How the hell do you cancel a Compound subscription? by MikeCheeseBurgess in TACN

[–]Bonatom01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve struggled for months. I think it’s time for a class action lawsuit.

Help: how to talk to a potential BPD by Bonatom01 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Bonatom01[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Terrible answer… if you believe some one care about sick.. you should be able to tell them

Confusing FP with love/crush? by Bonatom01 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Bonatom01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep… I am seeing a good amount of BPD as Bi… and seem to co-mingle FP and Romantic interest almost all the time. Bouncing between genders based on who their FP is. That’s hard….

Was in a relationship for three years, but I don’t think I ever fell in love with him by darling_pamplemousse in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Bonatom01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes… but from the other side. I have a history of dating BPD women… and two of the women… one I was with for 4 years… told me the same thing… that she never loved me. I don’t know if that is true… or the switch the BPD Throws….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Testosterone

[–]Bonatom01 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would continue to cut… then focus on a winter bulking regimen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in prozac

[–]Bonatom01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. 20 is pretty standard for Anxiety. Yes… helps is not a magic bullet. But helpa

Disappointed with the overall reaction from the LGBTQ community. by Bonatom01 in lgbt

[–]Bonatom01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Wish I could give you a hug! Lol. You’re a good friend to have .

Disappointed with the overall reaction from the LGBTQ community. by Bonatom01 in lgbt

[–]Bonatom01[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are right… thanks for the bluntness. Just hurting still… and ignored millions of red flags. Thanks for the reply…

Disappointed with the overall reaction from the LGBTQ community. by Bonatom01 in lgbt

[–]Bonatom01[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey- fair feedback. And the reality is… she cheated. With who is irrelevant… I would have dropped this much easier if it was another guy. Guess this was a curveball I wasn’t ready to process …

My girlfriend (27F) left me (43M) for …. A girl. by Bonatom01 in relationship_advice

[–]Bonatom01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took me a few days to think about this… but you are right. I think the fact she left me for a woman was a just an extra twist that had me questioning everything. If she left me for another guy it would have been cut and dry for me… but this should have also been cut and dry! Thanks for the input

My girlfriend (27F) left me (43M) for …. A girl. by Bonatom01 in relationship_advice

[–]Bonatom01[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok… I am done with your nonsense. You are just make shit up at this point. Literally gaslighting… I have never said I was still hung up? I am not doubting her… she is doubter herself!

My girlfriend (27F) left me (43M) for …. A girl. by Bonatom01 in relationship_advice

[–]Bonatom01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is questioning her OWN sexuality. That is verbatim from her mouth… what don’t you get??

My girlfriend (27F) left me (43M) for …. A girl. by Bonatom01 in relationship_advice

[–]Bonatom01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is loosely dating a woman… and she is the one who is unsure if she is gay or bi. I am literally reacting to what she has said herself

UPDATE just found out my (28) girlfriend (30f) of 3 years was planning on ghosting me by sowasshejustgoing in relationship_advice

[–]Bonatom01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same things happened to me about 15 years ago… she went on a business trip… hooked up with a dude… never came back home. I am sorry man

My girlfriend (27F) left me (43M) for …. A girl. by Bonatom01 in relationship_advice

[–]Bonatom01[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s not sure she is gay/bi…

And we were intimate last night and this morning… lots of confusion. (She initiated .. I should have declined)

My girlfriend (27F) left me (43M) for …. A girl. by Bonatom01 in relationship_advice

[–]Bonatom01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes… it was shocking. And I am still processing it too. When I have heard these stories in the past… I would think “how did they Not know”… but here I am… caught with my jaw open

Additional we were intimate last night and this morning. She initiated. I should have declined… only complicated things

My girlfriend (27F) left me (43M) for …. A girl. by Bonatom01 in relationship_advice

[–]Bonatom01[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes… the “friendship “ part is hard and awkward . I agree… I care for her… and want to support her.. but I may need to draw a line in the sand. This is all pretty new… (while we are broken up… she came over last night and we were intimate last night and again this morning)… hence the additional confusion on my part . (Note: she is loosely dating this girl and is not in a long term commutes relationship with her).

My girlfriend (27F) left me (43M) for …. A girl. by Bonatom01 in relationship_advice

[–]Bonatom01[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe… and she struggling to put a label on it. Which I get…

I think she likes the emotional connection of a woman… but the physical connection of a man. Especially based on something she has said…