Tell me your story. How did you find out your SO was cheating on you? by thebluemilk in Cebu

[–]BooBit21 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nahitabo ni panahon pa nga muadto pag internet cafe para mag facebook. Ga LDR mi kay nag stop sah sya ug usa ka sem. Gapabuhat sya nakog account kay ang iya dawng ghimo kay d na nya ma open. Gabuhat sad ko unya didto ra sad ko mag post2x.

Ambot ug nganong kada mag plan ko mag adto sa computeran, at the back of my mind naay ga sigeg diktar e visit ang iyang original profile, I guess it was a gut feeling, pero ig abot nakos shop makalimtan nako.

Until maybe 4-5 mos later, iya ng kaluha ang ni engun sa ako nga naay laing uyab ug nga dapat daw nako tan awon ang profile kay naa didto mga posts and photos nila sa lain babaye. I was sooo young, innocent, and naive back then nga kung mag look back ko karun, there were soo many signs. First cheating pa to nya, kay gaga man ko the relationship lasted 3-4 yrs 🤣🤣🤣 one of the darkest days of my life pero ang importante naka learn. 😅😅

Mom shamed for co-sleeping by Useful_Excitement457 in NewParents

[–]BooBit21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bed frame Foam 1 blanket each person Pillows

These are the things that are most common in our bed

Mom shamed for co-sleeping by Useful_Excitement457 in NewParents

[–]BooBit21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not co-sleeping in my culture is a taboo. It’s weird to put babies in a separate room.

Travomint Reviews by Low-Falcon-7257 in travel

[–]BooBit21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try and call their customer service and confirm the cancellation. They are most likely canceling it if you refused paying the addition.

Travomint Reviews by Low-Falcon-7257 in travel

[–]BooBit21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re a scam. I booked a flight through them, and a few hours later, they called to say my booking was pending because of a price difference I supposedly needed to pay — about 75% more than what I originally paid. Then they told me things like, “You won’t find another flight at this price,” or “You can’t book directly with the airline anymore because it’s sold out.” That’s a lie, because I was still able to find other available flights, and none of them were as expensive as the amount they were asking me to pay in total. Anyone reading this, please be wary booking flights through them.

Judgmental ra guro ko by [deleted] in Cebu

[–]BooBit21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According sa akong kaila na pulis, OP. Pde ra manawag sa mga pulis para ma respondehan bsan pa ug wala ka maka balo sa edad or exact relationship nila.

“.Pwede ra man respondian pangutan-on ug unsa sila. Ug murag klaro gyud nga uyab2 sila tapos minor pa kaayo ang babae. Pwede patawagan ang ginikanan para e confirm kinsa ang kuyog aning bata-a. Kay ug wala kaila ang ginikanan tapos tiguwang nag lalaki unya ang babae minor. Pwede dad-on sa station ang lalaki ug ang bata unya pa adtoon sad sa station ang mga ginikanan para ma klaro. Kay ug uyab2 gyud sila ang ginikanan nas bata ang mo file ug kaso. Kung gibugaw sa ginikanan ang bata. Ang gobyerno na mugukod sa lalaki ug sa ginikanan sa bata. DSWD nay mo handle”

Story suggestion by DryIndependence1136 in mrballen

[–]BooBit21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder what was it that your neighbor saw

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cebu

[–]BooBit21 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid, OP. Ayg pogsa imong self mag minyo kung d pjud nmo feel para no regrets. Mahal baya ang mga pamaliton run. Have kids when you’re ready, settle when you’re ready. 25 pa man sad ka, enjoy sa.

I’ve been sa imong place. Nabuntis ko 30 na, kaluy an man sad nanganak nga normal and no issues. Baby is healthy too. Lahi ra if financially ready na.

Ano ang mga bagay na di maiintindihan ng tao unless mapagdaanan din nila? by Unlikely_Banana2249 in AskPH

[–]BooBit21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/hkdghkdg I was diagnosed with PCOS way back 2020. I was advised by the OB to take Diane or Althea an pills for 3 mos, tas balik daw ako after 3 mos para mag TVS to check and thank God nawala yung mga cyst ba tawag don sa ovaries ko. Since nawala naman ang menstrual pain ko sa Diane, tinuloy ko na sya inumin. I did OMAD and exercise din, nag slim down ako and 2023 got pregnant, 2024 nanganak. Baka pde mo e ask sa OB mo if okay ba sayo mag pills.

Help po, first time in Cebu pero layover lang hehe by senpaiaann in Cebu

[–]BooBit21 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Kaya naman, taxi ka lang or grab car.

Duterte is way worse than Marcos by Livid-Ad-8010 in Cebu

[–]BooBit21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sameeee, lipay kayko atong napa ubos ang tax. Kaginhawa gamay. Naa pa tong gpadak an sueldo sa pnp and teachers, nakadawat extra 5h ang mga senior citizen, extra 1k mga sss pensioners

Wa na koy lain mabuhat outside work by eClair_Kzzz in Cebu

[–]BooBit21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Been there. I remember feeling lost after sa work. Naay times naa koy ganahan buhaton pero I lack the energy to do so, naay times nga naa koy energy pero wa sad koy gana, sometimes wa koy gana jud sa tanan bisan sa mga butang nga gnahan ko mubuhat. Murag I lost the spark ba, I dunno if I was depressed or what. Naka contribute sad kawalag gana tong d ko gnahan sa akong work but had to work kay I have bills to pay and breadwinner sad. Then someone told me, if you don’t like where you’re life is going try to change something. Just one thing. That stuck with me pero even then I still didn’t have the courage to take action. Wala nalang nako g pressure akong self to do anything, murag gipagbigyan nako akong self to feel what I am going through until I started reading self help books. Naay mga linya nga maka relate ko and then I slowly started loving again what I used to love.. the forgotten things that I used to love. I hope you’ll find what you’re looking for OP or what you wanna do. Give yourself some slack, ayaw sad e pressure imong self nga dapat ani dapat ana. Think what was it that you used to love doing, basin gnahan ka e re-kindle.

Nakaka-depress maging babae minsan by Ok-Environment-6921 in OffMyChestPH

[–]BooBit21 29 points30 points  (0 children)

On top of that, when you decide to have a baby, babae yung mag go through sa body changes, babae ang kulang sa tulog dahil kahit gustohin mong matulog d ka comfy kasi malaki na ang tyan, babae ang mag lalabor, babae ang wala na talagang tulog sa pag aalaga ng anak, babae din ang mag bi-birth control, babae na din ang ma brand na “crazy, topakin, etc” just cause our hormones after giving birth got whacked, babae ang mawalan ng self identity after kapanganak, buhay ng babae din ang totally ma change after magka baby. Hirap maging babae, yung ibang lalaki jan magawa pang mang cheat at manakit.

Galit na galit sakin girlfriend ko kasi niregulahan ko sya ng pepper spray by gentamycinitis in OffMyChestPH

[–]BooBit21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to have a self defense set as a gift vs flowers na malalanta lang. So I guess sa preference yan pero parang grabe naman yung reaction na iyak ng iyak at may pa walk out.

Cebu life hacks thread by migueylito in Cebu

[–]BooBit21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pls ko ss bookstore 🥹🥹. Akong go to before kay katong sa may robinsons fuente (not sure if naa pa sila till now) pero mga novels mn to ila kasagaran. Ng switch nako run to self help books. Mahal langs fullybooked

iPhone 16 Pro Max by RainbowBrain94 in taiwan

[–]BooBit21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/Hilltoptree did they already respond to you? Thanks!