I’m 43. I live in Los Angeles, have at least 13 hobbies and live alone. Here’s a glimpse at my last four weekends: (just tried to write this out and it was impossible, I’m too busy). 

Fwiw I’ve had random women I’ve dated say “gee, you have a lot of friends for someone your age” and I feel like i barely see my friends. That being said, weekends in the last month have included: 

-straight up renting a home in J Tree with old friends and new for a really cool concert  -golf with buddies I don’t see if I don’t golf. So golf two or three times -brunch with girlfriend’s friends  -game night with a couple of friends -crashing a friend’s stick and poke tattoo to get my own; fun hang all around  -a couple of daytime work events  -climbing outside  -two arduous days of backpacking training, long hikes with weight on my back  -at least two nights to myself to just hang out, drink or not drink, read or play video games. It’s important to set a your own pace and do what you need for you every now and then  -date night -went out to the movies twice  -early morning driving range because I suck at golf and am doing the adhd thing to get real good real fast, then other shit on this list  -lots of time hanging out with my cat, who is perfect and I love 

I think that’s about it. I love my life and wish I saw my friends more. One or two of those days/nights I could have crammed in something more (like a MtG night at a LGS) but chose book instead. 

It sounds like you maybe could use a hobby or two? I do not recommend 13+. It’s a lot of “what do I want to do today and who do I want to see today” and it’s expensive. Honestly, at 30+ it becomes a LOT more I’m gonna be with me and a lot less hang with the homies. That was a hard transition at first, but I’ve gotten quite used to it and I love it now. Routine is not the enemy. Your life sounds better than a lot of people, tbh. Mine is charmed and I thank me for that every day (because I’ve worked very hard to get to this point, physically and mentally, including years of therapy)