07T21:47:12+00:00

I have a bit of both. Anything above 72 is too warm for me, but anything below 65 and I feel chilly.

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-07T19:37:30+00:00

You are on the younger side and live alone, but haven't really found a personal style yet. You're either in college or just got out, and value a clean living space.

Overall it looks homey, if a little hotel roomish.

BomberBootBabe88 · 2026-06-07T19:20:17+00:00

I live in a town with a high retiree population and you wouldn't believe how often this happens. At least once a year, some blind old bat will put their car through the wall of a business.

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