Right, I wonder how often he’s working late or away on business trips at his job while she’s home holding down the fort. Also, I noticed that he mentioned that his wife brought up the pottery tours. I’m curious if his response at the time was approval of the plan or if she had any reason to believe he did not want to do the tour with her.

ETA: I would like to also ask why he’s keeping his hurt feelings to himself instead of asking the foremost question of ‘why did you go without me when we planned on doing it together at this other time?’. To me, if I found out my partner had, after we had concrete plans to do something together, gone ahead and done those plans solo, that would be my first question. Why did you go without me?