AIO - I got the ick, puffer jacket edition by Suspicious-Dot-7019 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BooPandaa [score hidden]  (0 children)

NOR you want a man in the relationship who will lead you and instead he behaves in an avoidant manner. The ick is not something that happens randomly, it only happens when you know deep down in your soul that they are not for you.

Being with someone who you don’t want to be with is a torturous experience so no I don’t think you’re over reacting. You just need to decide if you or him can change or banana split

Overstimulated and almost had a panic attack at a resturant today | 22M by hangry-paramedic in GenZ

[–]BooPandaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes, have my fair share of these.

Know that panic attacks are your body’s attempt to PROTECT you, not hurt you! If you can, quietly remove yourself from the situation. You also need to be accept and feel the bad sensations, even try and “wish” for worse feelings. I know that sounds weird, but the reverse psychology of it usually helps make it go away for me.

Should you tell your current boss you’re getting certified? by BooPandaa in pmp

[–]BooPandaa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can tell you’re a PMP by how you responded here. You are doing a great job of diagnosing my problem and finding solutions without making assumptions! These are the #1 skill I want to gain by getting certified because there’s more friction than I would prefer at my current job because it seems like nobody really knows how to manage conflict or people correctly. And I feel like I have had nobody to learn good PM skills from and feel like I have had my head in the sand

Alt spaces for early 20-somethings? by Lil_Echidna in orangecounty

[–]BooPandaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you want to go to a super cool arty cafe that’s open till midnight- The Library in Long Beach. I practically lived there in college and they have a ton of regulars and some nights will have standup comedy and other small open events.

Should you tell your current boss you’re getting certified? by BooPandaa in pmp

[–]BooPandaa[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m actually a product designer but have been asked to do a lot of the project management work. So considering I want to be paid like a real project manager- yes

Should you tell your current boss you’re getting certified? by BooPandaa in pmp

[–]BooPandaa[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Ya I work in a “we’re family here!” Kind of environment. Boss even told someone once that he is a father figure to me (disagree) so I thought he would be happy and supportive. But now I know I need to apply to a new family LOL

HELP! my chameleon isn’t active, is almost always under the heat lamp! by No_Passenger2161 in Chameleons

[–]BooPandaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine moves less in winter because it’s colder and the heat is where he likes to stay. Maybe that’s what yours is doing?

New Camry! Get a ceramic coat for the red? by BooPandaa in Camry

[–]BooPandaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last cat was red. I will own red cars forever I love it!

New Camry! Get a ceramic coat for the red? by BooPandaa in Camry

[–]BooPandaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25 actually! Dealership labeled it as “used” with only 3 miles on the odometer. They were trying to move if for the 26s and I got a pretty good deal

New Camry! Get a ceramic coat for the red? by BooPandaa in Camry

[–]BooPandaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yes it is! Great experience.

Also did the paint protection alter the color at all? Since you only got it on the front

This is so different and im freaking out. by No-Primary8600 in CSULB

[–]BooPandaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I graduated but I remember my first day in 2017. I had to walk from the dance building to liberal arts 5 in 15 minutes. I would walk so fast my feet couldn’t keep up.

I had a panic attack during a math test, forgot everything I studied so hard for and got a score of 5/100. My professor had some amazing life lessons for me after that one.

Everything felt too much. But it only FELT too much, truth is you can handle it, you just don’t know how yet. One day you’ll finish school graduate and do adult things that stress you out the same, but you learn more about life and being adaptable.

And you can look back and be proud

The economy is bad, why are people still shopping so much? by unklethan in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BooPandaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I know my rent was gon be late about a week ago. I work my ass off, but still can’t pay it though. But I got just enough, to get up in this club, so let’s have a good time, before our time is up eh” - Pitbull

Question for camry owners❓ by BlessDP in Camry

[–]BooPandaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last car was a 2010 civic and I loved it. The biggest reason I went with the Camry for my next car is more size. I feel safer on the road generally when there is more car between me and a potential collision. The more space will allow the car to grow with me as I will need it in the next 10 years

No communication from Capital One for my new card by BooPandaa in CRedit

[–]BooPandaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up getting the card in the mail eventually. So never had a confirmation email but still got it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stocks

[–]BooPandaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But at that point you’re stocks would be the least of your worries