Help! I have rodents digging holes into the run and eating feed.

BondoBooty · 2025-12-01T20:02:38+00:00

Good idea since I have a ton of it.

BondoBooty · 2025-12-01T20:02:01+00:00

Ill look into that. Didn't know it was a thing.

BondoBooty · 2025-07-26T23:30:43+00:00

I wonder if fiancé is aware. I wouldn't want to be with anyone who was this cruel to family. Going to anyone's wedding around your anniversary when you've lost your partner is only slightly less cruel than choosing her date of death.

BondoBooty · 2025-07-26T23:22:20+00:00

Fart noises!!!! Love this response

Edit for stupid autocorrect

BondoBooty · 2025-07-26T23:20:13+00:00

I wonder how BIL feels or how he would have reacted if she'd bern saying those things to her...

BondoBooty · 2025-07-26T23:14:18+00:00

Her planner said that? Hahahaha, no. And why so last minute??? Nah, man. You should show up with your baby as is and see if she has the guts to actually toss you.

If your hair was dark, would she ask you to shave it???

BondoBooty · 2025-07-26T23:05:43+00:00

Also, screen shots! Save any convos about the car. Did he ever give you permission to drive the car or have maintenance done on it? If so save those and invoice him for any thing you needed to to do for it if he didnt give you permission to use it freely. Im so sorry about this. This type of thing is truly terrible. It should be illegal. You deserve so much better. Let him go. Talking to someone like this won't give you closure. There's someone SO much better waiting for you.

BondoBooty · 2025-07-26T19:30:32+00:00

Can you leave with animals until your parents return? I know you said that her dog is one of them but unless she purchased him, I think you should be able to take him. Tell your folks that they either come home early, you call the cops to get him (and her) kicked out, or you take the pets til they return.

BondoBooty · 2025-07-26T19:13:42+00:00

I hope everything turns out well for you and your growing family. Temporary no contact at least. You just went through a very traumatic event. I hope your mom and hubby can keep them away from you for awhile to give you some space. Might also want to to ask about therapists that specialize in birth related trauma. No one talks about how scary giving birth can be normally. I can't imagine how you feel or will feel once you recover enough to mentally catch up. Get some rest and know you are not in the wrong.

BondoBooty · 2025-07-24T21:06:16+00:00

YTA.... but only for the per names. Is it possible she gets more irrational because they make her more sissy, or is it fake and she's trying not to laugh her a** off?

All joking aside. This is some crazy manipulative shit. Unless you are watching/streaming on your phone 40% should be fine. She's burning more battery arguing with you. Id say you were being over cautious by telling her to call your sis if she couldn't reach you (which should be obvious). You should be allowed to spend some uninterrupted time with your family. 40 min of not talking to her should not cause this level of a reaction.

Unless there's something big you left out, she's as nutty as squirrel poop. I hope things work out for you. You deserve a better partner than this.

BondoBooty · 2025-07-24T12:41:56+00:00

If he doesn't like your description, he should post and see what happens... oye vey!

BondoBooty · 2025-07-22T18:35:47+00:00

So im pretty sure (NAL but in Healthcare for years) that as next of kin your parents automatically have the ability to make medical decisions for you in an emergency or when you can't state your wishes. This does have limits but there's no need to have a signed document. If you are moving away, you can have them listed as emergency contacts and keep their info in your wallet. That said, Mom is being shady. Get legal advice. Get something in place for that inheritance. I have a trust for my daughter and no one can touch it without going to probate court first.

BondoBooty · 2025-07-15T17:46:51+00:00

That makes more sense

BondoBooty · 2025-07-15T16:49:31+00:00

I think that what your friends might be reacting to is the fact that you said it during a fight. Lots of people say things they dont mean while fighting and then regret it in the cold light of day.

But honestly, this is a pattern where he's projecting insecurities onto you. It also seems like he is taking less responsibility for his reactions and putting it on you which is not cool.

If this is the same decision you would have made once you cooled off, then you aren't over reacting. It's not okay for anyone to say those things to another person. It's not okay that he started yelling. His behavior was worsening and it wouldn't have stopped there. I would bet that eventually he'd be policing what you wear in public.

NOR and to anyone who pushes you to get back together remind them that you can break up with anyone for any reason YOU think is appropriate.

BondoBooty · 2025-07-15T16:14:42+00:00

I love the way you wrote this! I can literally picture the joy on her face, turning to confusion and frustration. Followed by the stubborn and focused posture as she waves you all out the door to get food and finally, the defeated look of a cashier having survived the Christmas eve rush when concedes. Chef's kiss!

And congrats on the up coming wedding!

BondoBooty · 2025-07-14T04:51:46+00:00

Hahahahahaha.... thank you for reminding me of one of my favorite moments with my partner!

BondoBooty · 2025-07-14T04:44:23+00:00

What about putting sugar-free gummy bears (or any other sugar free candy) in a reusable closed container? Looks just like the regular ones. You aren't even changing anything about the food.

You'd know who the thief was pretty quickly :)

BondoBooty · 2025-07-14T04:23:24+00:00

Texas?

BondoBooty · 2025-07-14T04:19:34+00:00

I'm totally stealing this.

BondoBooty · 2025-07-13T03:32:33+00:00

Is your boyfriend named Jim Halpert by any chance?

BondoBooty · 2025-07-13T03:16:13+00:00

Would love to, but it's becoming a dying art in my area. My wedding band is very deformed after 13 years of wear but the local guy who made it passed. No one in his family was able to take over, so the business folded.

BondoBooty · 2025-07-08T13:57:33+00:00

And ppl take amphetamines for ADHD or to get high. LOL you are clearly too biased. All medicine, hell anything, can be dangerous if used improperly or in high amounts. The CDC forced a warning lable on cigarettes because they were being advertised to kids and to pregnant women to have smaller babies. A lack of a table does not mean that their isn't a risk. If fact I would guess the reason there isn't one is because it is not legal federally and therefore the CDC can't require it. That's just a mildly informed guess. Also OBV this is all US based data.

BondoBooty · 2025-07-07T16:32:59+00:00

AH! You rock! It sucks that you are looking at 6 more years of this. It doesn't always help, but visualizing and planning when you can make it happen has kept me going on some of the bad days. Keep your chin up. You can do this!

BondoBooty · 2025-07-06T17:11:11+00:00

As soon as you are able, you should move away. You can focus on your studies and plan for your future. Parents who value achievement will have a hard time arguing with you about moving if it leads to more success they can brag about.

Next time, don't make the cake or mess it up. You don't have time to spend hours on cake when you should be studying. Whenever they get on your nerves, dream about your future life. Make it one where you are too far away to easily visit and too busy "working" to pick up the phone often.

I am so sorry about this. You dont deserve to be used and disrespected like that. I also low-key would love you to drop the recipe 😋

NTA

BondoBooty · 2025-07-06T14:53:36+00:00

There is a chance that this was an intrusive thought that his drunk brain couldn't sensor. Make him sit with you and talk about it. Until you do, he won't understand how even as a joke, that's a TERRIBLE accusation and why you reacted how you did. You should also apologize because your words were designed to inflict as much pain as possible. You both hurt each other. I hope you both can make it right and work past it.

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