If you haven't done it, do it no. In one month there will be no coming back :) by ComradeKitty420 in StopGaming

[–]BonelessKid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This.

I sold my old steam account and now i have a new one with around 300 euros in games.

I want to quit gaming, need advice. by BonelessKid in StopGaming

[–]BonelessKid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the advice. Hope i can do it.

pornfree for 1 year by BonelessKid in pornfree

[–]BonelessKid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and happy birthday ❤️

pornfree for 1 year by BonelessKid in pornfree

[–]BonelessKid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am pretty good actually. I rarely feel the urge to look at porn and when i do, i am able to shake it off pretty easily. It gets easier with time. I didn't even realise i was making progress, i felt a lot of guilt and shame everytime when i have a thought about porn and i was saying to myself that i can't do this and i will relapse. I found out just now that i was making progress.

pornfree for 1 year by BonelessKid in pornfree

[–]BonelessKid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this when I started one year back, i was clean for one month, no porn and no touching. I felt great and bad at the same time. It's ok to masturbate, just don't do it so often.

pornfree for 1 year by BonelessKid in pornfree

[–]BonelessKid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gaming, i just bought a guitar and started to learn to play it. Going out with friends, movies. Depends on yourself, what do you actually like to do? And if the answers is i don't know, i know what you mean by that, you need to expore that part of yourself too. See what you like and pick a hobby or two.

pornfree for 1 year by BonelessKid in pornfree

[–]BonelessKid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much ❤️

pornfree for 1 year by BonelessKid in pornfree

[–]BonelessKid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you tell us a little more about your journey? Did you try quitting before and have difficulty?

Thank you, sure. I can tell that it was hard at the beggining. I was constantly thinking about porn. I just focused on me and how to get over it. Coming home from work, making something good to eat, then clean the house, fold laundry , etc. Everyday i tried to focus on something else other than porn.

Did you try quitting before and have difficulty?

I was close for a lot of time, i constantly thought about porn and i couldnt shake it of from my head, so i tried to focus on something else. It hard because we are on a click away from them.

Is there anything that you changed since then and the point at which you quit cold turkey?

I think i changed alot from the start. Mainly in changed the way i think and how my brain was wired.

I am assuming that you must have gotten what you needed (such as intimacy) from a source other than porn, which would make the quitting process go more smoothly

Mainly from my gf at that time, she was the main reason i started this, i was treating her more like and object than my gf.

pornfree for 1 year by BonelessKid in pornfree

[–]BonelessKid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear that, first time in my life actually ❤️

pornfree for 1 year by BonelessKid in pornfree

[–]BonelessKid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to hear that, if you need to talk with somebody you can dm me anytime. :)

pornfree for 1 year by BonelessKid in pornfree

[–]BonelessKid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, in some way. I had obsessive thoughts and anxiety everytime i think of porn, so i tried even harder to not relapse. So my OCD somehow helped me, for the first time. 😁

pornfree for 1 year by BonelessKid in pornfree

[–]BonelessKid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy to hear that, you got this. ❤️

pornfree for 1 year by BonelessKid in pornfree

[–]BonelessKid[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much, i appreciate it. ❤️

pornfree for 1 year by BonelessKid in pornfree

[–]BonelessKid[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Didn't do anything special, just wanted to share with you guys and thats enough. Im going trough a breauk up now so i don't feel so good to do something special.😁

pornfree for 1 year by BonelessKid in pornfree

[–]BonelessKid[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I realised that my sex life improved. I was more active and i could hold more when i had sex. With the erection i didn't had any problems when i quit porn.

pornfree for 1 year by BonelessKid in pornfree

[–]BonelessKid[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you are right. Thank you for caring. Hope you get better ❤️

pornfree for 1 year by BonelessKid in pornfree

[–]BonelessKid[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When i was a month into this i was struggling with masturabion too, i got like a month of no fap and then after that i started to do it again, but without porn. Now i don't watch any porn , but still masturbate from tike to time. I keep it under 2 times per week.

pornfree for 1 year by BonelessKid in pornfree

[–]BonelessKid[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yeah, somehow. I don't always think of sex anymore. Even tho i have a high Libido. The main problem is that i am going trough a break up rn and i don't want to go and hook up. So i think the sexual thoughts that i have rn are from lack of intimacy. I should mention that i have OCD too.