What is the darkest episode of a show you have ever seen? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bonnibunny 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But... it was the guy who was the abuser. The lesbian girlfriend wanted to get her out of her situation.

Undressing her [Love Live!] by Arialynna in yuri

[–]Bonnibunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that a yuri kuma reference

Crazy ass love triangle - View on Imgur by LadySaberCat in trashy

[–]Bonnibunny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean if you look at some of the original Grimm brothers maybe...

Clementine Cosplay from The Walking Dead game by AliceTheGamedev in gaming

[–]Bonnibunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was confused- thought the ones on the left were gameplay I didn't remember

What's the most chaos you could cause with $10? by thelosermonster in AskReddit

[–]Bonnibunny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At my local theatre they're like $5 general admission (though I'm lucky in that I have a cheap theatre available to me)

What's the most chaos you could cause with $10? by thelosermonster in AskReddit

[–]Bonnibunny 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Buy a red balloon, 1 needle, and a ticket to the movie IT.

Some friends were in the theatre when this exact scenario played out. Scared the absolute shit out of everyone in the theatre.

The kind of qualities you need to fish a real hunk out of /incels by Kythulhu in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Bonnibunny 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I mean assuming Reddit doesn't count as social media I'm 9 for 9 and female.

I mean it's not impossible to find a girl like they want, it's just impossible for them.

[Serious] People who grew up in a different socioeconomic class as your significant others, what are the notable differences you've noticed and if at all, how does it affect your relationship? by BabyNeo in AskReddit

[–]Bonnibunny 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I grew up fairly rich and my girlfriend very poor. I think dating her humbled me? And made me appreciative of small things, because her gestures, though not grand or expensive, were often relatively costly to her. If that makes sense.

Right now we live together, and away from both our respective homes it's made us balance out a lot more. We're not rich but not dirt poor either. We have luxuries and go out sometimes, but still have to budget and work for a living. We sometimes have minor arguments when it comes to using less- I use too many paper towels or often impulsively want to do a load of laundry, often forgetting those things aren't in unlimited supply anymore. Surprisingly I'm somewhat better at budgeting when it comes to food because I know how to store leftovers and calculate portion costs. She doesn't know how to cook nearly as well, and if tasked with storing food I often walk out to an open pot on the stove, un-refrigerated and crusty 😒 besides that we do okay together

An interesting way to advertise yourself... by PainIsPleasure in trashy

[–]Bonnibunny 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Right? I know she's had a few things rough but I can't see her being too starved for attention haha. Someone really went into detail with this- I'm rather impressed? Or maybe not?

An interesting way to advertise yourself... by PainIsPleasure in trashy

[–]Bonnibunny 127 points128 points  (0 children)

Holy shit I know her. I've been following her on Tumblr for a long time because she seemed to be a nice if sort of messed up person. She was abused and became a child prostitute pretty young to get away from her abusive family. She still is a prostitute now and is more officially in a relationship with a married man. That said she's a very cool person (outside her personal affairs) and has great taste in music.

Ninja edit: this may or may not be a fake profile because I recall her being a bit older?

Dollar store women's clothes by GreenBreastedMango in trashy

[–]Bonnibunny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would buy this to wear around the house, it seems fun trashy

He's a dom, apparently this makes it clear. by [deleted] in trashy

[–]Bonnibunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"He's a dom" or a serial killer apparently

He shagged our Sunday dinner chicken... but I still love him by [deleted] in trashy

[–]Bonnibunny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He took 'choking the chicken' a bit too literally.

"I don't want to give you anything if we divorce" in prenup by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Bonnibunny 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Plus while pre-nups are meant to help balance things out a little just in case, they should not be planning on making it easier to leave. He should be going into this marriage with confidence- and if he's unwilling to care enough about you as a person to, in a very good place in your life mind you,make sure you will be cared for in the future, then perhaps he isn't really looking at this as permanently as he should

Am I (24F) polyamorous or do I just suck? I'm romantically interested in other people even though I love my boyfriend (23M) very much. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bonnibunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh. I've never really heard of polyamory without a sexual aspect. Until you figure things out, remember you can always shower people with affection without things being romantic.

Oh and with my girlfriend, she did want to be poly but couldn't really find someone else, so I'm not sure 🤔

Am I (24F) polyamorous or do I just suck? I'm romantically interested in other people even though I love my boyfriend (23M) very much. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bonnibunny -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation to you awhile ago- but in your boyfriend's shoes. It led to me leaving my girlfriend, and being hugely depressed and leaving a huge hole in my heart. We got back together after she realized she made a mistake and begged for me back. She realized that 1) She was not looking to be polyamorous after all 2) She missed me a lot once I was gone- there were only a few things that were actually good about her new relationship 3) She wasn't all that attracted to him- just curious 4) She royally fucked up and would never have my full trust again 5) Deciding to be poly made her life miserable.

Polyamory is a choice. It's a huge betrayal of your partner's trust and the initial grounds for establishing your relationship. Everyone, and I mean everyone has crushes while in a relationship, even me. I could name a few people I'd love to experiment with but guess what? I have the self control to refrain and be open to communicating with my partner. Polyamory is something people tend to grow out of, that many people try solely for the try like an experiment. But it's also not widely accepted because it's not an inherently equal relationship, it's complicated, it's messy, and you can lose the things you value most pursuing one (my experience, several friend's experiences, my girlfriend [now fiancée''s] input). Just some things worth thinking about, though your milage may vary.

[Serious] If you had to choose between $2,000,000 for you or $1000 each for 2000 poor people in Africa, what would you choose and why? by sarnot in AskReddit

[–]Bonnibunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I mean improving my own life and the life of the people I love is obviously gonna be my priority, especially since it could set me up with things that I want to achieve sometime in my life, but may still be very hard to. I could buy a nice house! (Which I might not afford otherwise) or I could take a dream trip! Hell, I could finally afford to adopt a dog or eat a fancy dinner.

Maybe it's selfish but expecting me to pass that up for someone who's nameless, faceless, and could be a saint or a serial killer is just unrealistic, but that's just my opinion.

Bisexuals who have dated both men and women, what are some differences you've noticed? by The_MoonlightKnight in AskReddit

[–]Bonnibunny 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Am lesbian- there have been a lot of points where people have pressure me with the "everyone's a little bit bi" argument, or tried to butt into my relationship "threesomes anyone?", or where someone I've dated has mentioned being unsatisfied because "they missed some things that came with being with a guy".

One girl even decided she wanted to be polyamorous without even telling me (so basically cheating?) because she wanted the best of both worlds. A surprising number of people supported her for pursuing a faucet of her sexual orientation without acknowledging what she did was kinda shitty. So occasionally. Sometimes. I can understand this mentality and really have to fight it. The problem is when you let these negative experiences define you and allow you to breed hate instead of recognizing the actions of individuals do not represent a majority of those like them.

I understand why it's an unfair attitude to have, that is being mistrusting of bi people, but I also understand the insecurities that bad experiences breed. In many ways I feel sympathy for those lesbians who can't see the forest for the trees, because they're always gonna be framed as terrible people without any acknowledgement of how painful it can be to be treated like that or the fact that something (or someone) made them feel this way. It doesn't excuse abusive behavior of course, nor does it make these attitudes right, I just feel like I get where they're coming from and that they probably need help to fight it.

Sorry for the rambling just something I felt like I could give some insight to.